Dirty talk can be a very powerful weapon in your arsenal. Although many guys think that talking dirty means only swearing and using very graphic phrases, they are wrong.

This also includes playful sayings that will tease your partner.

Luckily, in this comprehensive guide, I am going to give you the complete rundown on what dirty talk really is, how you can use it, and what exact phrases you need to tell. Also, you will learn the most common mistakes you need to avoid.

If you have ever wanted to really wow your partner with your mouth (in more than one sense 😉 ), then read on.

Why Experiment With The Dirty Talk?

A lot of people tend to disregard dirty talk as something vulgar and explicit that is not worth incorporating into their sex lives. Surprisingly, the term “dirty talk” covers almost anything that you say to your lover to make her/him feel attractive.

There are several reasons why you should use it regularly:

  1. Builds attraction – Using naughty phrases can make your partner feel loved and attractive. Especially their softer versions include a lot of sex-related compliments.
  2. Enhances confidence – The dirty talk (when done properly) demonstrates your dominant position at the moment. This dominant position can improve your self-esteem in other parts of your relationship as well.
  3. Builds sexual tension – Applying dirty talk especially through texting can make your partner think about sex with you more often. This way, you can easily maintain the sexual tension between you.
  4. Adds spice to sex live – If you are in a long-term relationship and you feel that the sexual spark has gradually faded away, then start with dirty talk. It definitely will improve your sex life, especially if you tell the right phrases at the right time.
  5. Intensify your sex – Dirty talk can make your sex better as you are going to overload his or her senses with arousal. Awakening the inner beast of your sex partner through naughty phrases can turn good sex into a great one.

Despite what you may have heard, both women and men love it. Although everyone is different, your partner’s gender has no bearing on what they do or do not consider attractive and sexy.

Even the shyest of us can appreciate some soft forms of dirty talk from time to time. They key is finding out what works best with whomever you happen to be at the time. While some like to take it easy, others love the explicit, kinky stuff.

That is why you may want to have a discussion with your sexual partner about what they prefer the most.

How To Talk Dirty

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Is there a secret to talking dirty? Some would say – Yes, of course. – while others would say – Nah, just go start experimenting with it. I have a slightly different answer to this question.

Each and every person can learn to talk dirty, no matter his or her prior experience.

Sure, some guys were born with a talent for telling the right phrases at the right time while others need some practice. Luckily, I am going to provide you with a beginner´s guide that is full of tips and tricks.

These are very easy-to-follow even if you are timid in the bedroom and have absolutely no experience with the dirty talk.

Setting Up Your Voice

From subtle hints to blatant graphic tell-all sexy stuff, there are many things that can be categorized as dirty talk. To become good at it, you need to follow a few simple rules.

Firstly, you need to fix the way you are presenting your phrases. You should adjust and consider:

  1. The tone of your voice – The first thing you need to adjust is the tone of your voice. For a dirty talk to work, you need to apply a deeper voice (or a sultry, breathy voice if you are a woman) that is perfect especially if you are going to whisper your phrase into her (or his) ear.
  2. The speed of your voice – Also the speed of your voice plays an important role in talking dirty. There is a general rule that if you want to tease your partner before sex, or are having slower romantic sex, then go for very slow speed. However, if you are already having steamy, filthy sex then talking quite fast is somehow necessary.
  3. The context of dirty talk – Another thing you need to consider is the mood at the time of talking dirty and the place where you are doing it. If you are having a playful atmosphere between you and your partner, your dirty talk needs to also be playful and teasing. If you are in more sex-related atmosphere and situation, you can be more direct and dirty in your phases.

So now you know how to talk dirty to your partner. Feel free to experiment and remember to stay confident. Do not let the fear of embarrassment keep you from having fun.

The next step is to learn what exactly to tell to your partner in the heat of a moment.

Dirty Talk Tips & Tricks For Beginners

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Once you know how to adjust your voice for a great dirty talk session, you need to know what you are going to say (here is a section with some examples you can use tonight). Below, there are good tips for beginners who lack some inspiration.

Try Moaning First

A lot of people have absolutely no experience with the dirty talk. If you are a beginner with the lack of experience, you may want to start with the most basic form of naughty talk.

I am talking about moans and groans.

The next time you are having sex, try adding these into your play and see how you will like it and how your partner will react to this. Trust me that it is very easy to do.

Think of it as an excellent way to communicate your preferences with your partner during sex. Does your partner do something you like? Then moan or say something like – “Oh, God.” to let her (or him) know that she (or he) is doing a great job.

