Having a smaller than average penis is one of the largest sources of male insecurity today. The media has brainwashed us to believe that penis size is directly correlated to masculinity.

Pornography would have us believe that anyone who isn’t packing a fourteen-inch python has a substandard unit. What many people don’t realize is that even if you feel substandard, you may actually be average.

Surveys have determined that the national average penis size is around 5.6″ (14.2 cm) long and 4.8″ (12.19 cm) in circumference when erect. Remember that this is simply the median.

If you fall short of these numbers, there is no reason to believe that you are going to be unable to please a woman. But before you jump to conclusions, there are a few things you should consider:

  1. Measure your penis correctly
  2. Accept your real size
  3. Learn the best positions to make your penis feel bigger inside her
  4. Become a master of oral & anal sex
  5. Focus on proven penis enlargement methods

There are scientifically confirmed methods to increase your penis size permanently in 3-6 months. These are described in #5 below.

Correct Way to Measure Your Penis

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In order to correctly measure your penis, there are a few supplies you will need. Grab a ruler, a pen or a pencil, and a piece of paper. Measuring your little man isn’t exactly the most erotic process, but you really can’t be half-chub if you want to get an accurate measurement.

Throw on a video from your favorite adult site, or tap into that spank-bank to make sure you are going full bore!

Measuring Length

Once you have achieved a full erection, place the ruler at the very base of your shaft. Remember to press the ruler firmly into your pubic bone for the most accurate measurement.

Now place the piece of paper against the resting spot of the ruler, and allow it to curve naturally with your body to the tip of your penis. Make a mark where it ends.

Now you can use the ruler to measure the distance from the base of the paper to your mark. This is the most accurate way to measure the length of your penis.

Measuring Girth

The girth is also very simple to measure. You will need the ruler from before and a piece of string. Simply find the widest part of your penis, and wrap the string around it. Mark, with your finger, the position where the string meets the other end.

Keep your finger pinching the string and straighten it out on the table. Take the measurement from the end of the string to your mark to determine your girth.

So now you have precise numbers for your penis size and know where you are on the scale. Luckily, there are many methods you can try to improve your situation if you are too small.

#1. Learn to Accept Your Body as Is

If you correctly measure your penis size and are still a little below average, there is no reason to fret. Remember that the average size is simply a median. 50% of the population is a penis size smaller than this measurement.

Although most men don’t like to talk about this, remember that this same 50% is experiencing the same feelings and insecurities you are. Having a small penis does not make you less of a man, nor does it mean you will be unable to please a woman.

There are still many things you can do to make the most of your small penis.

#2. Try These Positions

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Having a large penis is not all it’s cracked up to be. There are many sexual positions that men with large penises cannot perform. The depth of a woman’s vagina is determined by the position of her cervix, which can vary in different sexual positions.

Men with large penises may strike the cervix, which is a very painful experience for the woman. On top of that, there are many nerve endings around the vaginal opening that give ladies most of their sexual pleasure.

Pleasing your girl is not a matter of going as deep as possible, but simply hitting the right spots in right positions.

The Hound

Position #1

This position is a small variation of doggy style. Instead of having your woman go down on all fours, she will go down onto her forearms and arch her back.

Arching her back reduces the depth of her vagina, allowing you direct access to hit her G-Spot and provide deep penetration.

The Sphinx

Position #2

In this position, the girl goes down onto her stomach and stretches her legs out to each side. You lay your body on top of her. This puts extra pressure on her pelvis, helping you to hit all the same spots you would with a girthy penis.

The Butterfly

Position #3

When your penis isn’t very long, the key to pleasurable sex is getting the angle right. In this position, have your partner lay on her back on an elevated surface.

A table works well, but the bed can also work.

You stand on the floor and place her legs on your shoulders, raising her bum off the table. In this angle, your penis will make direct contact with her G-Spot.

