8 Qualities of an Attractive Alpha Male That Will Get Her


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Being an alpha male can provide you with many benefits in both your work and personal life. If you have always been a beta, perhaps you should consider taking the appropriate steps to become dominant.

With the ability to be an assertive and attractive man, you will have the opportunity to find the woman of your dreams and provide her with everything that she could want in a man.

Below are 8 qualities of an alpha male that will get any girl you choose!

Quality #1 – He Has His Own Style & Always Dresses The Best

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The first key point to consider when you begin this kind of personal transformation is the way that you dress. You will want to provide a stylish appeal without showing that you are too interested in fashion.

Another advantage of dressing for success is that you will experience benefits in the workplace as well!

Every alpha male has style and always have his best clothes, which includes patterned shirts, collared shirts, nice pants, and a tie. Another important factor to take into consideration when you begin to dress for success is that every article of your clothing should fit you well!

Keep in mind: You won’t want to wear clothing that expresses your individual personality too much, such as a band t-shirt.

Quality #2 – Emanates High Self Confidence

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As with any individual, self-confidence is key. What is more, it is imperative that you think highly of yourself and are aware of your capabilities.

If you can do this, both men and women will respond differently to you, in a more positive way!

One of the most important components to consider when you are developing your self-esteem is to ensure that your self-assurance does not change into arrogance.

Pay attention: Perception is everything, and if people see your courage as arrogance, they will act negatively towards you. Quality #3 – He Is Natural Leader

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Alpha males have historically been known as natural leaders, and you will want to be able to lead your pack. Taking charge of a situation is simple, but you will want to make sure that you do so well!

Pay attention: The best way to establish yourself as a leading guy is to do so in the workplace. Once you can lead your team of employees, you will be able to assert yourself personally.

Quality #4 – Shows Passion

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Having passion is a beneficial thing in every aspect of your life. When you are trying to win the woman of your dreams, she will want to see that you are passionate about something, whether it be her or a separate hobby that you enjoy!

Pay attention: Passion also provides you with an outlet for your creativity and excess emotions so that you can become the active alpha male that you have always wanted to be.

Quality #5 – He Is Witty

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Wit is a trait that many men wish that they could harness. With this ability, you will also be more entertaining and be 2 steps ahead of everyone else in the room.

This can be quite beneficial in the workplace, but it will also provide you with the opportunity to charm your way through your personal relationships. Being witty also allows the entire room to know that you are there, and people are naturally drawn to an individual who has wit.

Pay attention: If you want to become the person that everyone wants to be around, consider brushing up on your witty remarks.

Quality #6 – Masters Verbal & Non-Verbal Communication

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Verbal skill is necessary if you are looking to succeed in all of your endeavors. Charm, wit, and being able to stand your ground while you are speaking will help you to command the attention of others.

Whether it be in a business meeting or if you are on a date with a prospective girlfriend, consider using your verbal communication skills to better yourself.

Body language is equally important, as you will want to let your body do the talking when you don’t want to. Leaders have been known to use specific cues that others respond to.

Keep in mind: Some methods include: Keeping your hands behind your back, looking at the person you’re talking to, keeping your thumbs out when your palms are in your pocket. You can also make a steeple with your hands (also known as “Steepling”). All of these methods of non-verbal communication display confidence and allure!

Quality #7 – Shows He Is Humble & Tolerant

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Although being a dominant man means that you will be a leader, you must also practice tolerance and learn how to be humble. Confidence and power are two key components, but you will also want to make sure that you do not present yourself as too overpowering.

Being humble will not only help you to stay true to yourself, but it will show others that you understand that you’re not perfect.

Keep in mind: This is also important as it will prevent individuals from being afraid of the amount of power that you have.

Quality #8 – Dedication Is in His Nature


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Commitment is essential, especially if you are working diligently to become an alpha male. Devotion to your personal life, the closest people around you, or projects at the office will all impact your appeal as a dominant man!

Keep in mind: There are many different things that you can show dedication to, and it will help you to remain busy!

Being an alpha guy is simple with the use of the above steps. Rather than having to be a follower, permit yourself to be a leader and showcase your ability to be a dominant male.

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  • Olivia

    It seems to me that alpha males get more chicks because chicks dig confidence. To me the best alpha males on television were Tony Soprano and Hank Schrader from Breaking bad. Although one can argue that some alpha males lack a certain amount of emotional connection.

    • Jody

      I agree that women dig the confidence alpha males give off. Tony Soprano was the ultimate alpha male to me, in a dangerous, ‘live on the edge’ kind of way.

