8 Secrets to Get Out of Friend Zone


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Each and every man in his life experienced the one-sided relationship where he was labeled by the girl of his dreams as “just a friend.

This is the dreaded friend zone that every one of us wants to avoid! If a girl you like or even love views you just like her friend, or even worse, a brother, then you know you have a big problem.

Luckily, there is a safe way you can use to change your label of “brother” to a “passionate lover“! Just follow this simple 7-step guide to getting out of a friend zone.

Step #8 – Be Honest & Realize You Have Been Friendzoned

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The first step of this short guide to getting out of the nasty friend zone is to be honest with yourself!

If you have tried to be intimate with her to no avail, you need to face the facts that you are viewed as just a friend right now.

Pay attention: With this in mind, you can now take immediate action to get finally out of the routine of being her buddy and hopefully turn your relationship into a love interest!

Step #7 – Build Your Confidence & Act Like a Man

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Confidence and ability to lead is something that every male on the planet has within them. With high self-esteem, you learn how to act like a man and can finally break free of this dreaded zone!

Instead of merely sitting back, act with self-assurance.

Ask her to go out on a date, call her, and never let your feelings alter your character. Your confidence is an incredible turn on for every woman.

Keep in mind: If you get emotional because she is busy or simply can’t go on a date tonight, you will ruin your chances forever!

Step #6 – Give Her “Gift of Missing You”

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Many people get stuck in the mentality that the other person is only a friend, but they never actually try to get out of it. I bet you are trying to be always here for her to help and listen to her.

Instead, do the exact opposite!

If she calls you as usual, just say to her politely in the middle of a conversation that you do not have time right now and that you need to do something else. This tiny gesture will keep her thinking about you and why are you not here for her as you always were!

She may even become afraid that she may be losing you.

Remember, it is not always the best to be there for her every time if you want to create a certain level of attraction, especially if you have been stuck in the nasty friend zone.

Keep in mind: Giving her the gift of “missing you” is the perfect way to do this!

Step #5 – Improve Yourself & Work on Your Appearance

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You need to make yourself desirable! There are many ways to do this, but you need to start immediately, and the perfect place to begin is with your wardrobe.

The woman of your dreams wants you to look dapper and respectable!

Now, everyone has their style, and you know what group you fit the best. Nice shoes, shirts and pants along with a nice new haircut will do the trick.

The other area that every man can work on is his body. If you need to lose weight or simply want to bulk up, a 5-day routine will suffice from the beginning!

Keep in mind: One pound of fat is equal to 3,500 calories, so aim to burn 700 calories while at the gym within one hour. It is not about how long you stay at the gym, but the intensity of the workouts that will lead to significant results!

Step #4 – Gradually Begin to Touch Her

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Touching her in a playful way is an excellent idea and will let her know you are interested. Do not grope or grab her.

Instead, you should do the following:

  • Touch her hair
  • Hug her
  • Put your arm around her
  • Cuddle

You want to touch her in a way that is cute, creates attraction, but is not intrusive. The goal is to make her feel comfortable with you and enjoy your time spent together.

Keep in mind: Tickling is also an excellent way to break the ice!

Step #3 – Balance Between Being Nice Guy & Bad Boy

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Unfortunately, you can’t always be nice when it comes to being friend-zoned. Often, a guy will become the friend that takes all of the abuse and wrong attitude in the process!

Be nice, bring her out for drinks or to a movie, but never let her walk all over you.

The bad boy inside of you must come out at some point. Every woman loves a bad boy, so be protective, outgoing and do not let anyone disrespect her.

Extra advice: Be cocky and funny from time to time. Chicks love that!

Step #2 – Start Flirting with Her to Create Sexual Tension

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Do you flirt with her or do you only listen to her problems over the phone? You have to let her know that there is some interest on your part.

This is done by flirting and creating sexual tension in the process! Remember, everyone likes a challenge and a little hot talk can lead her right into your arms.

When flirting, you want her to feel:

  • Special
  • Happy
  • Like the only women in the room

Joke, laugh, cuddle, hug, touch her playfully and let her know that there is a flame that needs to be sparked. You also want to be original. Cheesy pickup lines may work 1 in 1000 times, but being unique and standing out works almost 100% of the time.

Please note: Comment on her new haircut or shoes, and pay attention to her. When she makes a small change in her appearance, and you notice, this is the ultimate compliment!

Step #1 – Make Your Move & Do Not Wait for Too Long

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If you allow yourself to stay just a friend, your opportunity will come and go. There will be other men trying to sweep her off of her feet, and waiting may just ruin your chances altogether!

Today, make it a point to give her a call and make your move. No one knows what tomorrow holds.

