170+ Dirty & Sexual Questions to Ask a Girl


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So you have met a girl you really like and want to have an intimate conversation with her? Then try to ask her some of these dirty questions. I bet answering these will create a sexual tension between you two.

When choosing which questions to ask her, keep in mind these points:

  • Choose the good timing to ask these questions (try teasing her for some time first)
  • Start with softer questions to tease her mind first
  • Step up the dirtiness gradually
  • Never try to force these into your conversations

Just select questions you like the most in advance as you will have to work these into your normal discussion. If you start asking these unnaturally (one by another) you may ruin the kinky spark you aim to create.

Please, let us know which one works for you the most (or which one you like the most) in the comments section below this article.


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1. “Do you like taking naked photos of yourself?”

2. “Classy lingerie or fuzzy, pink handcuffs and blindfold?”

3. “What’s the dirtiest thing you’ve ever sexted someone?”

4. “Do you like to mess around with extreme temperatures in bed, like ice or wax?”

5. “What’s the nastiest thing you’ve ever said to get someone off?”

6. “Would you ever use bondage?”

7. “What’s the sexiest compliment you’ve ever given?”

8. “Where do you like to be touched?”

9. “What’s your secret move to turn a guy on?”

10. “What’s the sexiest compliment you’ve ever gotten?”

11. “Have you ever made out with a guy just because you were horny at that time?”

12. “What is the craziest porn that you have ever seen?”

13. “Ever wake up in the morning next to someone you instantly regretted sleeping with?”

14. “What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had?”

15. “Do you like being teased?”

16. “Who’s the one person in this world you wish you could fuck?”

17. “Have you ever had sex with someone that you weren’t really attracted to?”

18. “Ribbed or studded?”

19. “What would you do if you have a sexy guy next to your bed?”

20. “How good are you at faking an orgasm? Show me…”

21. “Do you like scratching?”

22. “What’s your favorite kind of foreplay?”

23. “Would it drive you wild if I whispered naughty things in your ear?”

24. “Have you ever gotten nude photos from someone?”

25. “What, if anything, makes you feel vulnerable when you’re naked with someone?”

26. “Do you prefer if I shave, trim, or let it grow down there?”

27. “What’s the dirtiest dream you’ve ever had?”

28. “Do you like your hair pulled?”

29. “Spit or swallow?”

30. “How many different people have you had great sex with?”

31. “If I bought you lingerie, would you model it for me?”

32. “What does it feel like when you orgasm?”

33. “Have you ever fantasized about having a threesome?”

34. “If you came home to find me, waiting for you naked, what would you say?”

35. “Do you like it rough or gentle?”

36. “What is your favorite position when you are on top?”

37. “If I asked you to make a bedroom bucket list for me to fulfill, would you?”

38. “Have you ever made an erotic fantasy come true?”

39. “Doggy style or cowgirl?”

40. “Have you ever done it in the water?”

41. “Does a massage from a sexy guy makes you horny?”

42. “Have you ever had an accident with a condom bursting? What was the outcome?”

43. “What’s the one sex act you want to try before you die?”

44. “Do you like BDSM?”

45. “Where is the most adventurous place you have done it?”

46. “What types of props have you used during sex?”

47. “How was your first sexual experience?”

48. “Did you had sex on your first date?”

49. “Have you ever masturbated in a public bathroom?”

50. “What makes you feel comfortable when you’re naked with someone?”

51. “Do you like biting?”

52. “What do you need to happen for your orgasm to be absolutely mind-blowing?”

53. “On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the highest, what number would you rate your blowjob skill?”

54. “If we’re out shopping for clothes, would you sneak into a fitting room with me?”

55. “What’s the most sexually daring thing you’ve ever done?”

56. “Do you like sex in shower?”

57. “Do you think we’d do something funny if we get drunk together?”

58. “Are you a part of the mile high club?”

59. “G-strings, thongs, granny panties or commando?”

60. “What’s one thing that’s made you feel unexpectedly good in bed?”

61. “Have you ever had sex in front of a mirror?”

62. “What is your favorite position when you are on the bottom?”

63. “How many different positions do you think you have tried so far?”

64. “How many people have you slept with?”

65. “What do my lips taste like?”

66. “If you had one day left to live, how would you want it?”

67. “Do you like touching yourself in front of the people you sleep with?”

68. “Do you enjoy making out while drunk?”

69. “Is there a steamy scene from a movie that you would like to recreate?”

70. “Are you a screamer? A moaner?”

71. “How do you like your breasts to be handled? Rough or gentle?”

72. “Do you enjoy rough sex?”

73. “Who is your favorite porn star?”

74. “Have you ever thought of me ripping your clothes?”

75. “Would you flash me?”

76. “Tell five things that make having sex and making love different for you.”

77. “Do you like to be punished while making love?”

78. “What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve ever asked someone to do to you?”

79. “Where’s your favorite place to be kissed?”

80. “What kind of sounds do you make during sex?”

81. “Do you enjoy phone sex?”

82. “Have you ever repurposed a regular household item as a sex toy? If so, which one(s)?”

83. “I’m in the shower, do you join in or get me when I get out?”

84. “What are you willing to do when you are horny?”

85. “How would you describe the taste of your own vagina?”