Just keep in mind that to make this work, your moaning needs to be natural. Completely forget about the type of moaning you hear and see in adult movies.

Throw In Some Compliments

Another excellent way to gain some experience in talking dirty is to add some basic compliments that tease your partner´s mind. These can be told outside your bedroom.

You can say something like:

  • “I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot.”
  • “Stop being such a walking turn on.”
  • “Why do you drive me so crazy?”
  • “I always feel so good around you.”

Also, you can try telling her compliments during your sex session. Here is a selection of good examples to try:

  • “You have the hottest ass I’ve ever seen.”
  • “Baby, that is so good!”
  • “Hearing you moan with pleasure turns me on so much.”
  • “I love the things you do to me!”
  • “I want to feel your hands all over my body.”
  • “I want to feel you kissing my entire body.”

As you can see, these decent phrases are nothing to be afraid of. All you have to do is to tell your partner how great her (or his) body is, or how much you like what she (or he) is doing to you during sex.

Just keep your compliments honest, real, and believable.

Tell What You Are Going To Do

Another easy way to introduce a very mild form of dirty talk into your sex life is to tell your partner what are you going to do to her (or him). It is an excellent way to increase her (or his) sex drive.

Just tease her (or him) by slowly whispering something like this into her (or his) ear:

  • “Have you been bad today? Then I am going to punish you tonight.”
  • “I’m going to rock your world right now.”
  • “Stand right there… I’m going to slowly undress you…”
  • “I’m gonna take control over you tonight baby… and you have to do *everything* I say!”
  • “I can’t wait to do you!”
  • “I’m going to mark you as mine tonight.”
  • “I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later…”
  • “I’ve got something I want to try on you later….I think you’ll like it!”

Obviously, as a beginner, you do not have to use any detailed descriptions. In most cases, the fewer details you use the better as there is more space for your partner´s imagination to kick in.

Add Your Body Into The Play

Another important thing to consider when talking dirty is your body language. You need to project a dominant appearance that teases your partner not only mentally, but also physically.

Just imagine whispering something like this to your partner´s ear while sitting next to him in a cinema:

  • “It is sad that we are not alone here. I would love to taste you on my lips.”
  • “It’s a pity we’re not in bed right now because all I can think of is feeling your naked body on mine.”
  • “If we weren’t here right now, you’d have absolutely no chance of keeping your clothes on.”

Such a phrase alone will make your partner thinking about you for the whole movie. However, if you add some bodily stimulation such as kissing her (or his) neck or running your fingers on her (or his) inner thigh, then you are going to drive your partner crazy.

As you can see, if you want to master the art of talking dirty, you need to have your body language in the alignment of your dirty talk.

Always Be Yourself & Start Slow

Although I have given you a lot of various advice here, you always need to be yourself. If you are going to take things into extreme very quickly, your partner (especially in a long-term relationship) will notice that you are acting.

Just keep in mind that dirty talk is mainly about having fun and relaxing.

If you are trying your best but still do not get any reaction from your partner, stop forcing it. Take some time off and try dirty texting instead.

It is always the best to incorporate dirty talk into your sex life gradually. Test his or her reactions to some soft-to-mild phrases and if you think he or she likes it, you can gradually continue into some hard-core, explicit phrases.

However, never test more than one level during your session. I mean, if you are trying dirty talk for the first time, you:

  1. Start with soft phrases.
  2. If your partner likes it, then keep applying soft level for few sessions unless your partner takes it into a higher level.
  3. After a few sessions, you can go for the soft-to-medium level.
  4. Again, if your partner likes it, then keep applying medium level for few sessions unless your partner takes it into a higher level.
  5. Same as before, after a few sessions, you can go for the medium-to-hard-core level.

This way, you should be able to tell where are both you comfortable and which level works for you the most. Just stay away from these most common mistakes.

My Advice For Newbies

If you have absolutely no experience in dirty talk, you may find a face-to-face opportunity with your partner somehow intimidating, or even embarrassing. Especially, if you are not a very dominant and self-conscious person.

If this is the case, don’t sweat it. Try to gain some experience first, by:

  1. Sexting – Although you may not believe it, sending teasing texts is much easier as you have more time to plan your conversation and your responses. The best part? You can easily set the mood for the evening fun this way. 😉
  2. Soft teasing – If you lack experience in talking dirty, then start with softer forms that are not so graphic. Phrases such as “Oh God, I love your outfit!”, or “Your (insert noun) are/is so sexy right now!” can be more than enough for some people. There is a whole section of ready-to-use examples available in this article.