      My ex was an alpha male to the hilt. Even though he was very confident and had strong body language, he was still very tender when he needed to be. So I guess being an alpha male is more about knowing yourself than it is about using your strengths to your advantage.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        You have nailed it Jody! This is the simple truth behind being an successful alpha male.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      They may do lack it but they emanate such a charisma and confidence that chicks are closing eyes on their lack of emotionality…

  • Grace

    I find that many alpha males don’t like to date strong females, they tend to date/marry women that are more easy going and easier to control. I am very strong opinionated and have alpha qualities but my husband is the complete opposite.He is very easy going and although he owns his own business he isn’t cocky and he doesn’t like giving orders- I am usually the one that does the firing and hiring. But theres nothing wrong with not being an alpha male. My brother on the other hand is an alpha male and all his girlfriends have told me that his very bossy and that the relationship centers around his feelings/ideas/values. I could never date a guy like that.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, it often comes hand in hand (emanating dominance and alpha signals with being bossy). Guys should always control this behavior before it goes completely out of their hands.

  • Rosalina

    I have had around 5 or 6 “long-term” relationships with Alpha males. While I am obviously attracted to that type of man. I am trying to get out of that way of thinking and I want to date guys that will put me first. The problem is that when you are dating an alpha male, most of the relationship is about them. They can be very controlling, even if they don’t want to be. Its in their nature,they can be very narcissistic.

    • Heather

      I used to have the same issue where I only dated alpha males. They are more sure of themselves and they know what they want. I think that you just haven’t met the right one yet. Sometimes women get alpha males confused with bad boys. There is a big difference. An alpha male is someone poses the things in this list but bad boys have control issues. I like a man that takes control but is not controlling.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        You have characterized the crucial difference really well Heather…

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure they can. But some girls are just looking and are naturally attracted to this type of a guys… And deep down inside although they are being dominated they like it.

  • Erik

    Nice list! I am working on my confidence and I think that the things on this list will help me. I am a pretty shy guy so it becomes hard for me to be an alpha male, but at the same time once I feel comfortable in a situation I totally dominate it. I guess dressing the part might help. Can you suggest some stores to shop at that carry nice men’s clothes?

    • Paula

      Hi Erik, a good place to get cheap suits that are pretty good quality is K&G. My fiancé shops there for suits, they carry Calvin Klein and Boss. I know they carry other labels but those 2 labels make pretty good quality suits. Another place is Express, I don’t think they carry suits but they do have jeans and nice sweaters. One look that I love on a man is fitted jeans, a collar shirt, tie and nice sweater. You can dress this look up with dress shoes or dress it down with sneakers. Good Luck!

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        Thanks Paula for the other tips you have provided to all of us.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      It highly depends on the location where you live in so it is really problematic for me to give you any specific advice.

  • Lily

    A confident alpha male is so hot! I love when a man is confident and knows how to be a boss. I was dating this guy that owned his own custom kitchen company. I loved how confident he was and how he handled his business. He wasn’t cocky or had an arrogant attitude but he was assertive and super sexy lol

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      He seems like a real catch of a year! Why are you not together anymore?

  • Amber

    My favorite thing on this list is No. 7: Humble & Tolerant. You don’t need to be arrogant and over the top to show that you are an alpha male. I love a man that is humble and tolerant. Being humble is quality that looks good on both sexes. Another important thing is tolerance, in a world where theres so much going on, its very important to be tolerant of other peoples social economic situation, race, gender, etc..

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      These words seems like they are coming from my mind. I completely agree with what you have just said.

  • Julie

    I think that these tips are very helpful but I think that an alpha male are just naturally that way. I think that these are qualities that someone has in their personality. For example my oldest son is naturally witty and funny, his very intelligent but can make his class laugh- including the teacher. While my younger son is extremely shy and smart but he doesn’t like attention and is very humble. My oldest son loves attention and isn’t shy, which helps when he has to do presentations.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well sure, some of this stuff needs to be naturally inside your personality while other can be “learned” and consciously obtained.

  • Jon Blaze

    Ok I don’t usually like to comment on blogs,but this is a great list. Easy to understand and right to the point. I am trying to recreate myself for college. All through high school I was the nerd. Girls would talk to me for answers or to help with their homework. I was the nice guy. But this summer I want to give myself an inner and outer makeover. thanks for the tips

    • Stephanie

      Good luck! College is a great time to renovate your personality. You can be anyone you want to now!

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        That is true.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thank you Jon. This is great opportunity for you to be anyone! Your high school social history will usually not follow you.

