When you have tried everything to pick up women with no success, there are books written by professional pick-up artists (PUAs) that can help you!
In fact, all of these have tidbits of information that will lead to getting new chicks or keeping your current woman satisfied beyond belief.
You will discover these 12 best seduction books on our list:
- No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert A. Glover
- Player’s Handbook by Tommy Orlando
- Rules of The Game by Neil Strauss
- The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed by Mystery
- Models: Attract Women Through Honesty by Mark Manson
- The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene
- The Game: Penetrating The Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss
- Bang: The Most Infamous Pickup Book In The World by Roosh V
- What Women Want In A Man by Bruce Bryans
- What Women Want When They Test Men by Bruce Bryans
- Open Her: Activate 7 Masculine Powers To Arouse Your Woman’s Love & Desire by Karen Brody
- She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide To Pleasuring A Woman by Ian Kerner
If you want to have an upper hand in the world of dating, the following 12 books will have you going from dud to stud in no time.
by Dr. Robert A. Glover
This is a masterpiece that will let you know the meaning of being a nice guy and still get what you want in life. This is the kind of book that exposes your mind’s boundaries letting you know how to get your act together and how to be happy.
This isn’t the book that tells you how to get a date by giving you first-date tips, it goes deeper and tackles what makes a man a nice guy.
Originally published as an e-book that became a controversial media phenomenon, No More Mr. Nice Guy! landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O’Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show.
Dr. Robert Glover has dubbed the “Nice Guy Syndrome” trying too hard to please others while neglecting one’s own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It’s no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frustration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover.
He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential.
Also, it teaches you how to spice up your life with the two chapters that tackle all matters sex, love and intimacy. In this book, Robert A. Glover gives you a guide on how to get your act together happily.
by Tommy Orlando
Tommy Orlando introduced the Player’s Handbook in two volumes. The first one is 99 pages long and provides you with a foundation for more sex and women.
This is not a revolutionary book that teaches you some secret to getting more chicks. Instead, this is a realistic approach and list of simple rules that every man needs to know.
This book will give you answers to questions like:
- How to never be without a sex partner – get any girl you want and always leave them wanting more!
- How to achieve the “Master” level, where seduction becomes second nature and you pick up girls without even thinking about it!
- Which “rules” you think you know that you may be dead wrong about – avoid these false assumptions and you will easily avoid rejection and missed opportunity.
- How to avoid the mistakes that 99% of men make when approaching women.
- The final answer on the age-old question: “What do women want?”
If you are just getting back into the dating scene, this is the stuff you need to start attracting ladies. The second volume is an advanced guide in seduction that includes 100 pages on various techniques that just work!
Keep in mind: These techniques are common sense (not revolutionary), but they explain all the fundamental rules of picking up hot chicks from an old school perspective. You will also learn proven tricks that will have her coming to you every time.
by Neil Strauss
If you had to pick up only one book that would change your social life, this would be my personal recommendation. It will help you land beautiful women and ensure that you are a chick magnet, but it is so much more than that!
Rules of the Game teaches you:
- How to be a social butterfly.
- How to conduct yourself in public.
- It goes through the process in a step-by-step manner.
There is a lot of self-evaluation that will also need to be done at the beginning of the book so that you can better judge yourself. You will be able to follow a step-by-step plan on how to become attractive in appearance and fashion.
From the Back Cover of The Book:
If you want to play the Game, you’ve got to know the Rules.
In his international bestseller The Game, Neil Strauss delved into the secret world of pickup artists—men who have made a science out of the art of seduction. Now, in this bestselling companion book, Strauss breaks down the knowledge he learned and techniques he invented into simple step-by-step instructions that anyone can follow to have success with women.
This expanded one-volume edition of Rules of the Game includes a new preface and a whole new book of powerful, field-tested word-for-word routines, published here for the first time.
You don’t need money, looks, or fame to succeed with women. All you need is an understanding of how attraction works—and this thirty-day workout program for your social skills, which has already guided tens of thousands of men from frustration to fulfillment.
Pay attention: You will also learn general life adaptations that will make you desirable. There is a reason Neil is a best-selling author, and his advice is something every man needs to read.
This crazy dude does not need an introduction, but the Mystery Method certainly is worth the buy. While his work is terrific, it is unlike anything you have read before.
You will learn how to fake it long enough to get her in bed, but furthermore, you will discover a lot about female psychology!
This resource is on the level of a college textbook as it will go very deep into psychological and social behaviors. You will discover how to assert yourself and be persuasive in the process.