Start gaining experience with the soft dirty talk and observe how he or she reacts. In the vast majority of cases, your partner will love it.

Try to experiment with various things to see what she likes the most.

My Advice For Newbies

If you have absolutely no experience in dirty talk, you may find a face-to-face opportunity with your partner somehow intimidating, or even embarrassing. Especially, if you are not a very dominant and self-conscious person.

If this is the case, don’t sweat it. Try to gain some experience first, by:

  1. Sexting – Although you may not believe it, sending teasing texts is much easier as you have more time to plan your conversation and your responses. The best part? You can easily set the mood for the evening fun this way. 😉
  2. Soft teasing – If you lack experience in talking dirty, then start with softer forms that are not so graphic. Phrases such as “Oh God, I love your outfit!”, or “Your (insert noun) are/is so sexy right now!” can be more than enough for some people. There is a whole section of ready-to-use examples available in this article.

Start gaining experience with the soft dirty talk and observe how he or she reacts. In the vast majority of cases, your partner will love it.

Try to experiment with various things to see what she likes the most.

Advanced Tips & Tricks You Can Try

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Once you have some experience, you can step up your “game” into a more naughty form. Just try following tips from a guide for advanced dirty talkers.

Be More Dominant

If you are talking dirty to your partner already, my advice is to add some “dominant elements” to your sex play. There is a wide variety of options for you to choose from.

These include:

  • Leading and controlling her or his body
  • Blindfolding your partner
  • Amateur bondage
  • Soft spanking

All these are an excellent addition to talking naughty, especially if you are assuming a dominant position during your sex session. Trust me if your partner likes to be talked dirty to, she or he will love some soft version of dominant-vs-submissive behavior as well.

This can easily add more spice to your love life.

Add Some Swear Words

If your partner loves some explicit dirty talk, there is a high chance she or he will love if you add some swear words to your play. You can also experiment with softer versions of degrading as for some people, this is extremely attractive.

You can try to say phrases like this:

  • “Jesus-f*cking-Christ you’re going to make me c*m soon.”
  • “Don’t you ever dare to stop f*cking me.”
  • “Shut the f*ck up and take your clothes off.”
  • “I will f*ck you until your p*ssy is overflowing with my cum.”
  • “I am going to f*ck you tonight as a little sl*t.”
  • “I want to c*m all over your chest baby.”
  • “Rub my cl*t with your nice c*ck.”
  • “Sucking you off turns me on so much. My p*ssy is soaked.”
  • “Keep f*cking me just like that baby… your c*ck feels amazing!”

As you can see, these hard-core phrases need to be more explicit and less teasing. Just keep in mind that you need to gradually build up to this level and do not start to use swear words out of the blue.

Otherwise, you will ruin the mood.

Extra Advice

To become an expert in the dirty talk you need to have a creative imagination. It is best to have a complete script in your mind before you even start your sex.

You need to base your script on your or your partner´s sexual fantasies. Obviously, you need to have an open discussion about these first.

If you are having problems with your script and are looking for some inspiration, I highly recommend you to start reading some of these kinky sex stories.

Extra Advice

To become an expert in the dirty talk you need to have a creative imagination. It is best to have a complete script in your mind before you even start your sex.

You need to base your script on your or your partner´s sexual fantasies. Obviously, you need to have an open discussion about these first.

If you are having problems with your script and are looking for some inspiration, I highly recommend you to start reading some of these kinky sex stories.

Ready-To-Use Examples

Soft Dirty Talk

Level #1

These examples are very soft and perfect for beginners. Also, these are excellent if you want to gradually build up your dirty talk into something more intense (see levels 2 and 3).

Universal Phrases:

