Learn How to Impress a Girl With 10 Simple Tips

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Every guy has a girl he wants to speak to and impress, but often just cannot seem to find the right words. I bet you know that situation when you want to do something to impress her, but you have no idea what!

What should you do? It’s easy…

Here are 10 simple tips that you need to follow to make her interested in YOU!

Tip #10 – Focus Your Attention

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One of the best ways that you can impress a girl is to make sure that you provide her with your undivided attention. This might be a little difficult to do at the beginning, especially if you are just meeting her officially for the first time or are in a crowded place.

However, this is one of the best methods how you can separate yourself from the rest of the pack!

Just stay away from all mobile devices while you are talking to her and try not to:

  • Take any calls!
  • Review any text messages!
  • Check your emails!

Pay attention: You may even be able to earn some points on her scoreboard simply by allowing your mobile device to ring or even turning it off in her presence, letting her know that she is the most important thing to you at that exact moment!

Tip #9 – Maintain Direct Eye Contact

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Since she is fully aware that she has your undivided attention, the next step is to make sure that she can see that as well. Maintain direct eye contact at all times!

Here is what great website EliteDaily.com says about eye contact:

“We live in such a removed, cold age. We deeply fear real connections. We’re spending so much time disconnecting and disengaging from the populous by staying in the safe haven of our laptops.

Eye contact strips away all the bullsh*t we’ve become so dependent on. Staring into someone’s eyes allows you to see the real, raw humanity of a person. When you gaze into someone’s eyes, you can see a person without the heaps of endless filters and relentless hashtags. It brings us back to our primal state.

Eye contact is where seduction begins, after all.”

Studies have confirmed over the years that:

  • Observing the ground shows a lack of confidence, which is a major turn-off.
  • Looking around and upwards can reflect a lack of attention or care in what (or who) you should be focusing on at that moment.

By the way: If you want to be prepared for the first night with your new girl, then read these unusual yet very simple sex tips: 8 OMG Sex Tips That Will Make Her Obsessed with You

Tip #8 – Show Your Feelings

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Throw away the old sayings that you should never be willing to express your feelings. A woman wants to know that you have emotions and that you are not afraid to show them to her.

Just be sure not to overdo it!

Each woman wants a guy who has a backbone. Therefore, you want a “leaky faucet” of feelings expressed – not a flooded basement!

Tip #7 – Always Be Well Groomed & Dressed

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Your dress and grooming will speak volumes to her even before you can say a single world. It does not matter what you look like. There are plenty of people that do not naturally look like 10s on the Richter Scale of Hotness.

However, you would be surprised at just how far your clothing and grooming will get you in this regard. Therefore, you need to always:

  • Stay shaved
  • Dress sharp
  • Smell fresh

According to PsychologyToday.com, a well groomed look is really important:

“…to answer that question, they presented 117 male and female university students with pictures of 76 partners of the opposite sex, varying in different physical features. They had the students rate the attractiveness of the people pictured and also measured their emotional responses. Then, through statistical analysis, the researchers figured out who was attractive – and why.

Their shocking finding was that, by far, the most attractive features fell under the category of “self care”. These features were changeable aspects like good grooming, neat hair, nice fitting and quality clothing, good posture, and healthy weight.

Essentially, the most attractive features about a person (male or female) is that they put forth some effort to shower, groom, select some nice cloths, stand up straight, and manage their diet a bit. No plastic surgery, major gym time, or extensive overhauling required.”

Keep in mind: Moderation is essential in this regard, and you should not overdo it!

Tip #6 – Be a Gentleman

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Show her that chivalry is not dead with these simple techniques:

  • Open doors for her even though it may require you to let go of your comfort zone.
  • Pull out chairs for her whenever the opportunity presents itself.
  • Offer her your coat or jacket when you know that is cold outside.
  • Master the art of a proper handshake
  • Maintain a classy style with a proper suit, watch & accessory
  • Speak intelligently & avoid swearing
  • Learn how to cook few great meals
  • Always maintain self-control
  • Unleash the power of giving her an unexpected flower

Keep in mind: Just let her know that you are there to cater to her needs and to keep her safe. For more tips on being a gentleman, check out our tips here: Being a Perfect Gentleman: 10 Ways to Revive Chivalry

Tip #5 – Be Social with Her Close Friends

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Her close buddies are very important to her, so make sure that they are important to you as well. Get to know them by starting basic conversations and remembering their names.

This will go a long way because once you get her friends on your side, she will become more committed to you as a result! This is one of those vital tips you can implement today if you want to impress a girl!

