Having a quickie can be a fantastic experience, but many people do not know how to make it an amazing 5 minutes of passion! While sex shouldn’t be complicated, everything has to be just perfect to reach the maximum potential of quick, passionate intercourse.
Whether she is merely a fling or someone you plan on spending your life with, we have six great tips and eight top places that will make hers and your experience much, much more pleasurable.
Arouse Her With Sexting & Dirty Talk
The first thing you need to do is to make her aroused by manipulating her brain into thinking about sex before you rip off her clothes and jump on top of her. The following 2 ways seem to work the best:
- Sexting – No need for pictures. Just talk and write about how you want her and what you wish to do to her.
- Dirty talk – This seems to work best when it is soft and sensual. Just whisper what you want to do to her in her ear.
If possible, do this in public where anyone can hear, but say it quietly enough so that only she will. This will bring the arousal factor to a whole new level.
Go For Loose Jeans & Skirts
This advice is worth following by both of you. If you are going to have a risqué one in the car or outside, you will want to have:
- Men – Wear loose-fitting jeans. Athletic or sweat pants are also a viable option.
- Women – As a female, you will want to wear a skirt or dress that is easy to pull aside.
Wearing no panties is an option as well. However, many people consider this a really unhygienic option.
Make Her Wet Super Fast
It takes much more time for a woman to get in the mood. Therefore, you will need to make her wet and do so quickly. How can you do this?
Focus on all her erogenous zones:
- Kiss her neck, lower back, and inner thighs
- Rub her pussy
- Talk dirty to her
You need to arouse her and doing so will make her wet and ready to go. Our 5th tip will cover this perfectly so that you can get her going and never have to worry about her being horny again.
Keep Some Clothes On
Keeping these on is essential for a quickie. After all, this is not meant to be like regular sex – right?
So, instead of stripping until you are fully naked, keep some clothes on so that you can get up and continue your way once the two of you are done.
A few essential clothing items you can leave on yourself are shirts, bras, shoes, socks, pants, dresses and skirts.
Remember, you can pull most pants, underwear, and panties to the side to have a “fun time.” Not only is this a lot of fun, but it will feel really good too.
Stimulate All Her Senses
Providing stimulation for her senses can mean the difference between great and just regular sex. The more of these are stimulated, the more passionate it will be.
You should focus on these five:
- Sight – Show her beautiful scenery, muscular body or a naughty video!
- Hearing – Play her music, use soft dirty-talk, gentle words, and moan!
- Taste – A candy chocolate, whisked cream, strawberries will all work perfectly!
- Touching – Kissing her and caressing all her erogenous zones will engage the touch!
- Smell – A great cologne will work great for her sense of smell!
Trust me that soon, you will know what works for her the best! Just start with all these five and focus what turns her on the most.
Pick an Exciting Place
Finally, you must choose the right place to get it on. This can be anywhere, but the following locations seem to work best:
- The backseat of a car
- Front lawn
- Porch or patio
- Movie theater
Some couples would rather do it on the kitchen table or in the bedroom while others would rather have a quickie in a movie theater or on a roof!
Great Places for The Perfect Quickie
The Fitting Room
If you’re willing to venture out of the bedroom, a quickie in the fitting room can be exhilarating and naughty. This one can be a little tricky to pull off, and you’ll need to be as discreet as possible.
It’s best to sneak into a man’s dressing room as people are more likely to notice (and sneer) at a guy entering a woman’s place.
The top position to use in this place is a standing doggy. If the room has a chair instead of a bench, you can try cowgirl or reverse cowgirl.
No matter whether you’re at home or in your private office at work, you can throw everything off the desk, throw her down on top and go to town.
There are a couple of positions that will work well for desks:
- Doggy style
- Sneak-a-peak – Have her lay on her back on top of the table with her butt hanging just off the edge. Hold onto her thighs or place her feet on your shoulders.
- Lying down scissors – Have her lay down on her back on top of it. Cross her legs and have each one rest on your shoulder. This maximizes pleasure for both of you by making it easier to stimulate her clitoris and making her feel tighter on your member.
- Leg wrap – Have her sit at the edge of the table and wrap her legs around you.
Most people find that doggy style or the sneak-a-peak works best. It’s easier to get into these and both provide easy access.
This is a discreet and fun location to have a quickie. You can try a closet at work, or in any public location that offers easy access to it.
If you choose an open place, make sure that security is lax and that there are no cameras in sight.
Closet quickies are great because you have so many options, and depending on the type of room you’re in, you can be as loud as you want. The best positions to try are a cowgirl on the floor, missionary (even standing), spooning, doggy style (even standing) or ballet dancer.
Beach & Ocean
Sex on the beach can be incredibly romantic, especially if you’re on an exotic island. The scenery is beautiful and the atmosphere is relaxed.
Here are a few tips you should keep in mind to avoid getting caught:
- Choose a time when a beach is mostly empty. Early mornings or evenings work best.
- If the beach has a boardwalk, you can use it as a cover. Just keep in mind to be quiet and discreet.
- Make sure that you have suitable clothes. Bathing suits allow for easy access. If this is not an option, you can have her wear a skirt.
- Bring a towel so you can cover up quickly.
If you wait until after dark, you’re far less likely to get caught. To be as discreet as possible, it’s best to have her sit on your lap. Just keep it simple.
A car is a great place because all you have to do is pull over and go down on her! The trick to a successful quickie in a car is to pick the right location.
Look for roads that don’t get a lot of traffic. Residential neighborhoods are great for this, but you need to be very careful!
It’s best to wait until after dark, so others cannot see directly into your car and fewer people will be outside.
The backseat will give you more room to try different poses. Cowgirl (her on top) is the easiest one to pull off for both the back- and the front seat. If you have an SUV or a roomy backseat, I highly recommend a doggy style or missionary.
What better place to have a quickie than in the shower? It’s romantic, steamy, and both of you are already naked!
You can be as loud and wild as you want, just be careful not to slip. Make sure that there’s plenty of foreplay to get her going and make it easier to get inside.
Try positions such as standing doggy, standing missionary, over the edge or in the backdoor.
Bathroom sex is risky, but it can be incredibly hot. If you’re planning on doing this in a public place, bring her into the men’s bathroom.
You’ll wind up making a scene if you try to sneak into a woman’s cabin. Other people can see under the stall, so you want to keep her feet out of view.
The best positions for this occasion are standing doggy, standing missionary, and seated cowgirl.
There’s no better way to improve productivity than with a little mid-day quickie. Making passionate love in your office can be risky, but it’s so worth it!
Meet for lunch or schedule a meeting – whatever it takes to grab some alone time together.
The biggest issue is that offices, in general, have a lot of windows. Make sure that you close the blinds, lock the door and let others know that you’re on a break.
The great thing about an office is that you have plenty of options to choose from. You can do it doggy style over the side of the desk, try cowgirl sitting in a chair or missionary position on the couch. Just remember to keep your voice down to avoid getting caught and fired.