10 Effective Ways to Get a Girl to Like You


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How do you get a girl to like you? That is the question that millions of guys ask every day. Telling a lady that you like her is one of the hardest things to do EVER!

You HAVE to be prepared before opening your heart!

Let me show you 10 AWESOME techniques that have stood the test of time. Read on…

Way #10 – Work on Your Body & Style

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Nobody’s saying you need to look like Mr. Universe in order to build attraction in her. However, finding and sticking to a workout plan that suits you can do wonders! If you can’t afford a gym membership don’t worry, just exercise at home.

Focus on exercises that incorporate your body weight such as push-ups, squats, triceps dips, and lunges. If you add some cardio such as jogging or bike riding you will yield very impressive results!

In terms of style, it’s crucial to:

  • Wear clothes that are a proper fit – nothing too baggy or too small.
  • Get proper advice from a barber about what haircut suits you the most.
  • Spend some time to figure out whether warmer or cooler colors work the best for you.

Way #9 – Always Maintain Certain Level of Mystery

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Being able to give off an air of mystery is a character trait that is extremely alluring to both ladies and men. If it doesn’t come naturally to you, it does not mean you still can’t make it part of your repertoire.

One of the things to work on is how to be calm!

It might sound easy, but a man who remains calm and in control at all times is one that can draw women to him. Think about any social interaction and how people behave with each other, for example at a party or bar.

Keep in mind: In such a place, everything is heightened, and most people are more excitable. Therefore, be her calm and firm anchor in the storm!

Way #8 – Do Not Fall into The Dreaded “Friend Zone”

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The dreaded friend zone. By the time you think you’re being friend zoned it’s probably already too late, so take steps from the outset to make sure it doesn’t happen!

Staying away from falling into a category “nothing will ever happen between us” isn’t particularly hard to do, as long as you follow the advice here and don’t fall into familiar patterns. These include being too available and too nice!

Way #7 – Talk to Other Women (Briefly) in Front of Her to Make Her Jealous

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A classic tactic, and for excellent reason – just ensure you use it correctly! Do not just start talking to other girls in front of the desired chick and somehow hope the law of attraction will kick in.

This is the game of attraction, and you have to be more subtle than that!

First of all, you need to show some interest in the lady you like. Be attentive, utilize body language that shows you’re interested – leaning in close and lightly touching her on the arm – and then provoke her to be jealous.

Pay attention: You must firstly sow the seed of interest. Talk to other chicks in her presence. Just don’t push it too far!

Way #6 – Compliment Her Appropriately

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Everyone loves a compliment, but you can’t just go throwing these at a girl just for the effect. Sure it might sometimes work, but if you want it to do so every time, then you have to make a genuine effort.

Listen carefully and offer compliments that fit her specifically. And always be respectful with yours, leave the immature and vulgar stuff at the door.

Way #5 – Flirt with Her

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In that beginning phase, when you’re just starting to show her some interest, make it light and fun. Don’t be too intense and overbearing, these are 2 sure-fire ways of scaring any chick off.

Try instead these 3 things:

  1. Keep things fun!
  2. Make her laugh!
  3. Pay her full attention!

Pay attention: The most important thing that this stage is just to allow things to develop at their natural pace.

Way #4 – Get to Know Her & Ask About Her (Let Her Speak)

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By now you can probably see some recurring themes when it comes to getting a girl to like you, but that’s because these things are so critical!

Everything starts from those early interactions. Making sure that she knows that she is valued and listened to is one of the strongest positions to work from when you’re trying to get her to adore you.

Remember: It shows that you care about her. Again, that may seem simple and obvious but never overlook these banal things.

Way #3 – Listen to All She Says & Remember Even Small Stuff

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On a similar theme to the point above, don’t just pretend and fake your way through interactions with her. Make a conscious effort to listen and most importantly – remember!

When it comes round to the holiday season or her birthday, you need to get her a gift based on something small she said months ago. Who do think she’s going to be thinking about?

Extra advice: Combine that with some of the other things mentioned here and it could be the basis for making a move on that special someone.

