The Forbidden Art of Prostate Milking


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Hey, guys, if you are like most men (including myself), you will at least hesitate when presented with the idea of playing with (or inserting anything in) your anus. However, you should keep an open mind as the information below may completely change (and skyrocket) your sex life.

If you don´t, you may be missing out on intense pleasure. Why? Simply because close to a male rectal wall is hidden a small, walnut-size gland that is called prostate.

This little “devil” is so sensitive and full of nerve endings that it is also called a “Male G-Spot“.

Through its massage (also called milking), you can experience a mind-blowing orgasm that is far stronger than the one that you can achieve through stimulation of your penis.

All you will need are just your hands, lot of oil based lube, and patience. Of course, a specialized sex toy will make everything easier but is not necessary for you to climax.

However, before we dive into various techniques, tips, and tricks to milking your prostate, you need to be informed about potential risks and situations when you should never do it!


Before you start with milking the prostate, there are some health-related issues you need to know about. While the practice itself is safe, certain medical conditions can make it really dangerous.

These include:

  • Acute prostatitis – Anyone suffering from this condition can harm themselves by causing blood poisoning
  • Hemorrhoids – When you irritate the rectum, you can cause hemorrhoids to appear after an internal massage
  • Prostatic calculi – Small stones that are sometimes found on the surface of your gland can form without your knowledge, and these can scratch the gland causing pain and irritation
  • Prostate cancer – If you suffer from cancer, milking can cause the cancerous cells to spread all over your body (no massaging should ever be performed in this case)

Many of these conditions can only be discovered after a proper medical examination performed by a doctor. Therefore, I highly recommend you to have a yearly exam before you try to massage your prostate (especially if you are over 30 years old).



Male Perineum

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 Achieve 100% erection
Use a lot of oil-based lube on your fingers and perineum
Best position is to lay down on bed (on your back)
Stop as soon as you start to feel any significant discomfort

I understand that a lot of men do not like the idea of anything entering their anuses. Luckily, you can still milk your male G-Spot from the outside and make your love life better!

All you need to do is to follow these simple instructions:

  1. Achieve full erection (this will make your prostate gland swell = more visible)
  2. Lay down on your back with your knees in the air and feet comfortably on the bed
  3. With one hand, reach to your testicles and hold them up
  4. With the other hand locate a perineum (whole area between your anus and scrotum)
  5. Lube up your index, middle and ring fingers and start gently rubbing the point in the middle of perineum (halfway between your anus and scrotum)
  6. Keep stroking your penis with the one hand and massaging with the other
  7. After a while, you should start to feel a soft, but firm spot (this is your prostate gland)
  8. Slowly & gently rub your prostate through this place until you start to feel you are going to cum
  9. At this point, begin pushing harder in small circular motions until you reach a very intense orgasm

To stimulate it externally, you will need to use enough force because you will be pushing through a lot of tissue before reaching your prostate. Obviously, this method requires some practice so do not get discouraged if you can’t find the right spot for a first few times.


Milking should never cause you any pain
Always cut your fingernails & use a lube to avoid skin irritation
You will need to find the spot that feels the best for you through practice
It produces softer orgasms than internal massage

Recommended Video
Watch this Awesome Video With 4 Great Positions for Prostate Massage (3:16 Minutes)


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 Achieve 100% erection
Use a lot of oil-based lube on your fingers/toys and anus
Use special sex toys for easier climax
There will be a release of semen so have tissues at hand
Stop as soon as you start to feel any significant discomfort

Reaching a P-Orgasm through internal stimulation is not very complicated, but it will require a little practice on your side. Before you begin, it is crucial to choose a position that will be the most comfortable for you.

