The one thing every man wants to stay away from is a woman who is a gold digger. No man looks forward to giving his heart and soul to a person that is only after one thing – your money.
Now, she may be great at hiding her interest in using you as her sugar daddy, but there are 10 ways that you can figure out if she is digging for your wallet or not.
Keep in mind, ladies who come from wealthy families may not be gold diggers, but they will expect finer things in life!
Sign #10 – She Is Excessively Interested in What You Do for Living & Your Financial Status
It is quite common for a person to ask about your work and what you do. When 2 people talk to each other, a lot of the conversations will be about work and your interests.
However, when she is just looking for your cash, you will find that there is a level of obsession taking place here!
When she starts asking about how much money you make or when you will move up in a company, the girl is simply too interested in your cash.
Keep in mind: The only exception to this rule would be someone in the same field as you that simply wants to see if their salary is aligned with what a man receives.
Sign #9 – She Has No Career Aspirations
Aspirations are something that every person must have. Unfortunately, we are no longer living in a time where women will not work, or at least think about it.
Keep in mind: If she has no career aspirations and would rather stay at her dead-end job instead of bettering herself, chances are you would be significantly supporting her throughout your relationship.
Sign #8 – She Asks for Expensive Gifts
Have you heard the expression “it’s the thought that counts?” Well, when giving a woman a gift, she should never ask the price or beg for a more expensive alternative.
If her birthday or a special holiday is coming up, and she asks for a pricey gift, she is with you just for the money. You never want to be with a girl that asks for expensive gifts.
Keep in mind: If she loves and respects you, she will be happy with a gift of both $5 or $5,000 value!
Sign #7 – She Gets Mad If She Does Not Get What She Wants
A woman that goes ballistic or gives you a guilt trip when she doesn’t get what she wants will simply get worse over time. Unfortunately, this is an evident sign that you should run the other way.
Keep in mind: There is no price tag attached to love, and if she can’t handle not getting what she wants in a mature manner, it is not worth your effort to stay with her!
Sign #6 – She Is Always in Financial Trouble
It is often hard to determine if she is only after your money in case she is in a financial crisis. If she just lost her job, she may be missing on some cash right now but that doesn´t mean that she is after your finances.
However, if she has a good job but is always broke, you may have a woman that simply has no financial responsibility.
This will lead to her asking you for cash, or if your relationship gets serious, she will be the one causing debt and leaving you in financial instability.
Pay attention: Younger girls may have budgeting issues, but older women should not! If she can’t control her spending habits, she may just be using you for your money.
Sign #5 – Her Friends Are Gold-Diggers!
You can tell a lot about a woman by meeting people from her closest circle. If a girl has a lot of friends that are only after men for their money, she will likely have this same attitude!
People attract others that have things in common with. If her buddies, especially her best friend, is a gold-digger, you need to tread lightly.
Keep in mind: While she may not emulate her friends, many women do in this regard!
Sign #4 – She Never Wants to Pay for Anything
Traditionally, men pay for the bill, but times are changing. While you may do so when going out to a fancy restaurant or when you invite her to go out to eat! However, you should not be the one always paying the bill if you go out for just a cup of coffee or she wants to stop for a snack when you are not hungry.
The idea that you have to pay for everything is simply fading away! If she demands or asserts that you must be the payer of all her bills, she is stuck in a time that no longer exists.
Keep in mind: It is okay to pay for the bill, but it should never be something that is always done or expected by her!
Sign #3 – She Is Freak into Luxurious Brands
How much do brands matter to you? Like most men, you probably do not pay much attention to the brands that you wear.
Women, on the other hand, may like a particular brand that scream expensive!
Gucci, Prada, and various others cost more than some people’s entire weekly paycheck.
Keep in mind: If she is wearing only the best of the best brands and will not settle for less, she may feel entitled, or she may be unwilling to choose items that are less expensive.
Sign #2 – She Does Not Use Words “Please” & “Thank You” Too Much
The “please” and “thank you” are simple words that mean a lot when they are said. When you break down this meaning, you will see why these are so important to a person.
Asking for an item in a polite manner shows respect and general courtesy. This is asking for something versus demanding. Appreciative in nature, the words “thank you” indicate that a person is appreciative of an action you took.
Keep in mind: If she does not say these two words, she simply expects things to be done for her and doesn’t respect you or your feelings.
Sign #1 – She Is Obsessed with Acquiring High Social Status
If she is highly interested in your social status, it may be an indicator that she is a gold digger – or a very high maintenance!
Going to a gala or driving a car that is well out of her budget are good indicators of a problem with her social status. In this case, she needs a slap of reality or she will be expecting you to pay for her way to a new social level.
Keep in mind: Some women are willing to take advantage of others to achieve their dreams and wishes! If she is a gold digger, she is simply not worth your time.
A real relationship is about love, not your wallet!