Tip #4 – Ask Questions to Know Her Better

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When having a conversation with her, do not get too caught up in talking about yourself! Even if she decides to ask you a question about your life, do not use this as an opportunity to recite the pages from your autobiography.

That is the last thing that you want to do!

Instead, find creative ways to flip the conversation back in her direction – allowing her to talk about herself so that you can get a solid chance to get to know her better.

Here are some helpful questions you could ask her:

  • “What is something you have tried, but will never do again?”
  • “What quirky habit do you have?”
  • “Who is your best friend?”
  • “What is the one thing you did in your past you wish you could undo?”
  • “What is your biggest fear?”
  • “What is the one place in the world you wish you lived in?”
  • “Would you rather be loved or have a lot of money?”
  • “What is the happiest memory from your childhood?”
  • “What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?”
  • “What would your dream date be like?”
  • “What would you change about your personality & look?”

For more ideas on great questions to ask, check out our guide here: 271+ Really Interesting Questions to Ask a Girl You Like

Tip #3 – Compliment Her in Moderation

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You should always compliment her in moderation. Do not just use blanket statements that are not tailored specifically to her. Commenting on her smile, hair, eyes, clothes, and others are only effective if you have taken the time to explore these!

For instance, do not praise her anything without being able to explain why you like it in detail!

Think about how many times she has already heard, “Your dress is so beautiful.” Stand out from all of the others by following yours up with a detailed yet brief explanation about why you think so.

Remember: Always be sure that you can back up your statements with reasoning! You can point out anything from the color, style, texture, designer name, etc.

Tip #2 – Show Her Substance, Not Money!

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The last thing that you want to do is to impress a girl with a bunch of money and materialistic things. Buying her drinks, meals, clothing, jewelry, and other stuff may seem impressive, but that is the right bait for the wrong women!

These are all things that should come in due time after you have been able to sweep her off of her feet and start to build a relationship – not before!

Keep in mind: You can do so much more by showing her that you have substance and are looking for someone else that has it too.

Tip #1 – Show That You Are Confident

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Confidence is the golden ticket that will allow you to get through the double doors of her heart!

Even though you might not have any idea whether or not she will offer you an invitation, you have to be confident in the chance that you just might do that.

Allow your self-confidence to show clearly through the way that you act when you are around her and how boldly you speak to her, following all of the other steps mentioned above.

Confidence is really sexy, according to MeetMindful.com:

“There have been countless studies done on what attracts us to each other, and while we might not always agree on what that is, one thing’s certain: we go where we feel pulled. And people with magnetic energy do the pulling.

We’re not talking about charm here, necessarily. Self-confidence doesn’t need to schmooze or manipulate because it broadcasts a person’s full-on acceptance of who they are without trying. Self-confidence says, “I accept myself on every level” and invites us all to do the same.”

Pay attention: You need to balance on the line between having high self-esteem and being too cocky. Just make sure that you do not cross the thin line that separates confidence from cockiness.

15 More Tips to Impress a Girl

  1. A great guy is the one who is humble, polite, loving ,caring, respectful, considerate and attentive towards his woman’s needs.
  2. He listens to his woman when she has something to say and also at the same time, he conveys what he wants to say, without any hesitation. In other words, he is straightforward and direct.
  3. He has integrity and is ambitious.
  4. He is truthful and is honest.
  5. He is mature enough to deal with situations in a calm and collected manner. He knows how to handle his finances, well. He is independent and takes decisions wisely.
  6. He is confident about himself.
  7. He is selfless and is a giver. He puts the needs of others, before his own.
  8. He is gentle and kind.
  9. He is submissive to authority i.e. he accepts when he is wrong, is attentive and deals with the situation with patience.
  10. A good man is the one who has a positive attitude towards life and the people around him. He is happy with his life and constantly tries to find ways to help others. He is upbeat and looks for good in others. He smiles and laughs often.
  11. He is enthusiastic towards life. He thinks of ways to make things, in day-to-day life, interesting.
  12. He respects health and fitness and tries to stick to the disciplined lifestyle, at all times.
  13. He keeps himself away from any sort of bad habits and addictions.
  14. He is organised in life,and rightly knows, what needs to be done when. He plans ahead of time, to make sure things go accordingly.
  15. He believes in cleanliness and discipline.

Source: Quora

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  • Dave

    These are all fantastic tips, sadly I an a bit on the heavy side, so I fear judgement a lot. I have tried talking to girls and there have been some girls I have had my eye on and was considering talking to, but I just never jumped at the occasion. There’s this girl I really like but I haven’t been able to talk to her. I’ll try some of these techniques though, hopefully it works out.

    • Just let us know how it went out Dave!

