The Perfect Lap Dance: 4 Tips & 5 Moves That Will Get Him

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Trust me that you don’t have to be a professional stripper to give your man a lap dance he’s going to remember for a long time to come! All you really have to do is to follow 4 simple tips and 5 easy moves I am going to share with you in next few minutes.

These are a great way to drive him into a sexual frenzy, show him how much you want him, and remind him of all those beautiful curves you are going to share with him later in bed!

This isn’t as difficult to achieve as you might think!

Four easy tips can make it possible for anyone to give their guy a dance that’s going to leave him begging for more. Five moves are all you need to make him completely out of his mind!

You don’t have to be a pro to give your man lap-dance that’s going to put the strip clubs to shame. All you have to do is remember following tips.

Tip #1 – Dim The Lights & Set The Mood with Good Music

For this type of dance, you need to create an erotically charged atmosphere. You can accomplish this with the right kind of music, and by making sure the lights have been dimmed to an appropriate level of sultriness.

You do not want to make it impossible to see what you are doing, but you do want the lighting to exude a certain sexual tension. I highly recommend these songs I have found in one article on YourTango website:

  1. Naughty Girl” by Beyonce
  2. I Wanna Sex You Up” by Color Me Badd
  3. Freak Like Me” by Adina Howard
  4. You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC
  5. Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This)” by Eurythmics
  6. Bel Biv Devoe” by Poison
  7. Ride” by Ciara
  8. How Do You Want It” by Jodeci and 2Pac

Pay attention: The music should be something that you enjoy dancing to. Just think of heavy sexy rock songs, pulse-pounding hip hop tunes and slow R/B number.

Tip #2 – Wear Sexy Clothes & Outfit
Watch this video on how to give a lap dance! (5:25)

This dance isn’t just about grinding in your man’s lap. It’s about giving them a package that they want to touch, but simply aren’t allowed to! You’re the package in this case, and you can wrap yourself up in anything you like.

Wear something you know you are comfortable in (since you’ll be dancing) but think about what he would really love to see you in. The underwear can be classy, trashy, or whatever you want it to be.

The outfit can be:

  1. Sexy Schoolgirl
  2. Naughty Nurse
  3. Even Eager Secretary

Pay attention: Do not limit yourself as it can be anything you can possibly imagine. This is a great opportunity to surprise him with the kind of ensemble he’s always wanted to see you wear.

Tip #3 – Prepare Suitable Chair & Make Him Sit There

The chair needs to be something that he is going to be comfortable sitting in, but it also has to give you the room to sit in his lap, straddle him and even more. Therefore, a small chair with armrests is probably a bad idea.

Your choice should have following features:

  1. Thick Sturdy Legs
  2. High Reliable Back
  3. Should Hold Weight of You & Your Partner

Remember: Pick something that will let you pull off all those moves with ease. The number one rule for striptease – no matter how much he wants to touch you, he’s not allowed to!

Tip #4 – Tease Him with These 5 Ultimate Moves!
Check out this lap dance tutorial, it’s AWESOME! (3:05)

My last advice is full of techniques you can use to drive him out of his mind. Again, you don’t have to be a world-class dancer to pull these off.

Just have fun teasing him with these five moves, and keep in mind you can strip away your outfit (and undergarments) at your own pace:

  1. Bend over & use the sexy lean – This is a great way to start out. Putting just the proper amount of distance between you and your man, bend slowly at the knees, show off that gorgeous butt of yours, and make sure you look back at him as you resume standing upright. Throw him into a state of intense arousal with the sexy lean.
  2. Touch yourself slowly everywhere – As you’re moving to the strains of the music you’ve chosen, show off the rest of your curves. Touch your body in the ways that you like to, and in the ways that you know he would love to do so at that exact moment. Alternate between closing your eyes and making direct contact with his, and pretend his hands are touching your body.
  3. Do the eight motion with your hips – The eight-motion involves trying to move your body as though you were trying to create the number 8 with your hips. The music is going to help you pull this off. You can start to move a little closer to him at this point, too.
  4. Shake your butt & use reverse cowgirl – When you are close enough for him to reach right out and grab you, turn, shake your butt, and move into the reverse cowgirl position. Use the music and the way his body is responding to yours to keep you moving.
  5. Switch to the classic cowgirl & ride him – This is a great way to bring the lap dance to a boiling point. Move to the classic version, maintain eye contact, and begin riding him however you like.

Pay attention: Just use your imagination, appreciate how amazingly sexy you are, and give him a ride he’s going to want again and again!

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  1. I think I am going use all tips! My boyfriends 25th birthday is coming up and I want to do something really special for him! I just need to think of a good song to dance too, I am thinking Nelly “over and over again” or ” Drip sweat” by David Banner. I am so nervous!

  2. I love when chicks give me lap dance, the issue that I am having is that my girlfriend is really shy. She tried to give a lap dance a few weeks ago but she couldn’t do it because she kept laughing- talk about a turn off. But she is super sexy so we still got it on.

  3. I need my wife to try and give me a lap dance we have been together for over 5 years and she never dances for me. She always has a reason for why she can not do it. But after she reads this list she better get to twerking in front of my face lol

  4. Ok, I got a chair, the right music, dimming bedroom lights. The only thing that I need is a girl to come over and give me the dance lol

  5. As a former stripper here are a few tips:
    remember if you run out of moves to do,you can always repeat moves
    the slower you move,the more sexy it will look
    do not let him touch you…but you can touch him
    its all about the butt & hips, move them sexually while looking at him

  6. My girlfriend took pole dancing lessons a few years ago. At the end of the class the boyfriends were invited in to see what they had learned. It was the best $200 I have ever spent, LMAO! It looked like she had earned a masters degree in pole-ology 101.

    If your girl doesn’t feel like she has the rhythm to pull off a lap dance, pay for her to get into pole dancing lessons. Not only will she learn some lap dance tricks, she’ll also be able to entertain you with a portable pole. Seriously, I would rather pay for pole dancing lessons than a piece of lingerie at Victoria’s Secret.

  7. My wife isn’t much of a dancer under normal circumstances. To get her in the mood, I take her out to a great restaurant… something she’s not expecting. We talk, we drink, we drink some more. I tell her how great her ass has been looking lately. (She does pilates, and she’s quite proud of her ass!)

    When we get home, I put on some slow music. I slow dance with her a bit, then I turn her around so she can grind against me. It always works! Sometimes you just have to know how to get her in the mood to do it.

  8. On our last anniversary, I was already dressed in a brand new lacy get-up for my husband when he walked in the door. The chair was in the middle of the living room, and the music was already going. I’m no dancer, but I’d been practicing this routine for weeks. He LOVED it! Needless to say it was probably out best anniversary night ever. And that’s a lot to say after 11 years of marriage.

  9. I’m definitely passing this list to my girlfriend of 3 years. I have a thing for strippers, but I’d much rather see her shaking that money maker, lol. I agree with another comment here that a night out of dinner and drinks might help break the ice. If she’s already feeling good after a nice night out it might be easier to convince her for a little lap dance favor.

  10. Ladies, if you want to give your man a mind blowing experience, follow these tips and drop it like it’s hot. My girl surprised me one day with a lap dance. I never saw it coming. We do go dancing together, but I’d never mentioned anything about a lap dance before.

    It was such a good surprise. Every now and again she springs one on me when I’m not paying attention. Last time I surprised her by running to the drawer and pulling out some $1 bills and making it rain. That was hot.


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