The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed shares tips such as:
- Give more attention to her less attractive friend at first, so your target will get jealous and try to win your attention.
- Always approach a target within 3 seconds of noticing her. If a woman senses your hesitation, her perception of your value will be lower.
- Don’t be picky. Approach as many groups of people in a bar as you can and entertain them with fun conversation. As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. Now it’s easy to meet anyone you want.
- Smile. Guys who don’t get laid, don’t smile.
Pay attention: While this is not a “pick up” book, it will teach you how to attract women naturally. Learn how they think, and you will boost your chances of dating and sexual success in the process.
If you are wondering how to be assertive but remain persuasive, then this is the book for you. The benefit of reading this book is learning more than picking up chicks; you learn how to attract women effortlessly by learning how women think.
by Mark Manson
Mark Manson has compiled a book that should be sitting on every man’s counter. Do you want to be able to attract women through honesty instead of playing games with her mind?
Inside this book, you’ll learn stuff like:
- The root behaviors that cause all female attraction.
- Why typical dating advice and pick up theory is counter-productive in the long-run.
- How to overcome nervousness and anxiety around attractive women.
- How any man can make himself appear attractive with a little time and effort.
- The three keys to keeping conversations with women interesting and engaging.
- How to develop a genuine and joyful sense of humor.
This book will show you – how to have confidence; attract ladies by understanding them; be truthful, charming successful, and attractive; deal with anxiety, physical aspects of dating, success, and failure.
by Robert Greene
This has to be the most famous book written about finding your way around the ladies. But, as you’ll soon find out, that isn’t all the book offers. The Art of Seduction presents an all-rounded life guide and philosophies.
It is a masterful production of the works of great thinkers known to us such as Ovid, Einstein, Freud, and Kierkegaard.
It also highlights the achievements of the world’s greatest seducers like Cleopatra and Josephine Bonaparte and Andy Warhol.
By using the wits of these minds and others, you’ll learn how to get to the heart of that person you are into. The book covers the 24 strategies and tactics that will let you take control of situations ultimately having the person you are interested in eating out of your hands.
Some of the quotes from the book you might enjoy:
“What will seduce a person is the effort we expend on their behalf, showing how much we care, how much they are worth. Leaving things to chance is a recipe for disaster, and reveals that we do not take love and romance very seriously.”
“Every seduction has two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate their defenses and create surrender.”
Nate Liason wrote a great summary of this book, so don’t forget to check it out before you decide to get it.
There are 24 strategies and tactics covered that will explain to you how to take full control of a situation and ultimately have her eating out of your hands. If you have never successfully seduced a woman, this masterpiece lays out all of the basic and advanced methods of the Art of Seduction!
by Neil Strauss
The Game is simply a book that you must read today! Neil goes from not being able to pick up ladies to teaching you revolutionary ideas and ways that he was able to seduce some of the most beautiful women on the planet.
This is not some hyped up collection of words. Anyone that has been looking for a mentor who documents everything in the process of picking up hot chicks will find Neil Strauss and The Game everywhere they go.
From the book description:
On his journey from AFC (average frustrated chump) to PUA (pick-up artist) to PUG (pick-up guru), Strauss not only shares scores of original seduction techniques but also has unforgettable encounters with the likes of Tom Cruise, Britney Spears, Paris Hilton, Heidi Fleiss, and Courtney Love.
And then things really start to get strange – and passions lead to betrayals lead to violence. The Game is the story of one man’s transformation from frog to the prince – to the prisoner in the most unforgettable book of the year.
He even mentions how he met Britney Spears and Paris Hilton among many other world-known hot chicks. You will be immersed in stories that will blow your mind and ways that you can approach women, talk to them, and ultimately seduce them right into your bed!
by Roosh V
This book is the ideal solution for those of us, who weren’t born with a specific skill set to attract women. This means that it should be mandatory reading for every man out there. It gives you specific techniques and strategies for consensual romance and much more.
From the official product description:
Bang goes into explicit detail on how to achieve intimacy…
- “Four key moves” to the kiss that are so natural and easy to pull off that the girl won’t even recognize them as moves
- A comprehensive dating strategy so you make romance with her by the third date
- How to make a smooth transition to love-making
Dozens of additional topics are logically organized into five chapters…
- Internal Game. How to build your confidence and adopt the correct beliefs that maximize your seduction ability
- Early Game. How to meet women, have good conversations, build attraction, and get either numbers, kisses, or fast romance
- Middle Game. How to set up a date along with what to do and say while out on them
- Late Game. How to make love
- End Game. How to take your results to the next level
The lessons taught in this no-nonsense, no-fluff textbook aim to help men reach their romantic potential based on their existing look and status.
