8 Character Traits of The Perfect Dominatrix

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REMEMBER: This GUIDE Will Show You 8 Character Traits of The Perfect Dominatrix! Tip Number 7 Is REALLY Kinky! AWESOME Photos and BONUS Strategies Included!

If you want to be a perfect dominatrix you need to emanate absolute dominance and provide your clients and submissives with excellent BDSM experience. Therefore, you need to have a clear understanding of basics and extras this discipline requires.

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Luckily for you, there are 8 tips you need to apply ASAP to gain necessary character traits of a perfect dominatrix to provide your clients with the session of their dreams!

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Trait #1 – Confidence Is Everything

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If you want to choose a profession of a dominatrix you need to have a lot of confidence and high self-esteem. Now only that, you will need to express it during sessions with your clients.

Pay attention: Your partner or client will always be looking to you for commands. Therefore, you will need to dominate and show him or her that you are comfortable with being in control.

Confidence is not only a necessary part of being a dominatrix, but it can also be extra sexy!

Trait #2 – She Always Plans Her Steps Ahead

The dominatrix profession will require a small amount of acting. Therefore, you will want to construct a solid script and plan that you will be able to follow during your session! Thanks to these, you will know what to say and do if your partner will or will not obey your commands.

Pay attention: A preparation of “a script” will improve your clients experience. You should look at it as a part of a movie – you will want to make sure that you know what is coming next so that you are prepared for any situation!

Trait #3 – Is Flexible to Adapt to Client’s Needs

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The needs of your clients are of the utmost importance as they will be your primary source of income. Considering that BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism) is a unique area of sexual appeal, you can expect them to have unusual requests.

Therefore, you will want to be highly flexible to ensure that you are effectively able to cater to their needs!

Pay attention: The more you can pleasure your clients, the more likely they will return to you and to refer you to their friends. The more clients you have, the more money you make, therefore being flexible provides you with a win-win situation.

Trait #4 – She Knows How to Make Him Obey

As previously mentioned, being a dominatrix means that you need to be the controlling party in your relationship to your customer. Alongside having a high confidence and a plan, you must feel comfortable with giving commands and making your partner obey.

There are various methods that you can use to make sure that your client follows your commands, including flogging and whipping.

Keep in mind: The punishment in dominant-submissive relationship translates to pleasure – therefore to make him understand your commands, you must make him obey!

Trait #5 – She Knows How to Spank Him

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Another common practice that you will need to learn and do is spanking your client. Much like flogging or whipping, spanking is another sexy way that you can use to make your submissive subject to do whatever you say!

You can use it as a reward if he or she listen to you and complete tasks you assign them.

Keep in mind: If you are new to being a dominatrix, spanking him may be awkward at first but it will soon become your second nature!

Trait #6 – Is Always Dominant

It is important to remember that often, your client will try to challenge you in every way possible until he or she understands that you are in control! Therefore, you need to maintain a dominant position that will keep the pleasure and fantasy alive.

Pay attention: The whole point is to be able to maintain control, regardless of whether he or she wants to challenge you or not. Practice particular commands and actions that will make your partner listen and understand that you are the master holding the leash!

Trait #7 – She Knows How to Tease & Avoids Sex

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One of the most important things to learn as a dominatrix is the following rule: Tease with zero physical acts of sex.

You will want to touch your client and entice him or her to want to have intercourse with you, but you are never to give them your entire body!

Teasing is an excellent way to keep the sexual fantasy of your clientele alive and make submissives aroused and wanting more.

Pay attention: If you can effectively tease your clients, they will continue to return to you for their sessions!

Tip #8 – She Always Maintains Control

Although you will be disciplining men and treating them like they are insignificant, you cannot let these emotions run rampant! It is your professional duty to ensure that you can continue to provide your customers with a safe and yet exciting environment.

Keep in mind: Many professional dominatrixes harbor negative feelings towards men, and if you are one of these, it is imperative that you keep your opinions to yourself while in the workplace. Otherwise, you will lose your clientele!

These are tips you need to follow in case you want to build all necessary character traits of a perfect dominatrix. Even if you are just delving into the industry, there are many components to this incredibly exciting profession for you to learn!

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  • DomLover

    I’m one of those men who sees a dominatrix on a weekly basis. It took me a few tries with different ladies to find one who I liked and who was serious about her craft. The first few were basically wanna-be’s who had dominatrix equipment, but didn’t know how to fully engage. My mistress is a lifestyle dominatrix. In fact, that’s something you should ask before making an appointment. If she offers other ‘services’ outside of the domination field, then she’s not a lifestyle dominatrix. But if this is all she does, then you know she’s the real deal.

    • That is really nice observation that can be used by other guys as well.
      Hopefully all will be able to find their quality “mistresses”.

  • Bonnie de Blueballs

    Being a full-time dominatrix I will say that confidence is probably the most important trait of them all. You have to be able to make your demands clear and punish accordingly when your demands haven’t been properly fulfilled.

    In my house, the punishment is always slightly greater than the crime. I tend to be a bit heavy handed, but that’s because I attract clients who love the pain aspect. Some slaves prefer the emotional torture, but I’m a more physical gal. Even though domination is a fetish, you almost have to find your niche in there.

    • Sometimes physical punishment is better than physical one. It highly depends on the situation and individual client.

  • Thad

    My mistress does what I refer to as a split personality routine. One minute she’s sweet and teasing. And the next few minutes she’s the queen of holy terror. I’ve seen several dominatrix’s in my days, but this one has the best routine. There’s something dangerously beautiful about her salty and sweet nature.

    • Whow, this sounds like a really freaky fun! I would love to experience something like that 🙂

  • LionelP

    Ladies, if you’re going to be a real dominatrix, then make sure your heart is in it. Spend the money to get quality equipment. A paddle and a nasty disposition won’t cut it. Don’t advertise that you have a fully stocked dungeon if you’ve got a whip and some nipple clamps. (Yes, there are supposed dom’s who do this bait-and-switch.)

    The best dominatrix’s are the ones who derive sensual pleasure by overpowering their clients. Like tip #8 says, don’t use it as a platform to unleash your anger. Do it because you get a rise from it.

    • That is true Lionel. All “wanna be” dominatrices should read this comment.

  • arman23

    Big ‘yes’ to number 7. Teasing is the entire point of a dom session. Domination isn’t rough sex. Always remember that it’s a mental game. The more you can stimulate a clients mind, the more they’ll continue to beg for more.