    • Josh

      Start shooting hoops. Your physical self has nothing to do with the great odds in our favor if you really comit yourself to meeting and going out with as many girls as you can. I am no stallion and have things about my self thats less then perfect. But there is no lack of relationships through out my life. Just start asking out beautiful woman. At worst you develope skills and drive for what your doing by doing it over and over. At best you get to take a lovely lucky lady out 🙂 what it all comes down to is if you believe eventually you will succed.

  • York

    You just have to be confident with yourself and you should do fine. The same goes for women. As long as you’re confident and try to talk to a woman, she will converse back with you. It’s all about showing your interest in her and you’ll be perfectly fine.

  • Sidney

    Hey boys, just be yourself. I like when a guy shows confidence and doesn’t feel awkward around me, if you feel awkward, you’ll make the woman you’re trying to talk to feel just as awkward. Just be yourself, talk to a girl you like and try to see if she’ll hang out with you. Be friends first and see where it goes from there.

    • Sure, but there is danger of falling into not escaping “friend zone”.

  • Mark

    I’ve used these methods/steps before and they do work. It’s all about being yourself, and just asking questions and just being interested in her. It may be hard to get a woman to notice you, but your best bet is to just go up to her and say “Hi I am…” and then go from there. Just talk about her, say that you think she’s crazy beautiful and that you just wanted to stop by and talk to her. Don’t try to get in bed with her or anything like that, she’ll push you away if you try that.

  • rachelss

    To all the guys out there, please follow this checklist of sorts. It’s not always a guarantee that a girl will be interested in you because of this, but it’ll be a start and you may get a girl this way. I’ve seen many guys I find slightly unattractive get extremely beautiful women, so it can be done, just have some faith and follow the checklist.

  • helen

    this is an excellent checklist. as an addendum to clean yourself up – for god’s sake, this one is a must! you have no idea how many guys i’ve refused just because they weren’t put together and looked like semi-hobos. for christ’s sake, take care of yourselves!

    • Thanks Helen for pointing out the most important stuff.

  • damien

    i learned number 9 the hard way…i always showed off what i had and gave girls expensive gifts, and then wondered why i ended up with good for nothing gold diggers…that was why. i learned from those days, but seriously dudes, keep your money in your pocket and expensive gifts out of the way until you’re a few months in the relationship.

    • Well sometimes you need to learn the stuff by the hard time.

  • mandy

    i think the best way is just to be yourself, that way you attract people you’ll get along with, not with whome fake, poised you will. when the mask fails, you’ll get dumped, so better not put one at all imho

    • I do not agree with you. There are many times when wearing “normal mask” will not spark interest in a girl. However, this article is meant to be applied on creating just first impressions.

  • christina

    Ugh I need to give this list to my brother, because I told him the same things over and over again and he just wont listen because I’m his dumb big sister or something. And he wonders why he can’t get dates. Maybe something written by a dude will get to him, thanks Stallion!

  • duke

    great article, almost a must-do checklist for every guy out there dating if you ask me. women want someone comfortable and valuable…

  • Penelope

    I love a guy that proves to me that chivalry is not dead. Open the door for me and if you see an elder behind me, hold it for them too. Open my car door, pay for dinner, if it gets chilly let me wear your blazer. Don’t act like you just want to get in my panties, work for it lol. I even like it when a guy orders my meal at a restaurant.

  • Yoga Body

    Guys should always maintain a nice hair cut. Think about all the things that girls need to do to look the part, we have to get manicures, pedicures, nice clothes, shoes, hair, make up , jewelry, and a purse! Our list of grooming products is so much more.

  • Cashmere Girl

    Yes to Rule 4!!! Guys please take good care of your body and maintain proper hygiene. Its so nasty when guys look dirty. And another thing, please make sure you wear clean sneakers!! Clean shoes will make an outfit look newer and fresher. Also, if you cannot afford expensive collar shirts, you can always wear nice clean tshirts.

    • This is interesting to know as many dudes wear really dirty shoes and do not pay attention to these.

  • Claudia

    Maintaining eye contact is very important because it makes us gals feel like you really like us. However, I was on a date once with this sweet guy, he had a hard time keeping eye contact. I asked him why he wasn’t looking at me, he replied “ because you are so beautiful” -awwwww. Anyways sometimes guys don’t do it because they can be shy. Or sometimes guys don’t have that much experience around women.

    • Well, I also believe that maintaining eye contact is really important for making best first impression!

  • Nina

    Hey guys pay attention to the first rule! Make sure you aren’t distracted! For example, you don’t need to be on your cellphone when we are on a date and don’t be staring at other girls- thats so rude!

    • See guys? Even girls approve of the tips inside this article so read it very well.