Just keep in mind that stimulating the G-Spot is the most effective way to help a woman have an orgasm.

#3. Become Master of Cunnilingus

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Do you know that many women are not capable of having an orgasm simply from penetrative sex? Taking the time to learn how to orally pleasure a woman is one of the greatest skills you can have as a lover.

When you are eating your partner out, remember to take your time.

Women love to be teased, and it’s important to start slow. After kissing her for a while, grab her hands and hold them above her head. Do so gently, but with authority.

Start kissing her neck and slowly move down her body. Your woman’s body represents her femininity. Let her know that you care for every part of her body as you slowly work your way down. Leave her underwear on, but start kissing around the V of her panties. You don’t want her to feel too exposed.

Work your way down her legs and back up again.

Tease her.

Kiss and breathe gently on her clitoris. Once you start to feel her wriggle around, you can slowly remove her panties.

Give her a gentle lick, almost a tease, from the base of her vagina to her clit. When she starts to arch her back, you can plunge your tongue deep into her vagina and firmly move your tongue up over her clit.

Try to mix it up a bit here, don’t just lick in one direction.

Lick in circles, diagonally, keep her guessing. One strategy is to attempt to spell out the letters O.R.G.A.S.M on her clitoris. When you feel her grinding faster and faster, push your tongue harder into her clit and increase your speed.

Usually, this is the point where she is about to cum and believe me, you’ll know when she does.

#4. Anal Sex

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Many women experience great pleasure from anal sex. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not quite as stretchy. This means that a smaller than average penis is ideal for this.

Remember to communicate with your girl and make sure she is comfortable with the idea.

Start small, with a finger and work your way up. Take the time to communicate with her and find out what she likes. For many women, this is an entirely new experience, and it can take a bit of time to find out exactly what she likes.

If you decide to go for anal sex, then please study this guide before you make your first move to make sure you both will be having a fun time.

#5. Natural Penis Enlargement Exercises


If you still feel that you want a bigger buddy, there are a few things you can do that will help you enlarge your penis over time. While the pills that you commonly see advertised online generally do not work, there are some exercises that have been proven to show a gradual increase in penis size.

The Pull

Grasp the head of your flaccid penis with one hand, and hold the base with the other. Gently pull in opposite directions for 5-10 seconds.

While you should feel a little pressure, remember to be careful! You should not feel any discomfort. Do this for about 5 minutes per day.


Everyone knows how essential Kegels are for a woman’s health but do you know that these exercises will allow you to have more control over your erection?

The first thing you need to do is learn what your PC muscles are.

Try stopping the flow of urine while peeing. The muscles you feel tense up are your PC muscles. Once you know how to contract them, try doing 20-30 contractions per day.

After you are comfortable with this, you can continue to improve the strength of your PC muscles by going for a higher number of reps each day.

Stretching Routine

If you’re already familiar with the pull, you might want to mix up your stretch a bit. This time, gently grasp the tip of your penis with one hand.

Hold it naturally; this should be painless!

Place your thumb at the base of your penis, and gently pull outwards from your body. Hold this position for about 15 seconds, then release. Take a 30-second break and repeat this process for 5-6 minutes.

There are more exercises you should try. Read detailed instructions for each workout here.

#6. Penis Enlargement Surgery

Not Recommended

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While surgical options are available, these should only be used in extreme cases. These procedures are costly, often exceeding $10,000.

During the recovery period, you will be unable to achieve erections. In many cases, erectile dysfunction continues past the recovery period. This can severely impact the pleasure you receive from sexual acts.

Many people also report nerve damage which results in a lack of sensation in the penis. Although this may work as a last resort, we only recommend surgery in cases where the penis so small that sexual pleasure is already challenging.

Remember that bodies come in all shapes and sizes. The size of your penis is only a small factor in your ability to achieve sexual gratification. Instead of trying to change your body overnight, following the simple steps in this guide can drastically improve the quality of your sexual experiences.