What The Heck Is Dry Humping?

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When it comes to sexual satisfaction, it’s best to play it safe when you’re intimate with a partner you’ve just met or don’t want to start a family with.

Dry humping is an excellent way to satisfy your kinky urges without having to worry about getting her pregnant.

However, what exactly is it and what positions work the best? In next few minutes, you are going to discover answers to all your questions!

The Meaning of Dry Humping

Dry humping is when two people repeatedly rub against each other and move up and down or back and forth while they’re fully clothed. Essentially, you’re mimicking the act of sex, but never actually making skin-on-skin contact or penetrating.

According to UrbanDictionary.com, the meaning of dry humping is:

“Dry humping is the process of two people repeatedly moving up and down and back and forth on top of each other fully clothed (or missing various pieces, but the penis must not come in contact with the vagina without some sort of fabric separating them ex: boxers,panties, or even sheets!)

Example: I will dry hump anybody if they’re cute enough!”

According to good folks from LovePanky.com, it is defined as:

“Well, by definition, dry humping is nothing but dry sex. It’s a kind of non penetrative sex or outercourse, where your partner and you graze each other’s privates against each other, but with your clothes on.

You can feel each other down there, but you can’t see it or directly touch each other’s privates. And it’s probably called dry sex because you don’t exchange body fluids with each other.”

Keep in mind: This can be a safe way to be sexually intimate with your partner. For men and women who are waiting until marriage to have sex, this can be an excellent way to satisfy their sexual urges without sacrificing your virginity.

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Achieving Orgasm with Dry Humping

Some people solemnly swear that it’s impossible to orgasm from dry humping, but with the right technique and positions described below, it is rather easy! For women, getting her to climax is a bit more complicated.

It’s all about getting into her mind first before you start making physical contact. Here are some tips you should try:

  • Get her hot and interested – Before you begin touching her, stroke her mind first. Make her feel like she’s the only woman in the world and paint a picture of what you want to do to her.
  • Use your mouth – Kiss her, bite her neck and be playful with your tongue. Find out what physical contact drives her wild and go with it.
  • Focus on proper places – Use the friction of your clothing to stimulate her in all the right places such as her outer lips and clitoris.

Pay attention: For men, reaching orgasm isn’t all that complicated. It’s all about proper positioning. For women, her clit needs to be stimulated!

3 Best Positions for Dry Humping

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With the dry humping, there are not many options you can choose from. Therefore, I have listed the best ways you can achieve orgasm quickly:

  1. Missionary with clothes on – This is the most basic sex position, that works well even for a non-penetrative sex too. A man should be on top while a woman stays on the bottom making it easier to grind up against her!
  2. Cowgirl with panties on – The cowgirl position is the complete opposite of the above missionary. The female takes control and stays on top of you while facing you. You can change it up with reverse cowgirl where she will be facing her backside towards you!
  3. Riding his leg or thigh – For females, the simple act of riding your leg or thigh can get her off!

Keep in mind: All these are extremely sexual and can bring both of you to pleasure peak!

5 Tips to Spice Things Up!

If you’re ready to give it a try, use these tips and techniques to get the party started:

  • Shed some clothes – Dry humping is all about avoiding complete genital contact, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t take off at least some of your clothes. Lose the shirt or do this just in your underwear!
  • Don’t wear jeans – Avoid wearing jeans at all costs. You want this to feel good – not give you a good chafing.
  • Follow your instincts – Choose a comfortable position and let your instincts take over.
  • Gradual built up – Start off slow and gradually begin building up a rhythm.
  • Avoid routine – Vary your techniques to keep things interesting and spicy.

Pay attention: By applying at least some of these tips, you will spice things up a little bit and make the dry humping a very sexy experience!

3 Fun Things to Avoid Penetration & Potential Pregnancy!

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Dry humping is a great way to avoid penetration and enjoy sexual intimacy in a safe way. But there are other ways to have fun too!

Experiment with your partner, and try the following:

  • Oral sex and cunnilingus
  • Playing with her breast
  • Anal play and massage

Keep in mind: Between dry humping and the fun things listed above, you and your partner can enjoy each other sexually without penetration and in a safe way!

This Is Why Girls Love to Dry Hump

Female reddit user WildSheNerd:

“I had this conversation with my boyfriend yesterday, I absolutely love it almost more than anything else. It’s so exciting, I’m usually on top when we ‘dry hump’ or grind.

