Let’s face it – women don’t get turned on in the same way men do! Ladies are more complex creatures who need to be stimulated in multiple areas at once to become satisfied. For them, sex is just as much an emotional and psychological experience as it is a physical one.
But understanding, where a female’s erogenous zones are, can help you get her in the mood and drive her wild at the same time! From a top to the down of her body, here are 13 locations you need to start paying attention to.
Sometimes, Mother Nature can provide you with the mood to turn her on. This can occur in many ways, but there are two that really stick out.
Experts say a woman’s biggest sex organ is her brain, and there’s truth to this statement. For ladies, lovemaking can become very boring very quickly if there is no psychology to it.
You have to appeal to her mind with the right dirty talk to excite her and get her going. This talk can range from romantic to downright dirty, and there is no “one size fits all” language for women.
Find out what type of dirty talk works best for her by testing the waters. Try not to come off too strong at first. This may just mess with her mood.
Talking into her ears may turn her down, but caressing them will drive her wild. There are more than 120 acupressure points on her ears, and Chinese acupuncturists believe that stimulating this area sends sexual energy all throughout her body.
Earlobe can be ultra sensitive (so be gentle). You need to kiss these with care or you can massage them gently with your fingertips.
A first kiss skyrockets dopamine levels in the brain, and making out with a long-term partner causes her body to release oxytocin. Both of these chemicals put her in a sexy mood and make her feel good.
Women prefer soft, sensual kisses, so it’s important not to get too sloppy. It is usually best to let her take the lead. She’ll kiss you the way she wants to be kissed, which will turn her on.
If she’s into it, a playful bite on the bottom of her lip may get her into the mood.
Her scalp may not be the first erogenous zone that comes to mind, but a soft head massage may be the one thing that pushes her over the edge. Head massages cause her organism to release oxytocin, a hormone that relaxes the body and enhances sexual pleasure.
Just keep in mind that there are right and wrong ways to massage her scalp. Therefore, you should follow these few tips:
- Use long, sweeping strokes with your fingertips.
- Be gentle if you plan on using your nails.
- Move up towards the base of her neck and knead the area using firm, upward strokes with your thumbs.
- Use this same motion on the part of the scalp just behind the ears.
This sweeping action is soothing but seductive and incredibly sensual at the same time. Do not underestimate its power.
Back of Her Neck
Nearly every woman responds to this area, and with the right technique, you can have her melting in your hands. The back of the neck is highly sensitive to kissing, touching, licking and nibbling.
You should experiment to find out what she likes, alternating between nibbling and kissing.
Her Breasts & Nipples
So many men focus far too much attention on a woman’s breasts and nipples. There’s a good chance that you’re enjoying this more than she! Some women are more sensitive in this area than others.
In fact, there are those who orgasm just by having her boobs touched the right way. The key words here are “THE RIGHT WAY”. Don’t give in to your temptation to grope her like an awkward teenage boy.
Some ladies have very sensitive breasts and being too rough may hurt her actually. Light caresses, kissing as well as sucking of her nipples are better options and can go a long way.
It’s all about finding out what works for the woman you’re with.
Her Lower Back
This is one of the most underrated zones and a spot that you should definitely pay more attention to. A woman’s lower back is incredibly sensitive, which makes it the perfect location for kissing, nibbling and licking.
Take things slow and observe her reaction. If she enjoys it, spend some time here. If not, continue moving up her back.
Her Lower Belly
It should be quite obvious by now, but a woman’s mons (pubic mound), clitoris and vagina are, arguably, the most erogenous areas of her body. You can stimulate her clit with your:
- Or both at the same time
Use her body language and moans as a gauge for whether or not you’re in the right place. The famous G-spot in the vagina can be a bit harder to locate, but she will thank you for taking the time to find it.
A woman’s G-spot is the ultimate pleasure zone. It creates a head-to-toe sensation that most women cannot describe with words.
The inner thighs are a highly sensitive area and respond very well to stroking, touching, licking and kissing. Stimulating this area also builds up anticipation.
Take your time here, but remember not to bite her inner thighs or be overzealous. Gentle, light caresses will drive her wild. Women prefer things soft and slow at this place.
As shocking as it may sound, there are many ladies who like it when you play with their behinds. Squeezing and spanking may get her going, but some women like to take things even further and enjoy gentle licking, sucking, and (of course) penetration.
There are also some girls who prefer this area to be left alone. Tread lightly until you know what she likes and dislikes. Don’t just assume that her backdoor is open to you.
Behind Both Knees
A woman’s knees may be the one part of the body that almost everybody overlooks. However, all the nerve endings in this location make it one of the most erogenous parts of her body.
Soft licks and nibbles on the backs of her knees can drive her crazy.
Remember to take it easy here. Because this area is so sensitive, you want to be gentle. At the same time, you don’t want to tickle her too much.
It’s best to be brief and simply kiss or nibble on the backs of her knees as you work your way up.
A large portion of the sensory nerves in the brain is connected to your feet. Surprisingly, so many men overlook this crucial part of her body.
The truth is that licking or sucking on her toes or feet will stimulate her sexually and cause an overwhelming physiological response. Just make sure her legs are clean.
A woman’s wrists are another zone that most guys tend to overlook, but most females love having this spot nuzzled or nibbled by their lover. Take your time to kiss and caress her wrists.
She’ll be happy you did and so will you.
The next time you’re with a woman, focus on these 13 key areas to drive her wild. Don’t forget to explore other locations of her body as well.
You may just find a new spot that she never even knew she loved.
The key to mastering the art of seduction is to pay attention to what she likes. Give her what she wants, and she will thank you later.