86. “Do you feel horny when a guy kisses you on neck?”

87. “You feel my hand going down your back, how do you react?”

88. “What’s one thing that you hesitated to try during sex but ended up loving?”

89. “What age did you lose your virginity?”

90. “How seriously do you take your sex life?”

91. “Do you prefer professional or amateur porn?”

92. “Have you ever had a friend with benefits?”

93. “What’s your favorite method for getting yourself off?”

94. “Do you enjoy being fucked from behind?”

95. “Have you ever gone wild with a girl?”

96. “What is your hottest sexual memory?”

97. “What are some dreams you’ve had about me?”

98. “How did you learn to masturbate, and how old were you when you first succeeded?”

99. “What would you want to do if I was at your house right now?”

100. “What’s your biggest sexual fear?”

101. “What are you wearing right now?”

102. “If you had to choose, would you be a dominatrix or a submissive?”

103. “What size of d**k would you prefer and enjoy?”

104. “Have you ever hooked up with a coworker?”

105. “Have you ever thought watching a porn movie with me or capturing a clip with me while we are in bed?”

106. “What does your ideal penis look like?”

107. “What’s the weirdest thing you’ve thought about while touching yourself?”

108. “How many different ways have you orgasmed?”

109. “Have you ever hooked up with a friend?”

110. “How would you respond if a couple approached you to be their “third”?”

111. “What turns you on the most about the opposite sex?”

112. “Have you ever used food during foreplay?”

113. “Would you like me to suck and caress your nipple?”

114. “Have you ever blindfolded or handcuffed your partner?”

115. “What’s your favorite strategy for getting him to cum asap?”

116. “Do you like your nipples sucked?”

117. “After sex are you a sleeper or one who is ready for more?”

118. “What do you think you look sexiest in?”

119. “If you could take on any fictional character’s personality in bed, who would you be?”

120. “Have you ever watched another couple get it on without them knowing?”

121. “What makes you wet without fail?”

122. “Would you ever send me a naughty picture?”

123. “What’s your favorite sex toy to play with?”

124. “What’s the most flattering thing someone’s said about your naked body?”

125. “What’s your favorite blowjob technique?”

126. “What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to you while hooking up?”

127. “Would you rather be with a guy who loves you but has a small penis or be the sidechick of a guy who has a big penis?”

128. “Have you ever had sex with two different people in one night?”

129. “What is the naughtiest moment in your school days that you can remember?”

130. “What’s your favorite way to get a man off?”

131. “What do you think an orgy would be like?”

132. “Have you ever wanted to role play?”

133. “Do you like giving an oral or getting one?”

134. “When’s the last time you orgasmed in your sleep?”

135. “In what position do you orgasm most reliably?”

136. “Do you get aroused from receiving a massage?”

137. “Do you prefer being in control, or being controlled?”

138. “What is the most daring thing you had done when no one was looking?”

139. “Does naughty talk get you aroused?”

140. “What sexual position makes you feel most like yourself?”

141. “Does size matter to you?”

142. “If I am masturbating and you catch me red-handed, then would you help me out, get just furious with me or just turn your back to me?”

143. “Have you ever had sex with someone whose name you never knew?”

144. “Sex for breakfast or sex for dinner?”

145. “Do you like to be tied to the bed so I can go wild on you?”

146. “Do you like anal sex?”

147. “What’s the most daring place you’ve done it in public?”

148. “What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about a total stranger?”

149. “If you didn’t have a boyfriend, do you think we would have made out with each other? / If I were with you right now, do you think we would have kissed each other?”

150. “What’s the dirtiest fantasy you’ve had at work?”

151. “Have you ever had an orgasm during sex before?”

152. “What part of your body is the most sensitive – and how do you want me to touch it?”

153. “What’s your personal record for the number of times you’ve had sex in one night?”

154. “Can you show me an example of what being dirty is?”

155. “Do you prefer sex at night, in the morning, mid-afternoon, or NOW?”

156. “What’s your favorite thing about a quickie?”

157. “While you are kissing what types of other things to be done simultaneously would you prefer?”

158. “How do you like your pussy to be licked?”

159. “OK – so you can only have one type of sex for the rest of your life – oral, anal, or regular. Which one do you pick?”

160. “Do you remember what that first orgasm felt like?”

161. “If you had to pick, would you be a dominatrix or a submissive?”

162. “What are your biggest turn offs?”

163. “Have you ever fantasized about fucking one of your teachers?”

164. “Out of everything you’ve ever done during sex, what was your favorite?”

165. “Be honest – when’s the last time you masturbated?”

166. “What do you wear when you go to bed?”

167. “What’s your favorite way to be seduced?”

168. “Ever get your neighbors angry because of how loud you were in the bedroom?”

169. “Do you enjoy sex with music?”

170. “Have you ever had a wet dream?”

171. “Would you like me to kiss your thighs?”

172. “What do you prefer- thongs or hipsters?”

173. “Do you like to use your tongue when you make out with someone?”

174. “How far can you go on a third date?”

175. “Do you like being fingered?”

176. “Have you ever had an unexpected orgasm?”

177. “What is the most number of orgasms you have had in one sex experience?”

178. “How can you describe your love-making?”

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