Way #2 – Be Natural & Confident

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Keep in mind that you need to let the real you shine through too although it might sound counter-intuitive to some of the other stuff already stated in this article! This is REALLY essential step in our guide on how to get a girl to like you.

However, everything else from your clothes to the exercise all the way through to cultivating an air of mystery, it’s all a vehicle for the real you to come through.

Way #1 – Impress Her

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Put all of the things mentioned here into practice and you will already have impressed the girl you like. But just to reiterate some of the most important things; you need to be sincere, chivalrous, and attentive.

Remember: You need to dress well and compliment her appropriately! Just don’t be overbearing, flirt, make her laugh, and keep things light at first!

Bonus Tip: Socialize with Her Friends!

No, we’re not talking about the making her jealous kind of socializing here. Each woman loves a dude who is comfortable around her friends.

After all, they want a man they can be proud to show off. So be sociable, charming and remember the advice from earlier about being appropriate. If you can fit nicely into her social group, then you are starting to make an impression.

So that’s it then, 10 effective ways to get a girl to like you. Put them into practice and good luck with getting the chosen chick.

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  • Manny

    I have a simple trick for maintaining an air of mystery… Don’t keep the same texting routine. Sometimes you text her right back and sometimes you wait a bit. Other times, instead of texting her back, you can even respond with a phone call. You don’t have to do the phone call thing all the time, but if you do every so often, girls love it. Especially when you hit them with, “I just wanted to tell you personally that I was thinking about you.” I’ve been using this tactic for years… works every time!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Hey Manny, this is really great technique. I bet this will build
      anticipation in her and make her think about what you may be doing.

  • James in NYC

    Bro’s — Not all women care about a mans clothes style, but most do. If you like to see her in heels and something fitting her curves in all the right places, then you can’t show up looking like you just rolled out the bed.

    Many women want to be with a man who matches her clothes style. In other words, don’t expect to get a hottie in heels if you’re wearing something that looks like 10 years old. Women who dress notice this stuff and they will immediately dismiss you for another sharp dresser in a minute. On the other hands, if clothes don’t matter, then look for a woman who takes the same approach.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Therefore it is better to have specific style and maintain it. I bet it will help you at least with the first impression.

  • Colby Stevens

    I’ve had the most luck with #8 Listen to everything she says and remember the small stuff. You don’t have to remember everything, nor will you be able to. But if it’s a topic that means something to her, you better get it stored in your memory bank, lol!

    My ex girlfriend was devastated after the death of her poodle. On the one year anniversary of Mitzi’s death, I gave her over a photo collage picture frame with several pictures of the dog. She couldn’t believe that I remembered and that I’d put together something so awesome on my own. From there on out friends and family members were hooked on the Colby Experience!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That was really great move from your side Colby!

  • DinaD

    As a woman, I totally appreciate a guy who can socialize with my friends. I dated a guy who would meet me and my best friend for happy hour sometimes. He always gave my her good dating advice and sometimes he even brought friends for her. He never seemed out of place in our circle. I personally love it when a man can get along with both men and women.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thanks for confirming this for all of us guys. This is really a trait than guy needs to have.

    • Joann

      This is how my husband managed to get my interest. He is both a great listener and talker and not even one of my friends has a bad opinion about him. He can talk about anything with anyone and sometimes he even breaks the tension after someone says something insulting or out of place.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        He seems like a keeper girl! You should stick with that guy if he makes you happy!

  • Harrison120

    The exercising part is probably the best piece of advice you could have included. My co-worker (a guy) has a pregnant belly that just keeps getting bigger. He’s always complaining that he can never get any play, but that’s because he chooses not to take care of himself.

    Just because you live in a city with more women than men doesn’t mean that the single women want just any guy. If you want your pick, you have to make yourself look presentable with clothes and without. Women pay attention to everything.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is great observation Harrison. Thanks for sharing this with us!

  • Luigi

    I don’t think the friendzone even exists, it’s a term coined by guys who just can’t accept rejection. Not cool.
    I think being natural & confident is the best thing you can do, because this is how you’ll pick up girls with which you’ll actually be compatible, and not randoms.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Trust me there is a thing like friendzone and it is a nasty place to be categorized in.

