Make Her Jealous with These 6 Simple Things


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Love, lust, comfort, joy and, yes, even jealousy are all part of our relationships. The last emotion has a special place in any healthy couples! It’s the reaffirmation of dedication and commitment. 

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Some ladies will not realize they have an interest in someone until they feel that bite of envy when he receives attention from other girls. But how can you make her jealous and not lose her interest entirely?

Well, it isn’t as tough as it sounds thanks to this simple 6-step guide.

Step #1 – Firstly, Pay Some Attention to Her

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Without establishing a first connection, trying to make her feel jealous is useless. Therefore, you have to spend a little extra time focusing just on her.

Make sure to give her compliments, smile at her and make her laugh!

Let her know how important she is to you (either as a friend or girlfriend) and how special and unique she is. However, you should not come off clingy or desperate. Keep it just sweet and sincere!

Pay attention: This alone will help your relationship. It’s important to let someone know where they stand in your heart, even if it is not the route you are shooting for!

Step #2 – Talk to Other Girls for a Few Minutes (Make Sure She Sees It)

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This is a step that must be taken cautiously for 2 key reasons:

  1. Insecurity – Firstly, for the girl you are trying to make jealous. If she thinks you are overly flirty with too many other ladies, she may write you off as a player that will bring more heartache than love.
  2. False hopes – Secondly, for the other chicks you are talking to and spending time with. Please note that you are speaking to them not flirting with them! You could mislead them into thinking you are interested in them (this may be unfair and even hurt these girls).

Keep it simple and just showing her you have other female friends is enough here. Be friendly, tell jokes, and mention them from time to time in conversations with her. Let her know you have taken an interest in their lives!

Step #3 – Go Out with Your Pals & Tell Her How Much Fun You Had to Make Her Jealous

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This shows that while she is important in your life, you still have a lot more going on. Talk about your friends by name, inform her of the great things that happened while you were hanging out and make sure she knows you can have lots of fun without her.

This by no means indicates you should dismiss her!

Pay attention: Use it as a tool to make her know you are a funny guy that others want to be around. Let her know you have a full schedule in your life! Later on it will mean much more when you make lots of room for her in it!

Step #4 – Tell Her About Other Girls You Like

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Talking about various chicks with her is a sure way to make her green with envy. If done carefully and well, it can also win you big points as a decent guy.

Example #1:

If you have an upcoming project due date that is shared, mention something like this:

– “Yes, Amy said she already started working on it, and it wasn’t as bad as everyone made it out to be.”

From this simple sentence, you showed her not only you have been talking to Amy, but also you listened and remembered what she said while not being immature or obvious.

Example #2:

Or, you could be a little more direct. Something like:

– “I like Kathy’s new haircut; it’s pretty on her.”

It is a common sentence a nice guy would say and shows that you pay attention to the women in your life without objectifying them.

Step #5 – Harness The Power of Social Networks & Sites


Social media allows people to connect with others and publicly communicate. It’s a great way to create a small level of jealousy in any relationship.

Just pay your shared female friends small, but thoughtful compliments on their photos!

Tell them they did a good job in last night’s sports game or ask for aid on a project while saying how smart they are.

Pay attention: Not only will it create a friendly atmosphere with the ladies in your life, but it will make that special woman take a little extra notice of the amazing dude she already has!

Step #6 – Do Not Overdo This If You Want to Keep Her!

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Women do not want guys who are insincere or seem likely to stray. If you constantly flirt with other girls, stalk them on social media and tell her how great they look compared to her; you stand no chance of winning her affection!

If anything, all this will do is make her turn away and inform her friends how disingenuous you treat other ladies. Be honest but not obvious, bear in mind how awesome she is and why you are doing this in the first place!

Keep in mind: A little jealousy is necessary – a lot ruins any happy relationship.

9 Quick Tips to Make Her Jealous and Want You

1. Try to be friendly on Facebook with other hot girls, like their pics and post comment on their sexy pictures.
2. Don’t forget to mention the sexy body of your new neighbor or coworker.
3. Pay for a female friend’s cab in and tell her about this.
4. Notice little cute things about other girls and mention it in conversation.
5. Post a status on Facebook about how great your last night was.
6. Post selfies with other girls.
7. Do something you’ve always wanted to do and tell her about it.
8. Get in shape and let her know that other ladies like your body a lot.
9. Let her see you with other girls during the day
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  • Hannah

    These are great tips on how to keep your lover on her feet.But these tips should be reserved for a healthy relationship. As a girl that has been cheated on in the past, I am very paranoid. I am confident in the way I look, cook and carry myself. However I dated a guy and he cheated on me with an ugly chick that didn’t seem to care about her appearance. Sometimes its not the guy, sometimes women like going after guys that are taken.