For the record as far as I know it feels amazing for most girls, feeling cock rub against your clit through the fabric can still get you off and just knowing what it is rubbing into you makes it 100 times better it gets you so hot and horny. As a girl, yes it’s fabulous.”

Female reddit user WestWays818:

“I enjoy it, probably way more than I should. Especially when I’m focused on something, and my back is turned, my boyfriend will just come up behind me, put his hands on my hips and his chin on my shoulder/crook of my neck, and starts slowly grinding the hell out of my ass. Biggest turn on to me.”

Female reddit user Sapphires13:

“Love, love, love dry humping. It’s a throwback to those early, intense days when you hadn’t had sex with your current partner yet. You both wanted to, but were holding back, relishing in toeing the line. It’s the best workup ever. I get off from it, but it still makes me want more, and more.

Best is without jeans. Either do just underwear, or pajama-type attire. I like to be on top and do the riding. That way I have more control over making sure my clit gets properly stimulated.”

Frequently Asked Questions

FAQ #1: Can you get pregnant during dry humping?

A simple answer is NO; you can not. The word “dry” means that you have your clothes on and no bodily fluids will get in contact with each other. These include fluids or lubrication from the penis (pre-cum or ejaculation), vagina, mouth, or even anus.

Therefore, if there was no contact between your bodily fluids, you should not worry about pregnancy. Even if there was a slight contact, unless there was a penetration (actual sex) there is only a slight chance of getting pregnant.

FAQ #2: What clothes are the best for dry humping?

The general rule is that anything you have on you that is soft, loose, and comfortable is a good option. The ideal clothing is sweatpants or cotton shorts.

Otherwise, look for materials that feel good against your skin, such as:

  • Satin
  • Silk
  • Cotton

Pay attention: As I have pointed out in the article above, never dry hump in jeans unless you want your genitals to feel sore and irritated the other day.

FAQ #3: Can I dry hump even if I am circumcised?

Guys, I have a great answer for you – YES you can! Even if you are circumcised, you can do dry humping without any worries. Whether or not you have foreskin will not affect your experience.

Pay attention: However, some guys report that circumcision will result in less sexual satisfaction and lack of stimulation. However, you should be able to last longer during sex because of less sensitive skin on your glans.

FAQ #4: Can I achieve orgasm during dry humping?

Yes, you can reach a very intense orgasm during dry humping. This goes for both men and women. However, whether or not you will achieve one will depend on your skills and knowledge of each others body.

Keep in mind: If you have troubles to reach orgasm, my advice will be to vary the intensity of your movements, your technique, as well as materials of clothing. Women reach orgasm much more easily during dry humping.

Even if you’ve already had vaginal intercourse, oral, anal, and breast play are great ways to spice up your love life and stimulate each other in new ways.

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  • Jim Thompson

    This brings back memories of being a young teenager and beginning the journey to what sex was. It was amazing how drying humping was so exciting and how quickly you both could orgasm. I agree that blue jeans are not a good idea.

    • I totally agree with you Jim. Oh those sweet old times of beginning experimenting with sex…

  • Fred Simpson

    I had not really thought about dry humping in a while but I can see that this could be something different to try to add a little excitement and anticipation into your sex life.

  • Gilbert Hernandez

    So the question comes to my mind would this be considered having sex if both people had there clothes on and they had an orgasm? What if they didn’t have an orgasm would it still be considered sex? Might be something for politicians to consider.

    • Hey those are two great issues and questions. I would answer first with yes and second with no. But that is just my own opinion.

  • Rebecca Newman

    I highly recommend this. Dry humping is not something just male/female couples do. Me and my partner use this to get the fire’s going when we are just down to panties and it sure does work. This post talks about using it as a replacement for sex but we like it as a fire builder for sex.

    • That is interesting and innovative approach to this technique. I am glad you have mentioned it to all of us.

  • Mark Stevens

    This really a fun and exciting way to have sex without having sex. My girlfriend decided to not have sex until after we were married and dry humping keeps our make out sessions hot so that it is easier for me to wait. Good stuff. I like your other ideas for replacement sex and am going to get her to read this. Hope it works.

    • I believe she will be very happy with some of the ideas and techniques presented here…

  • Jen

    Female here, this is my FAVORITE way to cum. Guys should learn to utilize this more!! Also I think it’s sexy when a guy cums like this. So fucking hot