    • giana

      Unfortunately for me, the friend zone is quite real. Ok, maybe the term may not be very appropriate, but it freakin’ exists. I’ve tried approaching this guy I like and being super cool and laid back, comforting him when he has issues with his parents and now guess what: friend zone. I’m the one he calls when he wants to chat for hours but not the one he asks on a date. BUMMER

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        Well, that is sad. But maybe you could speak openly with him and see how he will react.

  • Markus

    Letting your girl speak is super easy, and super efficient! People just like to feel important, so dialogue with her and letting her say her piece, asking her questions and the like, makes her feel validated and gets you brownie points. And definitely remember the stuff she says, it’s so easy to impress a chick by buying her a thing she mentioned once that she wanted!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is always great move.

  • Lilly

    Really like this list, it’s actually one of the few “nice” lists that I came across on guy’s sites. Other lists were misogynistic, but this comes across as genuine and rooted in real life. Kudos, Stallion!

    As a woman, i agree with all of these points. Guys, take heed!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thank you Lilly for this comment. It is really valuable.

  • Chris

    I really enjoyed this list, you’re a great writer, dude! I don’t think it’s that hard to make women like you – just take care of yourself, talk to them and be genuine, and just be a nice person overall, yknow? And socializing with her friends is always a must. Every girlfriend I’ve had first had me meet her friends to get their opinion – love is blind, friends are not you know?

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is exactly what I think about this issue! And thank you for reading this list.

  • PJ

    I think it’s VERY important to take care of yourself before any woman gets to like you. If you don’t like how you look, how are they going to? Just look in the mirror, and imagine you were guy. If you’d fuck yourself, you’re good. If not, need to work on that bro!
    Women like men that take care of themselves. You don’t even have to be that good looking, but staying moderately fit and groomed goes a long way.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is put rather harshly but I agree with you.

  • Dee

    I find it hilarious when boys try to keep up with the trends more than us girls. I mean the undercut, the extra tight jeans, spas and massages and not to mention mani-pedi. Perhaps I am alone in this, but I like it when a boy has his own style and looks cool and polished without him spending hours getting ready.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true, many women love guys with style who do not need to spend hours in front of mirror.

  • silvia

    I always like hearing compliments like : ”love your curly, shiny hair” or “ you look great with those glasses”. If your compliment starts with “Babe…” and a smug face, you can bet your sorry ass you will get nothing from me. Be nice and polite and try to avoid cliches at all costs.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, avoiding cliches is one of the most important things to do.

  • boyboy

    When I hear a girl talking about something I’m also interested in, I’ll try to start the conversation from there. My ex-girlfriend was a big GTA fan. When I overheard her speaking with her girlfriends how has was to finish a special mission in GTA IV I immediately jumped in and told her I felt freaking frustrated by that mission also. After this, BAM, I got her attention.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is great open air! Sharing common interests makes whole introduction more easy.

  • steve

    Show that you care. Even if it’s remembering her birthday, her favorite flowers or why she hates the neighbor upstairs, these little things make all the difference in the world. As a guy who pays a lot of attention to details this comes easy to me but I like when my girlfriend is surprised every time I remember small stuff, even if she said it once or just hinted it.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is great you are able to remember even the small stuff. That makes a lot of chicks psychologically melt. 🙂

  • wanthaha

    the trick is don’t be easy on women or they will eat you alive! this month, I make mistake for being soft with them, and they gone way 🙁 (poor me) hahaha!
    but I am not telling you to be an ass hole, just don’t be nice to them and show her, that you really love them! I think they hate it! seriously! but if you guys already do that and too late, just go disappear! at some point they will miss you so fckng bad! I already use this tricks! I think they will miss us, I guess! I mean we always with them, and be nice! and if we gone, they miss us like crazy! and if they ask, to be frinds, tell her we don’t want to be your friends, and don’t talk to her after 1 or 2 month! I am sure they will crazy looking for you 😉 this only works if you already to nice with her!

    good luck!