There are times when you will be in the mood, but she will be less than excited. Stress, lack of intimacy or even age can cause a person’s libido to plummet.
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Thankfully, when this occurs, all she will need is a quick pick-me-up. If you have some patience and you add in a few quick tips, you can have her ready and begging for wild banging.
List of Top 8 Tips You Need to Try
Tip #1 – Prepare Dinner from Aphrodisiacs
Many of the foods you eat will be able to boost your libido. While you may think that dirty talk or a drink of wine is the only way to get her going, you can also prepare a delicious meal that will have her ready and willing!
A several of the great foods to include are:
- Watermelon – Amazing for dessert. This fruit will make her blood vessels expand and will get her in the mood in no time.
- Celery – When men eat celery, a chemical reaction will occur that will allow him to release a body smell that women cannot ignore and are really attracted to.
- Pomegranate – Pomegranate is a great fruit known for its aphrodisiac effects. It has been used for thousands of years to spice things up in the bedroom.
- Chocolate – Not only delicious, chocolate also contains phenylethylamine which is a chemical known to get someone in the good mood.
A few other great aphrodisiac foods include chili peppers, avocados, bananas, oysters, red wine, salmon, walnuts & vanilla! Just try this awesome idea: Make her a delectable fruit salad with bananas, watermelon and pomegranate drizzled with chocolate followed by a glass of red wine.
Tip #2 – Stimulate Her Mind with Sexting, Dirty Talk & Phone Sex!!!
Sometimes, sexting is a great way to get her juices flowing. You can text her dirty talk, a picture of your manhood (long-term girlfriends or wives only), or what you would like to do to her when she gets home from work.
With texts, you want to be playful while saying exactly what she likes and wants to hear. You can start your conversation by a simple text such as this: “What are you wearing right now?”
B) Dirty Talk
When you get close to her, begin with dirty talk. You don’t want to sound like you are in a 1970s porn, but you do want to be feisty.
So, what can you do? Try following these 3 tips I am giving to you for free:
- Tell her how her perfume is getting you excited.
- Bite her ear and whisper what you want to do to her.
- Tell her how sexy she looks, but that you prefer her without clothes.
C) Phone Sex
Phone sex is kinky and fun. You can start simple by making moaning sounds, or you can tell her how good it feels when you go inside of her.
The goal is to make her picture every last detail of what you are saying so that she just can’t wait to get her hands on you.
Tip #3 – Rise Her Testosterone Levels
Contrary to popular belief, testosterone levels play a major role in a woman’s sex drive. While girls have usually lower amounts of this hormone than men, the little bit that is produced will make a world of difference!
What can you do if she lacks this substance? Try following 4 tips:
- Healthy weight management – Maintain healthy weight. High or low body fat levels can lower amounts of testosterone she is able to produce!
- Healthy fats – A diet with less sugar and more nuts, avocados and many of the foods mentioned in our aphrodisiac dinner article (see end of tip #1 for link) should be eaten.
- Exercise – Our body naturally produces testosterone when we exercise. Join your woman and ensure that both of you look & feel good and can’t wait to jump on each other when the sexy time comes!
- Therapy by doctors – In serious circumstances, direct therapy may be needed. This is meant only when women exhibit very low amounts of testosterone that may affect their lives adversely!
Keep in mind: Regular doctor check-ups are also recommended to make sure no medical issues are causing her testosterone amounts to plummet.
Tip #4 – Focus on Intense & Sensual Foreplay
Most women need foreplay in order to achieve satisfying orgasm. This has been scientifically proven! While men are ready and willing at almost all times, a woman needs a little extra boost to start her juices flowing!
Here is a list of few tips you can try to use during next foreplay:
- Talk dirty!
- Kiss, touch and lick her breasts & nipples!
- Be gentle, but playful!
- Tease her while undressing!
- Use your tongue for kissing her neck, arms & thighs!
- Explore her body with both your hands for added stimulation!
Pay attention: You want to make foreplay last at least 10 minutes to ensure that she is in a relaxed and sexy mood.
Tip #5 – Relieve Her of Home Tasks & Daily Stress!
We all know the fact that stress is a serious mood killer. When she gets home from work, the last thing she wants to do is to cook dinner, clean the bathroom and pick up your dirty socks!
Unfortunately, when she is tired, you will go to bed wishing for sex that you could have had. Therefore, you will want to reduce her stress levels as much as possible. This can be done by:
- Helping her clean the house.
- Allowing her some time off from home tasks.
- Cooking a delicious dinner and doing the dishes.
- Sending her to get a massage while you take care of the house.
- Giving her a sensual massage.
Pay attention: Our next tip, giving her wine, will also help her relax and simply see you in a new light! If you let stress build up, you will find that you are having less intercourse than ever before.
Tip #6 – Give Her a Glass of Red Wine
Red wine isn’t just good for your heart, it is good for your love life as well. A study was performed that indicated women have greater sexual desire when they drink this type of alcohol!
Regular drinking (not excessive) was shown to increase the desire levels of girls. It also helps to de-stress, raise her libido and increase her blood flow!
Pay attention: A nice pinot noir or cabernet is all that you may need to turn your love life around.
Tip #7 – Use The Power of Ginkgo Biloba
Both men and women can benefit from taking a ginkgo biloba supplement, or even a tea. It has been shown to aid with sexual dysfunction in ladies.
What does it mean? This herb can promote arousal, desire and orgasms. It has also expressed ability to reduce depression in a person. As you know, depression can cause a noticeable lack of sex drive in a person!
Pay attention: The best solution is to mix a few herbs together to create the perfect “love cocktail” that will get her going quickly. A mix of ginkgo biloba, yohimbe and damiana has shown to produce a noticeable difference in both libido and personality.
Tip #8 – Be Patient
As a man, there is one thing that you must do to boost her sex drive: be patient. All too often, people assume that couples make love all the time. On the contrary, this is not the case.
In fact, married couples have intercourse just a little over 1 time per week. A total of 68.5 times in a year. If you had intercourse twice this week, you are luckier than most men in America!
If you want more fun in bedroom, try engaging in foreplay more often and really get her excited. The worst thing you can do is rush and make her feel inadequate!