Learn How to Impress a Girl with 10 Simple Tips

Learn How to Impress a Girl with 10 Simple Tips

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Girl You Will Want To ImpressYou have wanted to speak to her, but you just cannot seem to find the words.

You want to do something, but you have no idea what to do.

It is clear that other people want to get to know her intimately, but you desperately want to be the person that she chooses among all other options.

How can you do just that? Here are ten simple steps that you can follow to achieve this goal much sooner than you might think.

1. Avoid All Other Distractions

One of the best ways that you can impress a girl is to make sure that you provide her with your undivided attention. This might be a little difficult to do at the beginning, especially if you are just meeting her officially for the first time or are in a crowded place.

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However, this is one of the great methods for you to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. Do not:

  • Take any calls
  • Review any text messages
  • Check your emails

Word of advice: Just stay away from all mobile devices while you are talking to her. You may even be able to earn some points on her scoreboard simply by allowing your mobile device to ring or even turning it off in her presence, letting her know that she is the most important thing to you at that exact moment!

2. Maintain Direct Eye Contact

Since she is fully aware that she has your undivided attention, the next step is to make sure that she can see that as well. Maintain direct eye contact at all times.

Studies have confirmed over the years that:

  • Dropping your head – Observing the ground shows a lack of confidence, which is a major turn-off.
  • Lifting it – Looking around and upwards can reflect a lack of attention or care in what (or who) you should be focusing on at that moment.

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3. Do Not Be Afraid of Your Feelings

Throw away the old sayings that you should never be willing to express your feelings. A woman wants to know that you have emotions and that you are not afraid to express them to her.

Just be sure you do not overdo it, because she does want someone that simply does not have a backbone. Therefore, you want a “leaky faucet” of feelings expressed – not a flooded basement!

4. Clean Yourself up

Nice Clean & Groomed Guy With A SmileYour dress and grooming will speak volumes to a chick even before you can say a single world. It does not matter what you look like.

There are plenty of people that do not naturally look like 10s on the Richter Scale of Hotness. However, you would be surprised at just how far your clothing and grooming will get you in this regard.

  • Stay shaved
  • Dress sharp
  • Smell fresh

Keep in mind that moderation is essential in this regard as well.

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5. Be a Gentlemen

Show her that chivalry is not dead with these easy techniques:

  • Open doors for her even though it may require you to let go of your comfort zone.
  • Pull out chairs for her whenever the opportunity presents itself.
  • Offer her your coat or jacket when you know that is cold outside.

Just let her know that you are there to cater to her needs and to keep her safe.

6. Be Social with Her Close Friends

Her close buddies are very important to her, so make sure that they are important to you as well. Get to know them by simply starting basic conversations with them and remembering their names.

This will go a long way, because once you get the friends on your side, she will become more committed to you as a result.

7. Ask Questions to Know Her Better

When having a conversation with her, do not get too caught up in talking about yourself.

Even if she decides to ask you a question about your life, do not use this as an opportunity to recite the pages from your autobiography. That is the last thing that you want to do.

Instead, find creative ways to flip the conversation back in her direction – allowing her to talk about herself so that you can get a solid chance to get to know her better.

8. Compliment Her in Moderation

You should always compliment her in moderation. Do not just use blanket statements that are not tailored specifically to her. Commenting on her eyes, hair, clothes, etc. are only effective if you have actually taken the time to explore her eyes, hair or dress.

For instance, do not praise her stuff without being able to explain why you like it in detail. Think about how many times she has already heard, “Your dress is so beautiful”.

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Stand out from all of the others by following yours up with a detailed yet brief explanation about why you think so (it can be color, style, texture, designer name, etc.).

Remember: Always be sure that you can back up your statements with reasoning!

9. Show Her Substance, Not Money

The last thing that you want to do is to try and impress her with a bunch of money and materialistic things.

Buying her drinks, meals, clothing, jewelry, etc. may seem impressive but that is actually the right bait for the wrong women. These are all things that should come in due time after you have been able to sweep her off of her feet and start to build a relationship – not before.

You can do so much more by showing her that you have substance and are looking for someone else that has it too.

10. Be Self-Conscious But Not too Cocky

Confidence is the golden ticket that will allow you to get through the double doors of her heart. Even though you might not have any idea whether or not she will offer you an invitation, you have to be confident in the chance that you just might do that.

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Allow your self-conscious to show clearly through the way that you act when you are around her and how boldly you speak to her, following all of the other steps mentioned above.

Word of advice: Just make sure that you do not cross the thin line that separates confidence from cockiness.

