8 Sure Signs That a Girl Likes You

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You all know the saying: “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars.” Dudes and chicks simply communicate in different ways, and this leaves a lot of room for error in communication! How to tell? How to know if a girl likes you? You will discover the VITAL signs in the next few minutes.

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Girls have a vast array of emotional and physical tells when they are attracted to a boy! These are there to show interest without actually giving too much away.

Luckily, there are 8 most common signs you should look for to discover if she is attracted to you or not!

Sign #8 – Dilated Pupils & The Look She Gives You

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While certainly the most subtle, her eyes are the gateway to her soul. Paying attention to her pupils can tell you everything you need to know about her potential romantic interest!

A girl can say a lot with her look, she can reflect sadness, excitement, fear, joy and even attraction. If the last one is the case, you will be able to notice, that:

  • Her pupils may be dilated, and she will attempt to make eye contact often, even if she averts her gaze every time you return it.
  • She will often smile, and this will be reflected in her eyes.

If you think (based on the signs above) she is attracted to you, try complimenting her look. Telling any chick how beautiful her eyes are is always a win! This is one of the best signs to tell if a girl likes you IMHO!

Keep in mind: A kind compliment now and then will not only make other people feel good about themselves but will make your mood better as well!

Sign #7 – She Plays with Her Hair

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While it may sound strange to men, ladies use their hair to say a lot of things. Unfortunately, it’s simply not a language we speak.

A girl who is interested in you will often touch her hair (either to correct it or to play with it) while near you.

This is a subconscious thing women do when attracted to a man, wanting to be perfect by correcting a flyaway or replacing a fallen curl!

Keep in mind: If she does mess with her hair a great deal while in your company, it could certainly mean that she is attracted to you! These tips may come in handy – 5 Strategies to Handle Rejection Like a Pro

Sign #6 – She Touches & Bites Her Lips

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To communicate with your lips, you do not need to be speaking! Keep in mind that women are well versed at sharing interest wordlessly.

It’s only natural she would use her lips during flirting as they evoke thoughts of kissing.

Keep in mind: If she touches or bites her lips, and you notice it, your mind may very often go back to those thoughts of kissing them. Provoking your mind is exactly what a chick who is flirting with you is trying to do! If you see this type of behavior, you can see that she likes you.

Sign #5 – Her Body Is Facing You

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Facing someone with your body is a subconscious sign that you are listening to them and signaling that they are your current attention holder. In a general conversation, it’s just polite, but with a woman, it can indicate attraction.

Therefore, look for answers to these 3 questions:

  1. Does she face you when you are talking?
  2. If just standing around, is her body facing towards you?
  3. Pay particular focus to her feet, are her toes pointing at you or away?

If your answers are YES, it could mean that she is trying to convey interest in you. She subconsciously wants you to know that she isn’t ignoring you or wanting to be somewhere else.

Pay attention: Her attention is just on you! These are awesome places you have to visit – The 9 Best Places to Meet The Hottest Women!

Sign #4 – She Wants to Be in Your Presence Regularly

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Every time she walks into a room full of people, her eyes seek you out first. Pay attention as this may even be a quick, simple thing such as this:

“She walks in, views you, gives you a quick smile and then turns to find her friends.”

Still, you were first, and that means a lot! Want to know why? Because it says that she was thinking of you before she even walked into that room!

Pay attention: You were on her mind, and she had to check to make sure you were already there before she moves on to enjoy the crowd!

Sign #3 – She Touches You “Accidentally”!

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Physical contact is by far the most common way a woman will express her interest in you. An occasional playful punch or quick touch means a big deal when coming from a girl!


Because it means she was seeking out a reason to touch you or bump into you. Touching is girl-flirting 101. Pay close attention to her.

Does she lay her hand on your shoulder in greeting? Does she stand close to you? Does she squeeze your arm gently when you make her laugh or when telling a story?

Pay attention: If your answers to all of these three questions are YES, then she is definitely into you as all of these are standard flirting techniques!

Sign #2 – She Laughs Even at Your Poor Jokes

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This is one of those times where everyone is trying to say the same thing, just using a different language. Boys who are interested will often want to make their “target” girl smile while chicks who are attracted to a guy will want to do so.

A lady who laughs at all of your jokes, even those that you should probably retire from your comedy act, may be trying to show her interest in you!

Keep in mind: A person telling a joke, even a bad one, often just wants to make their audience smile! Smiling at someone’s jokes affirms their self-esteem. It lets them know that their goal to amuse you has succeeded.

If you want to know if a girl likes you, try saying a stupid joke and watch her reaction. How does she react?

Sign #1 – She Discusses You with Her Friends

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A girl who feels attraction to a boy will want to talk about him to all of her friends. What do they think? Do they think he is interested in her? Wouldn’t they make such a cute couple? What do you think his favorite color is? If you want to know how to tell if a girl likes you, this is one of those VITAL signs you should look for.

While this may sound like strange jibber-jabber to men, it’s a huge compliment. Every girl wants affirmation on her attraction (especially if you haven’t made any romantic moves yet) from the people who are closest to her!

