Trust me that you don’t have to be a professional stripper to give your man a lap dance he’s going to remember for a long time to come! All you really have to do is to follow 4 simple tips and 5 easy moves I am going to share with you in next few minutes.
These are a great way to drive him into a sexual frenzy, show him how much you want him, and remind him of all those beautiful curves you are going to share with him later in bed!
This isn’t as difficult to achieve as you might think!
Four easy tips can make it possible for anyone to give their guy a dance that’s going to leave him begging for more. Five moves are all you need to make him completely out of his mind!
Tip #1 – Dim The Lights & Set The Mood with Good Music
For this type of dance, you need to create an erotically charged atmosphere. You can accomplish this with the right kind of music, and by making sure the lights have been dimmed to an appropriate level of sultriness.
You do not want to make it impossible to see what you are doing, but you do want the lighting to exude a certain sexual tension. I highly recommend these songs I have found in one article on YourTango website:
- “Naughty Girl” by Beyonce
- “I Wanna Sex You Up” by Color Me Badd
- “Freak Like Me” by Adina Howard
- “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC
- “Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” by Eurythmics
- “Bel Biv Devoe” by Poison
- “Ride” by Ciara
- “How Do You Want It” by Jodeci and 2Pac
Pay attention: The music should be something that you enjoy dancing to. Just think of heavy sexy rock songs, pulse-pounding hip hop tunes and slow R/B number.
Tip #2 – Wear Sexy Clothes & Outfit
Watch this video on how to give a lap dance! (5:25)
This dance isn’t just about grinding in your man’s lap. It’s about giving them a package that they want to touch, but simply aren’t allowed to! You’re the package in this case, and you can wrap yourself up in anything you like.
Wear something you know you are comfortable in (since you’ll be dancing) but think about what he would really love to see you in. The underwear can be classy, trashy, or whatever you want it to be.
The outfit can be:
- Sexy Schoolgirl
- Naughty Nurse
- Even Eager Secretary
Pay attention: Do not limit yourself as it can be anything you can possibly imagine. This is a great opportunity to surprise him with the kind of ensemble he’s always wanted to see you wear.
Tip #3 – Prepare Suitable Chair & Make Him Sit There
The chair needs to be something that he is going to be comfortable sitting in, but it also has to give you the room to sit in his lap, straddle him and even more. Therefore, a small chair with armrests is probably a bad idea.
Your choice should have following features:
- Thick Sturdy Legs
- High Reliable Back
- Should Hold Weight of You & Your Partner
Remember: Pick something that will let you pull off all those moves with ease. The number one rule for striptease – no matter how much he wants to touch you, he’s not allowed to!
Tip #4 – Tease Him with These 5 Ultimate Moves!
Check out this lap dance tutorial, it’s AWESOME! (3:05)
My last advice is full of techniques you can use to drive him out of his mind. Again, you don’t have to be a world-class dancer to pull these off.
Just have fun teasing him with these five moves, and keep in mind you can strip away your outfit (and undergarments) at your own pace:
- Bend over & use the sexy lean – This is a great way to start out. Putting just the proper amount of distance between you and your man, bend slowly at the knees, show off that gorgeous butt of yours, and make sure you look back at him as you resume standing upright. Throw him into a state of intense arousal with the sexy lean.
- Touch yourself slowly everywhere – As you’re moving to the strains of the music you’ve chosen, show off the rest of your curves. Touch your body in the ways that you like to, and in the ways that you know he would love to do so at that exact moment. Alternate between closing your eyes and making direct contact with his, and pretend his hands are touching your body.
- Do the eight motion with your hips – The eight-motion involves trying to move your body as though you were trying to create the number 8 with your hips. The music is going to help you pull this off. You can start to move a little closer to him at this point, too.
- Shake your butt & use reverse cowgirl – When you are close enough for him to reach right out and grab you, turn, shake your butt, and move into the reverse cowgirl position. Use the music and the way his body is responding to yours to keep you moving.
- Switch to the classic cowgirl & ride him – This is a great way to bring the lap dance to a boiling point. Move to the classic version, maintain eye contact, and begin riding him however you like.
Pay attention: Just use your imagination, appreciate how amazingly sexy you are, and give him a ride he’s going to want again and again!