Make your move today while you still can!

Hey folks! My pen name is James Buzinko (a.k.a. Stallion) and I want to make this THE GREATEST place for every guy to master the arts of love, dating and attraction! I am young, free and my motto is "Carpe Diem".
  • Jack

    I was once in the friend zone and the bad thing was that it took me a while to realize it. I was crazy in love with this girl who wasn’t even interested in me as a lover. She saw me as one of her best friends and that was it. It took me 6-7 painful months to actually realize I was in the friend zone.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is the first (and sadly the hardest) step you need to do in order to get away from that nasty and painful zone. You need to firstly realize that you are there and many guys are hesitant to do that.

  • Dan

    Improving the exterior look can go a long way because when you are in the friend zone she doesn’t really see you as a man, just as a friend. When you bulk up a bit, start showing some muscle and dress sharp, chances are she will start feeling more attracted to you. I tried this and it worked. I was a skinny boy 2 years ago and now I look pretty good ;)!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thanks Dan. That is some stuff that may really make a difference. Just work on your look dudes and believe me that everybody will start to notice your effort.

  • Mad robot

    Just make your move and tell her what you feel! Don’t do it over the phone! Just ask her to meet you somewhere and open up so she knows how you feel. If she doesn’t feel the same you can remain friends or not, but you can’t live without knowing “what if she likes you?”. Just do it!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is my point I was trying to tell you guys. It is better to know the answer and truth (even if she does not likes you) that to live in a fantasy that you will someday end up together…

  • Daniel

    If you know when to show the bad boy inside of you she will really dig it! I tried this with a couple of chicks and most like it very much. It’s just something in us that wants to live dangerously and love bad boys/girls. Make sure you don’t overdo it because it will get tiresome.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is great advice Daniel. Bad boy technique is great and works in most instances.

  • Mickey

    The 3-rd tip is actually very interesting! As long as you are there for her every time, she will just get used to doing this and not see you as more than a friend. Once you just tell her you have other things to do, she will start wondering why you are changing your ways and maybe even realize that you want to be more than a friend.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is it! Just do not be there for her at all times. You will see how she will change her attitude towards you.

  • James

    I tried being straightforward with a girl ever again! I tried following the 2-nd advice and it backfired on me. I have this friend that I am attracted to and I just told her what I felt and she was all red and couldn’t speak. She doesn’t want to speak to me. I tried to call her but she doesn’t respond. I don’t really know what to do. Should I apologize for feeling this way? I don’t want to lose her as a friend.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Dude I am sorry for the scenario that just happened to you. Well, this is hard but it happens plenty of times. Just give her time and never apologize for your feelings. Although you may lose her as a friend you will not live against your feelings anymore.

  • justaguy

    Tip 5 is not that good in my opinion. If you don’t actually tell her how you feel, she will just not get it. Lots of great friends hug each other or tickle one another without them being attracted to the other. If you really want her to know how you feel just do yourself a favor and talk
    to her.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, you need to make a hug and touch rich on sexual signals. But yes, talk is always more effective.

  • Suzanna

    I had this friend that was not seeing me as girlfriend material but only as “great friend”
    material! I wanted this to change. I remember I was dressing up like a guy which was unappealing but easier for me. Then I talked to my mom and she suggested a couple of tweaks and in no time I was looking really hot if I say so myself! Long story short, he asked me on a date and we hit were together for a while.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is amazing Suzanna. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.

  • Annabelle

    I have this great boy friend and he seems to not get it that I actually like him and would love for us to be a couple. I will try to use what you said about the gift of “missing you” and see how it goes. If he starts asking for my help I will let him down easily and maybe he will ask me what is going on. Should I then just tell him how I feel?

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, if you are trying the “give him gift of missing you” technique, then I would just stick to it for a while before I would confess my feelings.

  • Samuel J.

    Sometimes, acting with self-assurance can be a great thing that will lead to her/him realizing you are more than a friend. Doing this helped find the love of my life which was a great friend of mine up until the point I admitted I had feelings for her. If I wouldn’t have done this in time, all the tension between us would have drove up apart.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      See guys? In many cases this works really well! Open communication has amazing power!

  • Aaron

    So I have been seeing this girl for 2 weeks now and we have met up 2 times 1 time for dinner and 1 time at her house now I’m not really getting any strong signals from her on if she likes me more then a friend and I don’t wana come off as creepy and blow it with her so wat should I do how long should I wait befor making a move and letting her know how I feel?

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Hey Aaron. this is really a tricky question. It highly depends on the individual situation and girl you are seeing. However, if I was attracted to a girl, I would begin to give her some signals that she is attractive and I want something more from the beginning and since the initial date.