THE STALLION STYLE Bonus #1 – 30 More Signs She Likes You

signs of attraction1. She Looks Back and Glances at You Repeatedly Every Minute or So
2. She Turns Her Body Towards You
3. She Hold Eye Contact for Longer Periods of Time When She Speaks With You
4. She Asks You for Your Name
5. She Asks You a Lot of Questions
6. She Stands Nearby
7. She Asks You for a Light or the Time or in Any Way Initiates a Conversation
8. She Plays with Her Hair While Talking to You
9. She Compliments You
10. She Punches Your Arm While Laughing
11. She Laughs at Your Jokes, Even When They Aren’t Funny
12. If It Comes Up That You Like Something, She Mentions That She Likes It Too
13. She Reinitiates Conversations When You Stop Talking
14. She Asks if You Have a Girlfriend
15. She Mentions You Girlfriend Without Knowing If You Actually Have One
16. She If Playful and Tries to Challenge You
17. She Touches You
18. When She Says or Does Something, She Looks at You to See Your Reaction
19. She Tries to Build Rapport
20. She Introduces You to Friends
21. Her Friends Go (to the Bathroom or Bar or Dancing) But She Stays
22. While You’re Talking to Her Group, She Is Particularly Talkative (to Get Your Attention)
23. She Calls You a Player or a Heartbreaker
24. She Invents Reasons to Be Near You, Interact with You, or Be Alone with You
25. She Avoids Mentioning Her Boyfriend
26. On Her Way Out, Se Reapproaches You to Tell You That She is Leaving
27. On You Way Out, She Asks You Where You Are Going
28. She Doesn’t Flinch or Pull Back if You Happen to Get Too Close
29. If You Move, She Follows You or Waits for You
30. She Doesn’t Resist When Things Get Sexual

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In the end, girls have many ways to show their interest but most of them will present at least a few of these original signs we listed above. After reading this how-to guide, you will definitely know if a girl likes you or not!

Read this next if you want to charm that one special girl: 20+ Really Interesting Questions to Ask a Girl You Like and this one here: 18 Great First Date Ideas to Spark Attraction


Hey folks! I am James (a.k.a. Stallion) and I want to make this THE GREATEST place for every guy to master the arts of love, dating and attraction! I am young, free and my motto is "Carpe Diem".


  1. I am a 23 year old woman and I approve this list! lol All the things are listed are very true. Girls love to “accidentally” touch your arm, take your hat- basically we like to flirt when we like a guy. The other one is the seeking someone’s presence, that one is very true as well! When we like a guy we can spot him in a game of Where’s Waldo? and he is the only one we want to see in a crowded room.

  2. I never thought of looking at a girls’ pupils for a sign that they like me. I have been FaceTiming with this chick for a few days now and I think that tonight I am going to pay attention to her pupils. I am kind of shy to ask her out, but when we do hang out, she does show most of these signs.

  3. I am a 38 year old woman and this list made me giggle, because it is very true, and not age specific. My 15 year old daughter likes one of her friends. One day she had a bunch of her friends over and I could spot the guy she liked because she could not stop playing with her hair when he talked to her lol. Now my 25 year old sister and I went on a double date, I took my husband and she took a new guy. Well whenever he would speak she did the same thing- played with her hair and gave him a slight seductive look. Ugh to be young and single! Enjoy it kids, one day you grow up and get married and flirting becomes nothing but a distant memory.

  4. This is the type of list that every teenage boy needs to read. My son is starting to date and he often asks me, how do I know if a girl likes me back?? I always tell him girls have different ways and tell him a few signs to look out for. But I am getting tired of repeating myself so I think I am just going to print this list out and every time he asks me I will give it to him, lol

  5. Laughs at your poor jokes lol! Yes, my boyfriend of 5 months is super hot but he has the lamest jokes! Sometimes I don’t even want him to talk around my friends because he thinks his funny- but his not. Have you ever seen those guys on tv, that are super hot, but airheads? Well, thats him.

  6. My current girlfriend was the queen of the “touch your arm while talking” routine. We actually met at a bar. I had come in with a co-worker for an after work beer. She was waiting for her girlfriend to arrive. We got into a discussion about men’s ties and she touched me on the arm at least 4 times within the first hour, lol!

    I knew after the second touch that she was interested. Sure enough, we’ve been together for the past 7 months. I tell my bro’s all the time that you don’t have to guess if a woman brushes and touches you while talking. They won’t do that unless they’re interested.

  7. I think it’s hard to see dilated pupils, especially if you’re already in a space where there isn’t much light. My ex-girlfriend showed me how she drops her head a little and tilts it to the side so that she can give a more girlish look. When we were dating, I never noticed that she did this. But as soon as she pointed it out, I was amazed at how sexy it was without even trying. Since she gave me her secret I’ve seen several other women do it as well. So look out for this one too guys.

  8. I know a woman is interested when I ask her questions and she gives me long, detailed answers. Case in point, I was recently at a party and I met a girl who seemed as though she liked me. At first the conversation was light. We mostly talked about the event we were at.

