You have wanted to speak to her, but you just cannot seem to find the words. You want to do something, but you have no idea what to do.
It is clear that other people want to get to know her intimately, but you desperately want to be the person that she chooses among all other options. How can you do just that?
Here are ten simple steps that you can follow to achieve this goal much sooner than you might think.
No. 1: Avoid All Other Distractions
One of the best ways that you can impress a girl is to make sure that you provide her with your undivided attention. This might be a little difficult to do at first, especially if you are just meeting her officially for the first time or are in a crowded place.
However, this is one of the best ways for you to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. Do not take any calls, review any text messages or check your emails. Just stay away from all mobile devices while you are talking to her.
You may even be able to earn some points on her scoreboard simply by allowing your mobile device to ring or even turning it off in her presence, letting her know that she is the most important thing to you at that exact moment.
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No. 2: Maintain Direct Eye Contact
Since she is fully aware that she has your undivided attention, the next step is to make sure that she can see that as well. Maintain direct eye contact at all times.
Studies have confirmed over the years that dropping your head (i.e. looking at the ground, etc.) shows a lack of confidence, which is a major turn-off. On the other hand, lifting your head (i.e. looking around and upwards) can reflect a lack of attention or care in what (or who) you should be focusing on at that moment.
No. 3: Do Not Be Afraid of Your Feelings
Throw away the old sayings in your head that you should never be willing to express your feelings. A woman wants to know that you have feelings and that you are not afraid to express them to her.
Just make sure that you do not overdo it, because she does want someone that simply does not have a backbone. Therefore, you want a “leaky faucet” of feelings expressed – not a flooded basement.
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No. 4: Clean Yourself Up
Your dress and grooming will speak volumes to a woman even before you can say a single world. It does not matter what you look like. There are plenty of people that do not naturally look like 10s on the Richter Scale of Hotness.
However, you would be surprised at just how far your dress and grooming will get you in this regard. Stay shaved, dress sharp and smell fresh. Keep in mind that moderation is essential in this regard as well.
No. 5: Be A Gentlemen
Show her that chivalry is not dead. Open doors for her even though it may require you to let go of your comfort zone. Pull out chairs for her whenever the opportunity presents itself. Offer her your coat or jacket when you know that is cold outside.
Just let her know that you are there to cater to her needs and to keep her safe.
No. 6: Be Social With Her Close Friends
Her close friends are very important to her, so make sure that they are important to you as well. Get to know them by simply starting basic conversations with them and remembering their names.
This will go a long way, because once you get the friends on your side, she will become more committed to you as a result.
No. 7: Ask Questions To Know Her Better
When having a conversation with her, make sure that you do not get too caught up in talking about yourself. Even if she decides to ask you a question about your life, do not use this as an opportunity to recite the pages from your autobiography.
That is the last thing that you want to do. Instead, make sure that you find creative ways to flip the conversation back in her direction – allowing her to talk about herself so that you can get a solid chance to get to know her better.
No. 8: Compliment Her In Moderation
Make sure that you compliment her in moderation. Do not just use blanket statements that are not tailored specifically to her. Commenting on her eyes, hair, dress, etc. are only effective if you have actually taken the time to explore her eyes, hair or dress.
Extra Advice: Make sure that you can back up your statements with reasoning!
For instance, do not compliment her about her dress without being able to explain why you like it in detail. Think about how many times she has already heard, “Your dress is so beautiful.” Stand out from all of the other compliments by following yours up with a detailed yet brief explanation about why you think so (i.e. color, style, texture, designer name, etc.).
No. 9: Show Her Substance, Not Money
The last thing that you want to do is impress her with a bunch of money and materialistic things. Buying her drinks, meals, clothing, jewelry, etc. may seem impressive but that is actually the right bait for the wrong women.
These are all things that should come in due time after you have been able to sweep her off of her feet and start to build a relationship – not before. You can do so much more by showing her that you have substance and are looking for someone else that has it too.
No. 10: Be Confident But Not Too Cocky
Confidence is the golden ticket that will allow you to get through the double doors of her heart. Even though you might not have any idea whether or not she will offer you an invitation to her heart, you have to be confident in the chance that you just might do that.
Allow your confidence to show clearly through the way that you act when you are around her and how boldly you speak to her, following all of the other steps mentioned above. Just make sure that you do not cross the thin line that separates confidence from cockiness.