There is just something about strippers that each and every guy is attracted to. Their confidence in their body and sexuality is one of the most attractive characteristics!

However, if you want to pull yourself out of the muck and date this chick, you cannot allow yourself to become “just another face in the crowd”!

Here are 7 tips and tricks that you should use to pick up the stripper of your dreams – with style!

7 Tips to Help You Get Her Attention!

Tip #1 – Don’t Look Like a Chump

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We’ve all been at the strip club where we’ve seen those chumps sit up at the rail. They never actually pull themselves away from the stage, hooting, and hollering and carrying on as though they have not seen a pair of tits in their lives.

Obviously, you need to try to do absolutely EVERYTHING you can to avoid behaving like one of those guys – regardless of what your primal instincts may tell you!

Pay attention: There is no reason to get dressed up in a suit and tie to hit your local strip club! However, you should dress stylishly, look like you own the joint and remain confident throughout the entire evening. Whatever you do, don’t drool or cat call at any point in time!

Tip #2 – Enter Earlier Than Most Other Guys

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You’re going to want to get in just a bit earlier than most other guys though you certainly don’t wish to be the first in the building. You’re looking for an air of confidence, a feeling like you’re just out to have fun!

Keep in mind: You do not want to look that you’re plopping yourself down to check out one particular set list of the stripper that you’ve been obsessing about for the last 3 weeks. Pick out a seat halfway back from the stage, and begin to enjoy the show – and a couple of drinks.

Tip #3 – Make Sure That You Bring Enough Cash


There’s nothing worse than finally seeing your favorite girl perform in a strip bar, only to find that you’ve blown through the last week’s lunch money!

Pay attention: Depending upon your situation, you’ll want to create a precise “budget” that you can blow every time you hit the club. Just make sure that you’re stacked up on fives, not just ones!

Tip #4 – Don’t Become a Regular!

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This just might be some of the most important advice that you receive in this entire guide, so pay close attention!


There are these other kinds of dudes that she is going to target specifically to make a lot of money. However, these are never – NEVER – the kinds of guys that she would go home with.

Keep in mind: Do not be a jackass and do not become a regular either!

Tip #5 – Tip Every Single Girl on Stage & Don’t Be Cheap About It

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Another surefire sign that you are a complete and total rookie at this game is that you either refused to tip all of the ladies while you’re up at the rail or that you tip all of them a little bit until your “honey boo” shows up!

In which case you blow your entire wad, showing just how desperately attached you are. Just don’t be a sucker.

Pay attention: Tip each and every girl accordingly for each single song she does, and make sure that you’re generous. They talk about this kind of stuff backstage and remember who stiff them and who they want to stiff them.

Tip #6 – Make Sure That You Respect Her Job

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When you finally do get the chance to strike up a conversation with your favorite stripper, don’t go all frat party on them. Understand that this is a job that she’s taken on – one she may or may not be absolutely in love with – and treat it as such!

Pay attention: Just don’t make any callous jokes, don’t look like an overwhelmed idiot and have the kind of conversation you would have with any other girl you were attracted to! Unless she’s a dummy, then all bets are off.

Tip #7 – Don’t Pretend to Be a Hero

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Last but not least, stay away from any “hero imitations.” Even if you’re dealing with a stripper that has severe daddy issues, the last thing that you want to do is try to “save her” from the life that they have voluntarily chosen.

Sure, there are certainly some chicks out there that got into this world just to make some quick cash and hate themselves for it!

However, there are also a lot of women that fall in love with the job, couldn’t imagine not dancing, and are having the time of their lives exploring their sexuality. Just be the Prince Charming, not some sort of white knight weirdo.

3 Facts You Need to Keep in Mind Before Dating The Stripper of Your Dreams

Fact #1 – They Are Often Damaged & Problematic Girls

Not all is sunshine and roses when you decide to start going out with this type of a lady. This is a culture that can promote an unhealthy body image, sexually objectify women, and can do real damage to her self-esteem!

All of this can lead to:

  • Serious lifestyle problems
  • Drug habits
  • Even prostitution

Pay attention: Do everything you can to stay away from ladies that have either daddy issues, clearly had cases of, or are still into “snow blowing” – even when it’s 90° outside, if you know what I mean!

Fact #2 – Strippers Come with Advantages

There is a tremendous amount of different reasons why you’d want to date these instead of “regular girls” including the fact that they are:

  • Calm
  • Cool
  • Confident
  • Incredibly sexual

Keep in mind: There are a lot of “ordinary girls” out there that are pretty wild and uninhibited, but you know exactly what you’re getting into when you begin to meet a stripper!

Fact #3 – You Can Find Them Anywhere

Obviously, the best place to meet a stripper is in a strip club. However, you also have to understand that you can bump into these girls just about anywhere – these aren’t some “rare birds” that we are talking about here.

Keep in mind: They are people, just like you and I – and you can bump into them anywhere, at any time and moment!

Hopefully, you’ll be able to use the information above to score the “stripper” of your dreams. Be smart, be persistent, and do absolutely everything you can to be attractive!