Here are five most popular positions among men that allow easy access to the rectum:

  • Being on both your hands and knees
  • Bent over a table or a chair
  • Laying on your side in the bed (my favorite when alone)
  • On your back with your knees in air and feet on the ground
  • Squatting

If you want to give this practice a try or want to add a little flair to your sex life, follow these steps to get started:

  1. Have a bowel movement and take a shower to make everything clean down there
  2. Trim your nails and file any sharp edges you may have
  3. Get yourself into one of the positions above
  4. Put on latex gloves or you can go skin-to-skin
  5. Place oil based lubricant on your index finger and your anus (you can use special toys instead of your fingers)
  6. Try to be relaxed (if not, play with your anus for a little bit to make it relax)
  7. Insert index finger into your rectum (do this slowly and gently)
  8. Go 2–3 inches deep (about your second knuckle)
  9. Move the tip of your finger up in the direction of your navel (belly button)
  10. Explore with your finger and try to locate round bulb of tissue inside of the rectum – that is the prostate gland (it has a size of a walnut)
  11. When you are in the right spot, you will notice a different sensation (does not have to be pleasurable)
  12. Once located, gently stroke the area all around it with your fingerpad and avoid its middle (force, speed, and type of movement is very individual so feel free to experiment)
  13. Take your time and avoid touching your penis to achieve most intense prostate orgasm
  14. After you achieve the desired number of P-Orgasms, you can begin masturbating to experience very intense ejaculation (have a towel at your hand)

This is all that is needed to milk your gland. There may be a significant release of semen from your penis so have tissues at hand. Do not forget to add more lube when needed and if you feel any pain – stop immediately!


Milking should never cause you any pain
Always cut your fingernails & use a lube to avoid skin irritation
Do not use too much force & be gentle when entering anus
Do not touch your cock when internally milking your prostate to experience intense orgasms

Recommended Video
Watch This Great Demonstration Video on Finding His Prostate Internally (2:19 Minutes)


A lot of guys has been sending me emails that they have troubles identifying an approaching prostate orgasm and that they are worried they are doing it wrong. Therefore, I have decided to add signs that you are on the right track and your “Big O” is near.

If you are getting closer to your climax through prostate massage, you could experience:

  • Spontaneous leakage of pre-cum
  • Urge to pee (it is just a feeling, trust me that you will not piss yourself)
  • Spontaneous muscle contractions outside the area of stimulation (especially pelvic and thigh areas as well as legs)
  • Built up of feeling of warmness in the areas of your pelvis and genitals (sign of an orgasm that is very close)

Just remember that each one of us is different. Therefore, you may not experience all of these signs in this order, but your experience may be different. If so, then please share it with us in the comments section at the end of this article.


“But in most cases, most men will not confide that they like it. They will keep that very private. An example…”

“My brother told me there was no way he would ever stick his or anyone else´s finger up his butt and do that… ever!”

“Yet his wife told me he really loves it when she sticks her fingers up his ass and rubs his prostate when she´s blowing him. She says it really makes him cum hard and delivers a huge load… Men!”

User Roc from

“Never got an orgasm with Helix, though it was very pleasurable. Progasm seems a bit big, but once inserted it is so comfortable… You twitch your muscles a bit and then it takes over… it really does.”

“You will find your whole body contracting and your penis twitching. I have used it for quite prolonged sessions… On some occasions, I am in a state of orgasm (dry) for more than an hour!!!! Definitely recommended.”

User Norkabator from

“Not sure what qualifies as milking. Massaging the prostate to orgasm isn´t the easiest thing to do yourself – but have had it done to me, and it was great.”

“Those with patience (and stamina) to do it gently for a long time did the most for me… but those who were more vigorous or used toys/vibrators were intense, too.”

User Passive Aggressor from

“For me, an orgasm obviously feels great as it does for all guys, but when the prostate is stimulated when you are getting your penis stimulated it is like going from mono sound to II surround sound.”

“The sensations are not just in your penis but flow through deep in your ass and into your stomach area. It is simply amazing.”

“There are orgasms, and then you can turn on the supercharger and magnify and expand the intensity and area within your body that feel the waves of each contraction as you ejaculate.”

User ProV1 from

“My first prostate orgasm was a few months ago. I had an Aneros massager, made for prostate massaging, and decided to go for it. … Anyway, I was laying down and doing the initial exercises. Inhale and contract, exhale and relax, and that alone felt amazing.”

“However, I went to try another position and in sitting up, the Aneros hit a sweet spot. I let out a loud groan and then clapped my hands over my mouth. … I was rock hard, but I kept true to the instructions and didn’t touch myself. After a while felt it building. I knew I was going to climax, but it wasn´t a typical feeling. When it hit, it fucking hit.”