  • “You’re so hot and sexy.”
  • “You look so hot… I want you right now!” [whisper in a slow voice]
  • “Oh, that feels so good!” [you can add some moan to it]
  • “Your body is so hot.”
  • “My inner animal comes out whenever I’m around you!”
  • “Have you been bad today?”
  • “I had a wet dream last night and you caused it. Wanna hear more?” [perfect for sexting]
  • “Take it slowly baby.”
  • “Whew! That’s a great workout.” [you can say it after your sex]
  • “You make me so horny, I can’t stand it.” [ideal for texting]
  • “What do you want to do to me?” [ideal for texting]
  • “You look so sexy when you do that.”
  • “What are you going to do to me tonight?” [ideal for texting]
  • “I love the sounds you make.”
  • “I always get what I want. Tonight will be no exception.” [perfect for sexting]
  • “I want to give you so much pleasure.”
  • “That was hot, let’s do it again!” [you can say it after your sex]
  • “We need to meet after work; this horniness is killing me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You’re making me squirm with pleasure.”
  • “I’m really looking forward to seeing you tonight. I think we should have some fun ;)” [perfect for sexting]
  • “Does that feel good baby?”
  • “Oh, you taste so good.”
  • “No one has ever turned me on as you can.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I can’t imagine sharing you with anyone, you’re so freaking hot.”
  • “I can’t stop thinking of what you did to me last night.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I want to feel your hands all over my body.”
  • “Oh, that feels so good! Do that again!”
  • “I want to feel you kissing my entire body.”
  • “Hearing you moan with pleasure turns me on so much.”
  • “I love the things you do to me!”
  • “I love how you look at me when you’re turned on.”
  • “Your body is so sexy. I’m so lucky to have you.”
  • “Stop being such a walking turn on. It is killing me.”
  • “Why do you drive me so crazy? Stop it or I will become irresponsible for my actions.”
  • “I always feel so good around you.”
  • “I need you right now.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You have the hottest ass I’ve ever seen.”
  • “You always know how to turn me on right away.”
  • “I get so turned on just thinking about the last time we made love.” [ideal for texting]

Phrases To Use On Girl:

  • “I love it when you wear tight clothes.”
  • “When I come over tonight, I hope you won’t be wearing any underwear…” [perfect for sexting]
  • “I just can’t get enough of your legs.”
  • “Gee… your outfit looks so sexy tonight.”

Phrases To Use On Guy:

  • “I feel so sexy in your arms…”
  • “Naughty boys like you need to be punished.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Give it to me, tiger!”
  • “I want you to be gentle this time.”
  • “There’s something about your man-scent that drives me nuts!”
  • “Is that a present for me wrapped up in your boxers?”
  • “I can’t get enough of your sexy broad shoulders and gorgeous chest.”
  • “Guess what color my panties are?” [ideal for texting]
  • “When I see you in a pair of blue jeans, I get all worked up.”
  • “I love it when you wrap your strong arms around me.”
  • “I wore these panties just for you…”
  • “I wore this outfit just for you. Do you like it?”
  • “I feel so small when you wrap your arms around me… I miss this so much.”
  • “I want to be your lady on the streets and your freak between the sheets.” [ideal for texting]

Just make your partner feel sexy and wanted. However, you have to be honest, base your compliments on reality and make them believable.

Also, simple moaning and groaning are enough at this level.

Medium Dirty Talk

Level #2

Examples in the second (medium) level are more explicit and detailed. They can often be used as a foreplay by someone who has already some experience with the dirty talk.

Also, they provide for an excellent background if you want to go for a full-on raunchy dirty talk (see level 3 below).

Universal Phrases:

  • “I’m going to rock your world right now.”
  • “Stand right there… I’m going to slowly undress you…”
  • “That’s so good… you’re going to make me c*m.”
  • “I want to taste you, baby.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You have a very skilled tongue, darling.”
  • “I’m gonna take control over you tonight baby… and you have to do *everything* I say!” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’ve been very bad. I think you need to punish me.”
  • “I love it when you say my name while we’re having sex… it turns me on so much.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I can’t wait to do you!”
  • “Baby, you give me the best sex I’ve ever had.”
  • “You might want to talk tomorrow morning off… We’re going to be up late tonight.” [whisper this into his or her ear on a public place / also perfect for sexting]
  • “When we get home, I’m going to make you orgasm so hard.”
  • “Take me now, baby.” [whisper this phrase into his or her ear]
  • “I was sucking on a lollipop and you suddenly came to mind…” [perfect for sexting]
  • “I love looking into your eyes when we’re having sex, it turns me on.”
  • “Your body feels so soft and smooth… I love it when you’re pressed naked against me…” [ideal for texting]
  • “I want to make you moan and scream when I touch you all over… till you can’t take it anymore.”
  • “What would you say if I asked you to go down on me right now?”
  • “I’m going to mark you as mine tonight.”
  • “Knowing that you can completely overpower me makes me so crazy horny.”
  • “I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long.”
  • “I’ve got a sexy surprise for you later…” [ideal for texting]
  • “Just sit back and let me do all of the work.”
  • “You sound so sexy when I’m going down on you.”
  • “I’ve been really bad and need to be punished.”
  • “Tonight we’re going to do what I want to do. But don’t worry, it’s going to be a lot of fun!” [ideal for texting]
  • “Just lie back and let me make you cum.”
  • “Tonight is going to be a lot of fun ????.”
  • “Don’t make a sound until I tell you to… and if you do, I’m going to pause and wait until you can be quiet again!”
  • “If you play your cards right, you’ve got some pleasure coming your way.” [ideal for texting]
  • “It’s a pity we’re not in bed right now because all I can think of is feeling your naked body on mine.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Touch yourself and let me watch you.”
  • “I am so turned on thinking about your naked body rubbing on mine. I’m about to take matters into my own hands…”
  • “I’d like to share every inch of my body with you.”
  • “Why can’t I have you right now? None of these people need to know.” [whisper in a slow voice]
  • “If we weren’t here right now, you’d have absolutely no chance of keeping your clothes on.”
  • “I can only think of one thing right now, and it’s you naked in my bed.”
  • “Bite me and mark me as yours.”
  • “I want you to tie me up and have your way with me.”
  • “Is it weird that I just want you to use me tonight?” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’ve got something I want to try on you later….I think you’ll like it!” [ideal for texting]
  • “Take me right here.” [whisper in a slow voice]
  • “Trust me, honey, you’re going to pass out with pleasure tonight.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I love when you’re rough with me.”
  • “I can still taste you.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’m supposed to be working, but all I can think about is you dominating me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Oh, that feels so good! Do that again!”
  • “I’m going to wear you out.”
  • “Your body is so freaking hot. I just want to lick you all over.”
  • “Your wish is my command!”
  • “You’re so naughty.”
  • “You have no idea what you’ve gotten yourself into. You are going to be my sex slave tonight.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I love the things you do to me with your tongue.”
  • “What naughty little thing do you want me to do to you next?”
  • “I just want to be used by you tonight. Can I be your personal toy?” [ideal for texting]
  • “I want to make you come so hard.”
  • “Slow and easy, or fast and crazy. I’ll make you cum however you like.”
  • “I want to tie you up later and have my way with you.” [ideal for texting]
  • “How fast do you want to come tonight?” [ideal for texting]
  • “Your body feels like heaven. I’m insatiable.”

Phrases To Use On Girl:

  • “Let me inside your p*ssy, right here, right now!”
  • “Your p*ssy drives me wild!”
  • “Take your clothes off and get on your hands and knees. Right now!”
  • “I want to be inside you so badly right now.” [say this while kissing]
  • “I wish I could eat you for breakfast.”
  • “Do you want me to dive inside you? I’m hard as a rock for you.”
  • “You have great tits; I love playing with them.”
  • “I’m your naughty boy.”
  • “You make me so hard!” [ideal for texting]
  • “I love how you smell. I could get drunk off of your scent so easily.”
  • “I love when you scratch my back while cumming!”
  • “Tonight, I am going to c*m into your mouth.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You have the most beautiful p*ssy I have ever seen.”
  • “I’m your bad little boy… Are you going to punish me?”
  • “I want to have you from behind tonight.”
  • “I definitely just came thinking about you riding me…”
  • “Come here little girl, let me show you what pleasure really means.”
  • “It feels so good when I am so deep inside you…” [ideal for texting]
  • “We fit so perfectly together baby… it feels like heaven to be inside you.”
  • “I’m going to make you squirt tonight!” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’m going to do you right now, honey. Your p*ssy… or your ass…?”
  • “I feel so horny and hard when I dominate you.” [ideal for texting]
  • “What are you doing after work, I need some of your p*ssy ASAP.” [ideal for texting]
  • “If you keep looking at me that way, I’m not responsible for what happens to your p*ssy.”
  • “This c*ck is yours, whenever you want it.”
  • “Tonight I want to watch you finger yourself until you cum.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’m going to need your services tonight, girl.” [ideal for texting]
  • “That little thing you do with your tongue on my c*ck, it’s insane.”
  • “I love pulling your hair when I am behind you.”