    • Meghan

      Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but any chick can go after any man, taken or not. It’s up to your man to say no, if he loves you and feels that your relationship isn’t worth the risk. It’s not the girl’s fault, she never said she loved _you_

      • James Buzinko

        This is one way of looking at this issue. However, there are many who would not agree with you.

    • James Buzinko

      Hannah you nailed it. Some chicks love to get men who are married or in relationship. I have no idea what pleasure brings this to them but it is weird…

  • Kyle

    Awesome tips, its great to remind your girlfriend that you still got it! And I agree that you should pay your woman a lot of attention first so that way you guys have a secure relationship. Trust is very important in a relationship.

    • James Buzinko

      That is true! Never try to make her jealous if you are not in a relationships where he can completely trust you.

  • YogaBody

    I find these tips are so helpful. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years and we are so close. I know he loves me but sometimes I go out with my girlfriends and I dress very sexy. He sees me walk out the door and his jaw drops. His not jealous and he knows I love him, but I can tell he gets a tiny bit jealous! Ladies its good to let them know that you still got it!

    • Sean

      Personally, I’d prefer a girl who dresses sexy when she goes out with me, not just with her girlfriends. Yeah, she’ll turn some heads and I know it, and I guess there’s a touch of jealousy there, but it’s easily dismissed because I know I’m the one she’s trying to impress.

      • James Buzinko

        That is really healthy attitude you have shown!

    • James Buzinko

      I bet you should dress like this even when you are going out with him!

  • Craig

    These are good ideas except I seem to only meet crazy chicks that have daddy issues. I once dated a girl that got mad because another girl left me a happy birthday message on my Facebook wall. She got so mad that she sent the girl a rude message- little did she know that it was my boss! I was so embarrassed! Needless to say I no longer date her.

    • James Buzinko

      Lol that is hilarious story! 😀 I never want to experience what you did 🙂

  • Walter

    I find that doing these 6 simple things in the beginning of a relationship makes any women show you if she really wants to be with you. Because if she really likes you these little things will make her jealous and she might step her game up.

    • James Buzinko

      That is really great tactics if you want to make sure she is really into you!

  • Helena

    I think number 6 is the most important thing on the list…my ex always tried to gt me jealous, but that in the end just pissed me the fuck off and i dumped him. do you really feel the need to get me annoyed regarding you and other women to get proof that i care about you? jealousy is the weak man’s weapon!

    • Yasmin

      Yeah, I don’t know if there’s any amount of this that I’d like to see in my relationship. I only date men that have a little bit of tact about them. If you can’t maintain your female friendships in such a way that I know undoubtedly that I’m #1 on the list, then it’s time for you to go. and don’t take your time with it either!

      • James Buzinko

        Sure, girlfriend needs to be the top priority.

    • James Buzinko

      Well, you could look at it in this way. However, there are dudes who want to do this just to make their girls realize they have an attractive dude that is worth fighting for.

  • Cosm

    I always get jealous with my gf, because she has a lot of guy friends, but she doesn’t really get jealous with me because I’m a programmer and if I get to talk to a woman once a week that’s something. However, I love it when she gets all suspicious when I talk to one, mybe I will try to make her jealous using your tips more often haha

    • Merryl

      Ok, that’s news to me. Guys like it when girls are jealous? Cuz as a girl, I can say that most of us apparently hate to get jealous.

      • James Buzinko

        Sure, it shows us you care about us. But I prefer to make my girl only slightly jealous and only for a short time in order to avoid doing more harm than good.

    • James Buzinko

      Try it out and see how she will react. Sometimes it is really great t make her little bit “green”.

  • wendy

    I don’t know, on one hand a little jealousy can be good, on the other it’s easy to exaggerate and end up fighting over it. I for one would ust get pissed if my SO tried to make me jealous on purpose, I’d feel he was playing with my feelings. I guess it depends on the person…

    • James Buzinko

      It really is highly depending on the individual and the way how you do this. You need to keep in mind that by provoking jealousy you are stepping on a very thin ice.

  • Eddy

    Hahha thanks for the list man, time for two to play that game! My gf always tries to makes me jealous and that really pisses me off, but it’s time she got a taste of her own medicine! Your blog is super helpful dude, thanks

    • James Buzinko

      You are welcome Eddy. I hope you love other articles I have published already.

  • Nikki

    I think it’s important to let the other person in the relationship know you still got it…they appreciate you more!!! I never used to make my gf jealous and then she got complacent…when I started talking to women, she started working for my attention again – damn that felt good!

    Perfect list, Stallion!

    • James Buzinko

      Thank you Nikki. I totally share your opinion on this one.

  • Kyle

    I conquered the jealousy beast a long time ago. It has no place in a mature relationship, really.

    • James Buzinko

      Sure, in a mature relationship it has no place.