“A wave smashing into my groin, wave after wave smashing over the rest of my body. I felt every hair follicle on my scalp, and I felt a pressure building again. I had ended up groaning again, quite loudly, and shot across the room. Multiple volleys of semen flew across the room, managing to hit the opposite wall. When it was over, I was still quivering. Gasping for air and trying to not touch my body.”

User from


Guys, I honestly hope you liked this guide. Even if you are not completely “on the train” with the idea of playing with your prostate, I want you to take one thing out of this article:


I understand that a lot of men shy away from anything that is related to playing with (and penetrating) their anuses. However, experiencing a prostate orgasm is something incredible that you simply cannot achieve through regular sex.

It may shock you first, but trust me, you will love it (and no it does not mean you are gay).

Shooting loads of semen for several seconds (in intense cases even minutes), feeling waves of pleasure inside your body, losing control over your movements, these are just a few “sweets” you are going to miss if you decide to not try this out.

Please, share with us your personal experience in the comments section at the end of this article.



Prostate Milking FAQs

FAQ #1: Is there any difference between milking and massage?

Both terms address the same thing – stimulation of the gland. The techniques used are the same as well.

The only difference is in the fact, that milking focuses on stimulating the gland up to the point it releases massive amounts of fluids (semen).

FAQ #2: Will this massage hurt?

Guys, if you are doing everything right, you should not feel any pain during this procedure. However, if your gland is not healthy (inflamed or some other more serious issue), you may feel some degree of pain (often dull and unlocalized).

If this is the case, you should stop and talk to your medical professional to be sure you are not doing more harm than good to your body.

FAQ #3: Doesn't "anal stimulation and pleasure" make me a little gay?

I think I should have started with this questions as it’s one of the most common ones I get. Guys, there is one simple answer, it’s a big NO!

Sexual orientation is not about what you do with your body during sex, but it is about who do you have sex with. You need to realize that both heterosexual and even gay guys love getting a blowjob.

Therefore, if you love prostate or anal play, and you do it alone or with a girl, it does not mean that you are gay, and you do not need to worry about your sexual orientation.

FAQ #4: Isn't prostate massage a little bit "dirty"?

Well, the answer to this question depends on how well you prepare for your “session”. It can, but it does not have to be!

If you follow the advice in this article, this should be completely clean and pleasurable experience for both your partner and yourself.

FAQ #5: Will prostate stimulation get you addicted?

A lot of guys (who read those excellent user experiences) may worry that this kind of orgasm can be so intense that it will make you “hooked up“. Trust me, although it may be the peak of male pleasure, it will not ruin your sexual satisfaction from regular sex.

As guys from Pleasure Mechanics wrote: “Think of a great steak dinner – you may love it once in awhile, but it doesn’t make a great burger any less pleasurable!

FAQ #6: What is the liquid that will come out of me?

Believe it or not, during your orgasm, the gland will release a lot of clear, non-sticky fluid. This is basically a semen.

It is almost the same substance male body releases during regular orgasm, but it lacks the sperm. Just keep in mind that there may be a lot more liquid than you are used to ejaculating during regular orgasm.

FAQ #7: I bet my wife will not be into this - what should I do?

Guys, do not make the mistake by not talking to your sexual partner before assuming she will not like anything new. Just tell her that there is something exciting you would love to experience in your sex life.

I bet that she will respond positively to such request. Especially if she will know that she will be giving you intense pleasure!

Just show her this article where she will find answers to all her questions and I bet she will be into trying this the next time you will have sex together.

FAQ #8: What is the best way to get started?

If you are a beginner, I highly suggest you start by following the guidance within this article. Do not forget that except your fingers you can use massagers (good models are making this whole experience a lot more comfortable).

Pay attention: You should get one from the Aneros brand. I have listed their best models right here – The Beginner’s Guide to Aneros Prostate Massagers.


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“Get ready for “bad” news: you might not have an orgasm on your first try. That’s fine. I had a prostate toy for about 2 years. I used it on and off and I didn’t have an orgasm from it until recently. I realize now that the main problem is that the batteries would constantly die on me, but even when they held up, I didn’t have an orgasm. One thing that was always for sure: huge orgasm when I finally masturbated. Also, lots and lots of semen. I found it amazing to masturbate while the toy was in.”