Roosh V’s Bang has been called a “pickup classic” and “bible,” one that he wrote after many years of dedicated study in the game. The book’s success has led Roosh to having a dedicated fanbase of tens of thousands of men who read his blog, newsletter, and forum.
by Bruce Bryans
One of the things you need to do after attracting the girl of your dream is to KEEP her, right? This book is the ideal companion for those of us, who want to master the area of keeping the girl you tried so hard to get in the first place.
In What Women Want In A Man you’re going to learn:
- How to understand women and the one thing that you can improve about yourself to make a woman want you more.
- The reasons why a really great woman is HARD-WIRED by NATURE to CHASE the kind of man that possesses several qualities that are rare in most men. (Hint: These are the keys to attracting women and understanding how women think.)
- Ten ways in which you can IMMEDIATELY begin working on yourself to become an overpowering magnet for the woman of your dreams.
- How to be decisive and become a master at dealing with conflict while staying perfectly calm and poised.
- The unforgivable sin that can ruin your chances of getting (and keeping) a good woman. This is the thing that FORCES her to either want to DUMP YOU or CHEAT ON YOU without her understanding why.
- How to take control of your emotions in any situation and be the rock that she needs you to be.
You should read this book, like right now. Some of the reviews I read on Amazon say that this is THE most important book that changed their life. Check it out, you won’t be sorry.
by Bruce Bryans
Women like to test us; they do this to find the best mate out there. That is a simple truth. You need to pass these tests otherwise she will go away as fast ass possible, and you will be alone, once again. This book will show you all the techniques and tips to master her challenges.
From the official product description:
Even if a man knows how to attract women, cultivating a mind-blowing relationship with one requires a different set of skills entirely. Women want men who can make them feel secure – men with strong boundaries and unwavering commitment.
Sadly, most dating and relationship books rarely show men how to keep a woman happy without them having to sacrifice their manhood in the process.
Here’s what you’re going to learn inside:
- How to be radically honest with a woman and why this makes her MORE attracted to you.
- The reason why women test men CONSISTENTLY and how to use this knowledge to deepen a woman’s desire. (Hint: This is the key to female psychology and how women think.)
- How to be confident with difficult women.
- What women want in a man and how to give it to them.
- How to make a woman happy without becoming a complete doormat of a man.
- How to seduce your wife and get her in the mood by responding like a MAN whenever she “pokes the bear.”
This book is another highly reviewed classic by Bruce Bryans; you should definitely get your copy and never fail any test that might be thrown at you.
by Karen Brody
This book is more on the spiritual side, it is something like the previously mentioned book from David Deida about being a superior man that will use his masculinity and spirituality to attract the opposite sex.
Open Her teaches a man how to embody 7 Masculine Archetypes to engage his woman in a deeper, more passionate dance of love. Each archetype brings power and a gift, a secret key to his woman’s love and desire.
From the official product description:
What man doesn’t fantasize about having the secret keys and passcodes to unlock a woman’s desire for him? The truth is, you don’t have to fantasize: you already have everything you need within you to unleash your woman’s desire.
The problem is you think it’s too hard, too mysterious or just “not you.” But what if getting what you want is simply a matter of tapping into what’s already within you–and is the only real missing link between you and a passionate, satisfying relationship?
Karen Brody, an Expert Guide for Men in Relationships, who has helped thousands of men successfully engage women will teach you how to fire up and leverage your masculinity and masculine gifts, to give your woman the aspects of you she secretly craves.
- Why trying to “get it right” is killing her passion and attraction
- Why a woman’s physical resistance is your most important opportunity to demonstrate leadership, love and sexual mastery
- How to tap into dormant powers that instantly awaken and deepen her desire for you
Some of the most helpful reviews state: A Masterpiece of Insight, to Help Men Understand the Woman they Love…, The Opposite of the Pickup Culture and much more.
by Ian Kerner
If you want to master the arts of cunnilingus, this is a must have book. Heck, every male should know how to pleasure her girl orally, as it is one of the most intimate acts that brings two people closer.
From the official product description:
Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either.
The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”
An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”.
Some of the most helpful reviews state: Great overview of total body sex and how to re-imagine what you thought was ‘the right way’, VERY HIGHLY recommended. An eye opener!!! A confidence builder!!! and much more.