Phrases To Use On Guy:

  • “I want you inside me right here, right now!”
  • “You make me so wet.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Slap my *ss, slap it harder!”
  • “Pull my hair and slap me.”
  • “Where do you want to c*m?” [ideal for texting]
  • “Stick it in, plllllllease.”
  • “You have the most beautiful c*ck I have ever seen.”
  • “I’m your bad little girl… Are you going to punish me?”
  • “I want to ride you, baby, right now!”
  • “We won’t be needing any lube, darling. I’m already wet!” [whisper this into his ear and lead his hand to your pussy]
  • “You get me off as no other man could.”
  • “You have the nicest c*ck I have ever seen.”
  • “Come here big boy, let me show you what pleasure really means.”
  • “Lick me right here and I’ll c*m.” [tell this while grabbing his hand and placing it on your p*ssy]
  • “It feels so good when you’re deep inside me…” [ideal for texting]
  • “We fit so perfectly together baby… you feel wonderful inside me.”
  • “How about I go on top and ride you for a bit, big boy?”
  • “I get so wet when I see your ripped abs and chest pressed against my tits.”
  • “I need to feel you inside me.”
  • “I keep thinking of rubbing my hands all over your hairy chest…”
  • “I’m going to drain your balls tonight!” [ideal for texting]
  • “If we weren’t at this party and these people weren’t around, I would jump you right now!” [whisper in a slow voice]
  • “What would you prefer I wear tonight, a thong or panties or nothing at all?” [ideal for texting]
  • “Deeper!”
  • “I feel so horny and helpless when you dominate me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Stop looking at me like that, it’s making me wet.”
  • “No one needs to know that your hand is up my skirt right now.” [whisper this while grabbing his hand and placing it on your inner thigh]
  • “What are you doing after work, I need some of your c*ck ASAP.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Do you think I have panties on right now?” [ideal for texting]
  • “I just want to make your whole face wet with my juices.”
  • “If you keep looking at me that way, I’m not responsible for what happens to your c*ck.”
  • “Bend me over and spank me, I’ve been a really naughty girl.”
  • “Pull my hair and treat me like an animal.”
  • “I love how your d*ck feels in my hands!”
  • “This p*ssy is yours, whenever you want it.”
  • “I keep fantasizing about you grabbing me and having your way with me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Make me cum with your tongue.”
  • “Tonight I want to watch you jerk yourself off.” [ideal for texting]
  • “There is something so damn hot when you pin me down by my wrists.”
  • “Tonight is all about me, so get down on your knees and put that tongue of yours to work.”
  • “Feeling your seed drip down my leg was the perfect reminder of this morning.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’m going to need your services tonight, boy.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I dreamt about you last night and woke up dripping wet, which was nice.”
  • “The hottest thing about last night was feeling you shooting your load inside me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You can have me any way you want, babe.”
  • “Remember that time when you fucked me against the wall?” [ideal for texting]
  • “I can’t stop thinking about what you did with your dick the last time we were together. It’s magic.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I’d love to sit on you all day long.”
  • “That little thing you do with your tongue inside me, it’s insane.”
  • “I want you to look into my eyes while you penetrate me deeply.”
  • “I’m your naughty girl.”
  • “I’m not wearing anything under this robe, and I’m touching myself thinking of you.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Do you want to dive inside? I’m nice and wet for you.”
  • “When you hold my buttocks that way, It makes me explode.”
  • “When you pull my hair, it makes me want to come.”
  • “Just looking at you makes me wet.”

At this level, the lines you are using do not have to be graphic at all. This depends on what you both prefer.

Hard-Core Dirty Talk

Level #3

The third category or hard-core dirty talk can be very explicit and may involve a lot of slang or even swear words. Although this can seem weird when taken out of context, it can be very attractive when done in the heat of the moment.

Just keep in mind that you can not tell your partner these out of the blue. It is best to gradually build up the atmosphere and only then use these. Otherwise, you may ruin his or her mood.

Universal:

  • “Yeah… f*ck me baby like this.”
  • “I’m going to f*ck you so hard today.”
  • “I love it when you f*ck me fast/slow like that.”
  • “That was f*cking incredible… f*ck me again!”
  • “You make me c*m so f*cking hard baby.”
  • “I want you to fuck me hard in front of the mirror baby.”
  • “I wish I could control myself better around you, but when I see you, all I want to do is rip your clothes off and f*ck you.”
  • “Nobody has ever fucked my brains out as you did.”
  • “I want to hear you scream my name when you cum.”
  • “F*ck me like you own me.”
  • “F*ck it… you can degrade me.”
  • “F*ck me like you mean it!”
  • “I don’t want to be able to walk tomorrow so f*ck me harder.”
  • “Let’s f*ck in front of a big mirror so I can see you dominating me.”
  • “When I wake up in the morning, the first thing I think of is how you f*cked me the night before.”
  • “Jesus-f*cking-Christ you’re going to make me c*m soon.”
  • “Don’t you ever dare to stop f*cking me.”
  • “Shut the f*ck up and take your clothes off.”
  • “I want you to handcuff me and f*ck me any way you’d like.”
  • “Tonight you have a choice, anal or oral? Choose wisely.”
  • “Hearing you groan, moan and shout when you c*m is so incredibly satisfying.”
  • “I’ve never been f*cked like that before.”
  • “F*ck me harder, baby!”
  • “I’m going to f*ck you until you beg for mercy.”
  • “Just f*ck me… right here, right now. I can’t wait anymore.”
  • “Let’s f*ck again. I need more of you.”
  • “I love licking your ass all over.”
  • “How do you want me to f*ck you? Like this?”
  • “F*ck me more and I’m going to c*m.”
  • “Use me like your f*ck-toy!”
  • “Oh, baby, that was the best f*ck I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.”
  • “Oh [insert sexy nickname here], I love it when you [insert verb – sexual activity] my [insert noun – part of your body].”