“So as I’ve said before, just focus on the current sensations. It might be a while until you have an orgasm, but I promise you’ll enjoy it and improve your orgasms regardless, so you’re already winning. I think it’s important to try to focus on the current sensations, rather than on the orgasm. Focus on what you’re feeling, not on what you’re not feeling.”



Perfect for Beginners / Intermediate Users Thanks to Its Medium Size & Extra Features (Check Price & Reviews)

Guys, the best option (although it is quite expensive) I have found on the market these days is called HUGO. It is a remote-controlled, vibrating prostate massager made by the Swedish company called LELO (do not worry they have an office in the US as well).

The HUGO is medium sized (an insertable length of 3.4 inches / 85 mm and a girth of just over 4 inches) that makes it perfect for almost every user no matter his experience.

Watch the Video About The Best Massagers Right Now!

There are several features that are worth pointing out:

It has two vibrating motors (one in base and another one in tip)
Remotely controlled unit with 6 modes of regular vibrations and 2 SenseMotion modes
Made out of medical-grade materials (silky smooth silicon surface with a gold ABS plastic base)
Rechargeable (2 hours of charging time) model that offers approximately two hours of “play time”
This product is completely waterproof

Every one of these great features is packed in a relatively lightweight unit (just 4.1 oz / 116 g). However, this perfect product has one downside – it is its price. The HUGO model is one of the most expensive prostate massagers on the market with the price around $219.00.


The HUGO by LELO is one of the best remote-controlled prostate massagers on the market these days. It is medium-sized and offers many extra features that make this model great for users of all experience levels.

Perfect for Advanced / Experienced Users Thanks to Its Larger Size (Check Price & Reviews)

The second best option that I am going to recommend to you is called VICE. Again, this one is a vibrating product. However, this time it has no remote controller. The VICE massager is made by the American company called Aneros.

The VICE is rather on the larger-size spectrum of prostate massagers (an insertable length of 4 inches / 101 mm and a girth of little under 4 inches). Therefore, it may be too big and intimidating for beginners to begin with. However, it delivers perfect sensations to advanced and experienced users.

Watch the Promo Video About The Aneros Vice Model!

There are several features that are worth pointing out:

It has a single insertable stainless-steel “bullet” vibrator that is ultra quiet
Lacks remote controll but offers three vibrating patterns with each one offering three levels of intensity
Made out of high quality medical grade silicone (phtalate-free) whose satin finish allows for a comfortable and easy-to-clean experience
Offers incredible hands-free stimulation thanks to the contractions of your PC muscles

Every one of these great features is packed in a relatively lightweight unit (just 8 oz / 226 g). However, this quality made massager has one downside – it is not completely waterproof. The VICE model is significantly less expensive than HUGO, with the price around $139.95.


The VICE by Aneros is a high-quality vibrating prostate massager. It has a rather large size and therefore it is more suitable for advanced and experienced users.

Perfect for Advanced & Experienced Users Thanks to Its Large Size (Check Price & Reviews)

The third option on this list is another vibrating massager called LOKI WAVE. Although it is not remotely controlled, it is still very easy to use and is made by a great Swedish company called Lelo (same company that makes HUGO massager as well).

The LOKI WAVE is quite big (an insertable length of 3.54 inches / 90mm and a girth of just above 4 inches). This larger size makes it a perfect option for users who are more skilled in prostate play.

Watch the Training Video About The Lelo Loki Wave

There are several features that are worth pointing out:

It has dual-motors that offer both internal as well as external stimulation at the same time
Easy to control unit that offers 10 different modes of stimulation
Made out of medical-grade materials (silky smooth silicon surface with an ABS plastic base)
Rechargeable (2 hours of charging time) model that offers approximately two hours of “play time”
This product is fully waterproof

Every one of these great features is packed in a relatively lightweight unit (just 7 oz / 198 g). Similarly as in the case of HUGO, this quality made massager has one downside – it is expensive. The LOKI WAVE model will cost you around $219.00.


The LOKI WAVE by LELO is a high-quality massager that offers a great variety of stimulation patterns. Its large size and 10 different stimulation patterns make this model great for advanced and experienced users.

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