There is nothing worse than letting your sex life get stale. The harsh truth is that unless you are actively trying to boost her experience during intercourse, the odds are incredibly high that things are already turning to worse.
Thankfully, after reading our 8 awesome tips below you will give your love life an electroshock treatment that may reignite the spark between the two of you.
Get Her into The Mood
One of the biggest reason women do not enjoy sex is that their biggest sex organ – brain – is preoccupied with daily worries. You need to eliminate these from her mind!
The best way to do this is to take the time to give her a long and relaxing foreplay that she will love.
Depending on her mood and preference, you can try sexting, passionate kissing, sensual massage, playing with her breast, teasing her through clothes, being dominant, and blindfolding her or even soft bondage!
Be Spontaneous & Take Initiative
Too often – especially in the long-term and committed relationships – it’s easy to slide into the routine of “Wednesday afternoon sex”. That’s the last thing that anyone looks forward to!
Did you know that routine and boredom are two main issues why women cheat on their partner?
Therefore, you should be as spontaneous as you possibly can, taking advantage of any situation (the best are when she least expects it).
Is she cooking dinner? Surprise her with a quickie on kitchen counter or table. Is she watching a movie on a sofa? Why go to the bedroom when you can have a fun time right there!
Talk Dirty to Her
While most men would agree that there’s nothing better than a bit of dirty talk during sex, the truth of the matter is that most guys are pretty terrible at this.
Therefore, here are a few basic tips from my guide to talking dirty you can try even tonight without messing things up:
- Moan and groan
- Whisper what are you going to do to her
- Say what you want her to do to you
- Tell her how great she is in pleasuring you
Although all that groaning is certainly going to help you out, getting a little bit loud – and not holding back on the dirty talk – can ramp things up in a hurry.
Be Dominant & Lead Her
While it’s fun to have her slide on top every once in a while, the truth of the matter is that most women are looking for you to take the lead. Sure, we’ve all been led to believe that there’s some “Disney” way to make love.
While that works every once in a while, it’s probably not what she has been dreaming about lately.
If you can effectively balance between holding the line of control and your inner beast you’ll be able to fulfill her sexual fantasies like a very few (if any) has ever been able to before.
Have Sex at Different Places
Did you know that most women have at least a little bit of a fantasy about public sex? The thought of “getting caught” will bring your excitement to new levels.
This will lead to much better sex.
If you’re looking for a bit of a throwback practice, don’t be afraid about the back seat of your car. It can also be exciting to grab a hotel room in a nearby city for just a single night, actually taking things to the next level.
Experiment With New Positions
You can also bring a little bit of spice and excitement to your everyday positions if you throw on just a few small variations. Traditional missionary can be boosted by sliding a pillow beneath her bottom, allowing for deeper penetration.
There is an endless amount of different typical poses and variations you can try out as experimenting with new things is probably the easiest way to boost spontaneity of your sex life in an instant.
Share Your Fantasies
You both should speak about your sexual fantasies and see if you can work them into your “repertoire.” Don’t try to push or rush things – just let it come naturally and watch as your love life changes dramatically.
If you want to try something spicy, then I highly recommend this article – BDSM Mastery: Make Her Crave More with These Master & Slave Principles.
Use Toys, Role-Playing & Costumes
In fact, there is only a handful of things that can boost your love life quite like female sex toys and role play! It’s best to start small before diving into the “heavy equipment” as you need to gain the trust of your partner first.
Just start with simple stuff like blindfolding, handcuffs, and small vibrators. You have to be moving forward at a level and speed that your lady is comfortable with.
Information that you have found above is very powerful!
Do not take these tips to turn yourself into some indiscriminate sex God – a man who easily dominates any woman sexually for your personal benefit – while forgetting entirely that your partner is an essential component as well.
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