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  • Dave

    These are all fantastic tips, sadly I an a bit on the heavy side, so I fear judgement a lot. I have tried talking to girls and there have been some girls I have had my eye on and was considering talking to, but I just never jumped at the occasion. There’s this girl I really like but I haven’t been able to talk to her. I’ll try some of these techniques though, hopefully it works out.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Just let us know how it went out Dave!

  • York

    You just have to be confident with yourself and you should do fine. The same goes for women. As long as you’re confident and try to talk to a woman, she will converse back with you. It’s all about showing your interest in her and you’ll be perfectly fine.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I can only agree with you on this point!

  • Sidney

    Hey boys, just be yourself. I like when a guy shows confidence and doesn’t feel awkward around me, if you feel awkward, you’ll make the woman you’re trying to talk to feel just as awkward. Just be yourself, talk to a girl you like and try to see if she’ll hang out with you. Be friends first and see where it goes from there.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, but there is danger of falling into not escaping “friend zone”.

  • Mark

    I’ve used these methods/steps before and they do work. It’s all about being yourself, and just asking questions and just being interested in her. It may be hard to get a woman to notice you, but your best bet is to just go up to her and say “Hi I am…” and then go from there. Just talk about her, say that you think she’s crazy beautiful and that you just wanted to stop by and talk to her. Don’t try to get in bed with her or anything like that, she’ll push you away if you try that.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thank you Mark for great words!

  • rachelss

    To all the guys out there, please follow this checklist of sorts. It’s not always a guarantee that a girl will be interested in you because of this, but it’ll be a start and you may get a girl this way. I’ve seen many guys I find slightly unattractive get extremely beautiful women, so it can be done, just have some faith and follow the checklist.

  • helen

    this is an excellent checklist. as an addendum to clean yourself up – for god’s sake, this one is a must! you have no idea how many guys i’ve refused just because they weren’t put together and looked like semi-hobos. for christ’s sake, take care of yourselves!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thanks Helen for pointing out the most important stuff.

  • damien

    i learned number 9 the hard way…i always showed off what i had and gave girls expensive gifts, and then wondered why i ended up with good for nothing gold diggers…that was why. i learned from those days, but seriously dudes, keep your money in your pocket and expensive gifts out of the way until you’re a few months in the relationship.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well sometimes you need to learn the stuff by the hard time.

  • mandy

    i think the best way is just to be yourself, that way you attract people you’ll get along with, not with whome fake, poised you will. when the mask fails, you’ll get dumped, so better not put one at all imho

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I do not agree with you. There are many times when wearing “normal mask” will not spark interest in a girl. However, this article is meant to be applied on creating just first impressions.

  • christina

    Ugh I need to give this list to my brother, because I told him the same things over and over again and he just wont listen because I’m his dumb big sister or something. And he wonders why he can’t get dates. Maybe something written by a dude will get to him, thanks Stallion!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      You are welcome Christina.

  • duke

    great article, almost a must-do checklist for every guy out there dating if you ask me. women want someone comfortable and valuable…

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thanks for your kind words duke.

  • Penelope

    I love a guy that proves to me that chivalry is not dead. Open the door for me and if you see an elder behind me, hold it for them too. Open my car door, pay for dinner, if it gets chilly let me wear your blazer. Don’t act like you just want to get in my panties, work for it lol. I even like it when a guy orders my meal at a restaurant.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      These are great tips as well Penelope! Thanks!

  • Yoga Body

    Guys should always maintain a nice hair cut. Think about all the things that girls need to do to look the part, we have to get manicures, pedicures, nice clothes, shoes, hair, make up , jewelry, and a purse! Our list of grooming products is so much more.

  • Cashmere Girl

    Yes to Rule 4!!! Guys please take good care of your body and maintain proper hygiene. Its so nasty when guys look dirty. And another thing, please make sure you wear clean sneakers!! Clean shoes will make an outfit look newer and fresher. Also, if you cannot afford expensive collar shirts, you can always wear nice clean tshirts.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is interesting to know as many dudes wear really dirty shoes and do not pay attention to these.

  • Claudia

    Maintaining eye contact is very important because it makes us gals feel like you really like us. However, I was on a date once with this sweet guy, he had a hard time keeping eye contact. I asked him why he wasn’t looking at me, he replied “ because you are so beautiful” -awwwww. Anyways sometimes guys don’t do it because they can be shy. Or sometimes guys don’t have that much experience around women.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, I also believe that maintaining eye contact is really important for making best first impression!

  • Nina

    Hey guys pay attention to the first rule! Make sure you aren’t distracted! For example, you don’t need to be on your cellphone when we are on a date and don’t be staring at other girls- thats so rude!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      See guys? Even girls approve of the tips inside this article so read it very well.