For A Guy To Use On Girl:

  • “Your p*ssy is so delicious. I need more of it right now.”
  • “I can still taste your p*ssy on my lips.”
  • “I can’t get enough of your p*ssy. It’s like my food.”
  • “Let me get into your p*ssy from behind, honey and f*ck you till you c*m.”
  • “Mmm… I love the taste of your p*ssy.”
  • “I could spend hours between your legs; teasing… sucking; sipping; tasting your sweet p*ssy.”
  • “I love it when you f*ck me like a slut.”
  • “You’re going to need crutches when I’m done f*cking you, my dirty little wh*re.”
  • “Yeah… I can see you like the way I f*ck you.”
  • “What a hot nasty girl you are! I will wash your mouth out with my c*m if you keep talking dirty, you naughty girl.”
  • “What a sweet sexy ass! I am going to destroy it tonight.” [ideal for texting]
  • “My c*ck is ready and hard just for you.”
  • “I want to f*ck you from behind the next time.”
  • “I love how firm your c*ck gets when I talk to you like this…”
  • “Give me every last drop of your p*ssy juice.”
  • “I want to feel your clit on my lips.”
  • “I just want to grab your breasts and squeeze your nipples every time you disobey my wishes.”
  • “I will f*ck you until your p*ssy is overflowing with my cum.”
  • “I want to f*ck you until I can feel that sweet little p*ssy of yours clenching around my throbbing c*ck.”
  • “I am going to f*ck you tonight as a little sl*t.”
  • “I want to c*m all over your chest baby.”
  • “I want to c*m all over your ass baby.”
  • “I want to c*m all over your face baby.”
  • “Tonight, I am going to f*ck your mouth until I ruin your mascara.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I will tease your p*ssy with my c*ck until you beg me to go inside.”
  • “That pretty little face of yours deserves to get f*cked.”
  • “Baby, I am going to slam you on the floor and f*ck you right there.” [ideal for texting]

For A Girl To Use On A Guy:

  • “I love your hot, throbbing c*ck.”
  • “If these people weren’t here, I would be on my knees with your cock in my mouth.” [whisper in a slow voice]
  • “I want your c*ck in my ass tonight.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Finish on my *ss, baby.”
  • “I want to put your hard d*ck down my throat.”
  • “Rub my cl*t with your nice c*ck.”
  • “Sucking you off turns me on so much. My p*ussy is soaked.”
  • “Keep f*cking me just like that baby… your c*ck feels amazing!”
  • “I love feeling your hard c*ck deep inside me… stretching my p*ssy when you thrust like that.”
  • “I want you to c*m all over my face.”
  • “I’m going to suck you till you c*m so hard!”
  • “I’d love you to slam me on the table and f*ck me from behind.”
  • “Mmm… I want you to c*m inside my dirty mouth.”
  • “Tease me with that nice c*ck of yours.”
  • “I need you to fill my p*ssy with your throbbing d*ck baby.”
  • “I can’t wait to wrap my lips around your hard c*ck and let it slide down my throat.” [ideal for texting]
  • “You’re filling me all up, baby… I love your hard fat c*ck stuffed inside my p*ssy.”
  • “Why don’t you come up here so I can suck on it? Then you can put it back in my p*ssy.”
  • “Yeah… pound my p*ssy with that big fat c*ck of yours.”
  • “I want you to fill my p*ssy with your c*m baby.”
  • “I want you to c*m all over my chest baby.”
  • “Shove it in and keep pounding it out like there’s no tomorrow!”
  • “I love putting my hands all over your gorgeous shoulders and arms, biting your neck while I ride your hard c*ck… it makes me want to f*cking scream!”
  • “Cum in my mouth. I want to taste you.”
  • “Take it slowly baby… your hard fat c*ck is stretching my tight wet p*ssy.”
  • “Oh yeah… I want to feel every inch of that hard throbbing c*ck inside me. Don´t you dare to go only half way in!”
  • “Look how ready I am. Don’t you want to put your d*ck in there?” [whisper this into his ear and lead his hand to your p*ssy]
  • “Keep f*cking me like that and I am going to c*m so hard.”
  • “Make me your b*tch and slap my naughty ass.”
  • “I love sucking your c*ck dry. And trust me, honey, I’m going to lick it clean.”
  • “I just want to wrap my p*ssy around your c*ck.”
  • “F*ck my c*nt harder.”
  • “You’re not leaving here until I have your cum in my mouth.”
  • “Don’t stop. Fill me up with your cum.”
  • “Spray your juice all over my tits.”
  • “Grab my breasts and squeeze my nipples while you eat my p*ssy.”
  • “I just want to be your little f*ck doll…”
  • “I want to rub my pussy all over your face.”
  • “I want to feel your c*ck in my mouth.”
  • “Make me your b*tch.”
  • “Dominate me like the slut I am!”
  • “I want to feel your c*ck twitch inside me.”
  • “C*m for me baby, c*m in my mouth, I want to taste you so bad…”
  • “Mmm… I f*cking love it when you ride me like this.”
  • “Give me every last drop of your c*m.”
  • “I want you to f*ck me from behind next time.”
  • “My pussy is ready just for you.”
  • “I miss your c*ck inside me, baby when are you coming home?”
  • “I love sucking your c*ck so much. Can´t wait to shove it down my throat tonight.”
  • “You need to grab my tits and hold them while I c*m.”
  • “Fill me up, big daddy… f*ck my tight c*nt! Make me scream with that fat d*ck of yours!”
  • “Do you want to watch me sucking your c*ck dry?”
  • “Let me get on top of your c*ck, sweetie and give you a ride of your life.”
  • “No matter how far you are, I can feel your d*ck inside me.” [ideal for texting]
  • “I can’t get enough of your c*ck. It’s like my food.”
  • “I can still taste your d*ck on my lips.” [ideal for texting]
  • “Your c*ck is so delicious. Give me more of it.”

Feel free to experiment with all kinds of different phrases. You can try these raunchy and vulgar lines during sex or you can even use these during sexting while doing your ordinary day-to-day activities.

Things You Need To Avoid

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If you are going to experiment with dirty talk in your sex life, you may (and probably will) make some mistakes as there are many things you can do wrong. This reminds me of a very popular saying:

“Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.”

So be a wise man and take your time to learn about the most common mistakes other guys already made during their dirty talk efforts.

These include:

  1. Being too vague or too explicit – You need to use details but still leave some place for her or his imagination.
  2. Not paying attention to her (or him) – You always have to listen to what your partner says and how she or he reacts to your words.
  3. Nervous stuttering – You need to sound dominant and strong to make it work.
  4. Speaking only about your needs – Instead, try to focus on telling your partner what you want to do to her (or him).
  5. Using lines from p*rn movies – Try to be original and not use those cheesy dirty lines you can hear in porn movies. Those usually do not work.
  6. Using dirty talk too often – Remember, to make this work, use it as a spice to your sex life and not your daily bread.
  7. Not making it believable – If she has small breasts and you tell her “I love your big boobs” it makes the same negative effect as if you had a 3-inch penis and she told you something like “I want your huge cock inside me”. Always make it believable.
  8. Making false claims – Never talk about something you do not intend to do later. Giving your partner false expectations is always a bad choice.
  9. Talking too much – If you have a tendency to talk too much, you may have a problem as with the dirty talk, less is always better.
  10. Rocket speed – With the dirty talk, you can not go from zero to 100% (being explicit and vulgar) in just a minute, especially if you are in a long-term relationship and you have not used such sex talk before. There’s a place and a time for everything and you need to make it look natural.

The last thing you should keep in mind is this…

You need to always be able to asses the situation first. Sometimes, your partner may not have a mood for dirty talk so try some soft-to-mild phrases to tease her (or him) and if she (or he) reacts positively to this, you may continue. If not, just drop it.

Also, if you are the object of a dirty talk, you need to realize that your partner is trying to flatter you, not to make you feel uncomfortable or strange.

The Advanced Guide to Talking Dirty
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