    But as soon as I asked about her job and a few other small talk details, she clammed up. She started giving me these one sentence responses. At that point, I just left her alone.

    Other times I’ve been talking to women and if I ask about a job or what they like to do for fun, they laugh, they explain things out and they ask questions too. Big difference! Lately I just listen to see how detailed their responses are and that works for me.

  9. These are all great tips! Admittedly I’m not a very experienced dater as I met my ex-girlfriend when we were still in high school and we dated until our early 20’s. Now that we’re not together I’m trying to work my way into the dating scene. My friends invite me out every weekend, but I still don’t feel 100% confident in bars and clubs. On the upside, I’ve noticed women doing several of the things you’ve mentioned in this article, so I must be doing something right.

  10. I think we can all agree that when a woman pays attention to
    you, she’s interested. If she’s making eye contact… smiling… and focused on the
    conversation you’re having with her, you really don’t have to twist her arm to
    get her out on a date. You can usually tell within the first few minutes of
    talking if a woman is interested just based on how well she pays attention to

  11. Absolutely! I agree with all of these, especially #1. Even now that we’re married, I can sometimes see my husband’s pupils dilate when he’s feeling particularly lovey.

    • Oh, Annie Marie Peters, this one is my favorite also. Love seeing the look in my husband’s eyes when I come home tired, thinking I look awful and his eyes are full of love as he says that I look just great. Or when I feel like slouching in bed in the weekends and he wakes up and we have breakfast in bed.

  12. Watch her body language! Whenever I was near my soon to be husband I didn’t know how to react, forgot where I was supposed to be going, didn’t know what to do with my hands and so on. He said that my behavior was super obvious and he didn’t know if I acted like this because of him or if I was just weird 🙂

  13. I think the arm touch is the biggest giveaway. My sister tends to do this and it’s super amusing to watch her reaction when she touches the hand of the “object of her desire”. She pulls her hand fast, her face gets red and she starts looking down. Usually these kind of things work for her as most guys like this and they eventually ask her out.

  14. #7 seems to be a popular technique for all teenagers of all genders. I’m not referring only to laughing at his/her jokes, but also to constantly approve what they say and this is hilarious when done to death. As an adult I find it entertaining to listen to their conversations and most time they make me giggle.

  15. It’s not easy being a teenager but today is especially hard with all the bullying and body insecurities that describe almost every teenager yet it’s great they can find articles like this online. Not all teenagers feel comfortable asking their parents for this type of advice and this gives them an idea of what to do.

  16. Number 1 and 2 are definitely true. But then again I always laugh at any kind of jokes. So, guys, I guess if you don’t see these signs in a girl, it could be that she don’t like you, or, MAYBE she is a very shy girl. I used to be very shy, so I subconsciously hide all these signs above. I avoid eye contact, body language, etc. But in the recent years, I am no longer shy, and very blunt if you might say. Yet I still don’t do things like above. This far, nobody, NOBODY, ever successfully guessed if I like someone. So, if you know a girl like me, your best chance of finding out is by asking her directly.

  17. Number 1 and 2 are definitely true. But then again I always laugh at any kind of jokes. So, guys, I guess if you don’t see these signs in a girl, it could be that she don’t like you, or, MAYBE she is a very shy girl. I used to be very shy, so I subconsciously hide all these signs above. I avoid eye contact, body language, etc. But in the recent years, I am no longer shy, and very blunt if you might say. Yet I still don’t do things like above. This far, nobody, NOBODY, ever successfully guessed if I like someone. So, if you know a girl like me, your best chance of finding out is by asking her directly.

  18. I noticed that one about the following you when you leave. I kind of moved away to sort of subtley say I need to end this conversation without saying that and I noticed the young lady moved with me as if she wanted to follow me. Regardless women are complicated!

  19. I’ve read this list so many times now lol, and I just don’t see how doing any of this would show me if a girl I like likes me back. And I’m in highscool and I don’t like to be a loner, cause it sucks.

  20. Saw your tips saw all the rave reviews sounds like it works pretty well and I’m currently trying to date somebody and I have noticed a lot of the same stuff that you have listed she is doing so what do you think should I… Dive in feet first as it were or should I take it slow and steady and test the waters first

  21. I don’t agree with the bonus signs that say a girl won’t flinch when touched or shy away from sexual attention. I was majorly in love with a guy, but I got so nervous when he was around me if he did touch me I flinched so awkwardly. He pulled back thinking I wasn’t into him. But I just was too into him. so he thinks “I rejected him” when I was just surprised. Always wished he tried again. Fine line I guess, wouldn’t want to tell a guy to be pushy with a girl. But if all the other signs are there. Maybe try again.

  22. Bonus #22 “While You’re Talking to Her Group, She Is Particularly Talkative (to Get Your Attention)” – Haha. This is so true with my girl. She does all sorts of things to get my attention when I’m looking at or talking to her other girl friends (and I enjoy her antics).

  23. Of all of the things mentioned above, most of them are checked with the girl whom I like but she is already committed with someone, what should I do?