  • MichaelJones

    I didn’t realize how important #4 was until just recently. Prior to getting my dream job two months ago, I worked in an office that delivered more stress than a little bit. As a result, my dating life suffered. My last ex told me that I complained about my work way too much. I thought she was being over the top, but now I’m realizing that she was right.

    Since I started this job, I’ve been happier than I’ve ever been about my work. I am passionate and that excitement shows in my dating life. They say, “Do what you love and the money will follow,” but I think it’s, “Do what you love and the women will follow.”

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I think both will follow 😀

  • Drew

    I’m a firm believer that it’s not the clothes that make the
    man. It’s the man who makes the clothes. I work in a huge law firm, where ties
    are supposedly mandatory attire. I never wear a tie, but that’s because I have
    my own style that I’ve been sporting since Day 1. I don’t look like a bum. I’m
    still well dressed, just without a tie. I guess that’s another sign of alpha
    male – we stand our ground even when we’re in front of a company of alpha

    • Mark

      It’s not the clothes that make the man, but it’s the fact that a man puts the necessary thought into his appearance that makes the difference. It makes the people around you feel better, like you want to make sure that your presentable around them. it shows you care.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        I can only agree with you on this one Mark. Good point!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, having strong stance it kind of an alpha behavior.

  • Dominic

    Good tips here! I have a female friend who used to work for the CIA. She could read non verbal cues like nothing I’ve seen before. It all comes down to how you maintain your posture, how you hold your head, what you do with your hands, the stance of your feet, etc. Most women don’t notice these things consciously. But they can tell when something is or isn’t quite right.

    You don’t have to present yourself like you’re some kind of don, but you should be aware that the things you don’t say can tell just as much of a story as the things you do say.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true. Every dude should keep in mind that they need to control their body.

  • NicholasPIII

    I find that alpha men pay attention to those around them. He’s not the guy who’s completely wrapped up in his own life. He looks you in the eye when he’s talking to you. He’s listening with his body focused towards you. He remembers your name and even your dogs name, lol. Beta men are the one’s who only talk about themselves and then wonder why women could care less about going out with them.

    • Sioux

      I so agree with you! Once you’re comfortable with yourself, you realize that you don’t have to be constantly wrapped up in yourself, and you can enjoy the world around you. It’s insecure men who can’t get overt hemselves.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        You just nailed it really well. Insecurity of men makes their ego very strong.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is very true!

  • no red pill kthx

    i don’t think these are alpha qualities, these are just the qualities of a good person, which is sure to attract women. this whole alpha/beta spiel is PUA bullcrap that all women ate.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well to be honest you can have this look on being alpha equals being good person.

  • jill

    #1 is very important, because you talk about yourself with your clothes, like it or not. they don’t have to be expensive or elegant, but they should fit well, be clean and in good shape to wear, and match. you don’t have to look like a lawyer on casual friday, but don’t let yourself look like a hobo ffs.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thank you Jill for confirming these.

  • nick

    It’s easy to master verbal and non verbal communication even if you’re awkward – go read some goddamn books about it. This is what i did and my success with women improved immensely because i wasn’t being so awkward all the time.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thanks for additional tip Nick.

  • Mia

    What, are we pack animals now, categorizing ourselves into alpha/beta/omega/other greek letters? These are qualities everyone should have, man or woman.

    “You won’t want to wear clothing that expresses your individual personal too much, such as a band t-shirt.” are you fucking serious? are you practically telling men to not wear what they want to attract chicks?

    sorry guys, but if you put on a fake person of alpha male, chicks will smell it off you and we will run away. better be non-assertive and genuine than fake and “älpha” if you want to attract the right kind of woman

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I have created this article with efforts to make proper first impression of alpha male when meeting chicks. I do not tell guys to avoid all their individuality just to create that initial aura of being dominant and in control.

  • Jake

    Thanks for the advice Stallion! I have some things to improve on from here but at least now I know what I should start hhhaha. Do you know any guides on how to start a good wardrobe? Right now all I have is jeans, tshirts and converse, and don’t know what else to get

    • Phil

      I’m kind of in the same rut – just jeans and t-shirts for me. I have some more stylish clothes, but I never seem to wear them

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        I have same advice for you. Try to find something that will fit you. Maybe you could ask some of your female friends for advice.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Just choose some special style that will fit you based on your figure. It is very individual so I am afraid I can not give you more detailed advice.

  • Xavier

    This is a very interesting article. I’d love to find out more about body language, so that I can control mine, or at least figure out the subliminal clues I’m giving peole when I talk to the.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I bet it is not that hard to get your hands on this info. Maybe I will even add new article on this issue.

  • John

    Decent list, but there are only 7. You skipped #3.