7 Really Cool Tips for Dating a Stripper

7 Really Cool Tips for Dating a Stripper

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Dancer With A PoleYou would be beyond hard-pressed to find any guy on the planet that hasn’t had a dream about dating a stripper – even though so very few actually end up following through.

There is just something about these women that are totally and completely confident in their body and sexuality, enough so that they can dance up on stage in front of maybe the roughest, ugliest, and weirdest bunch of fellows the world has ever seen for cold hard cash – all without batting an eyelash.

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However, if you want to pull yourself up out of the muck and date this chick, you cannot allow yourself to become “just another face in the crowd”. Here are a few tips and tricks that you should use to help you to pick up the one of your dreams – without becoming one of those chumps.

Why Should You Begin to Date Her?

The very first thing you’re going to want to do, well before you ever commit to following through with your plan, is figure out whether or not you can handle the emotional stress and pressure that her job is going to place on your shoulders.

While there are a ton of guys out there who will say that they would do just about anything to go out with these ladies, the truth of the matter is that they often just can’t handle the sexuality, the jealousy, or the rage that they may feel towards these women after they begin dating them – and they go into full on meltdown mode.

Obviously, you’re going to need to be mature enough to handle this situation, and it’s important that you check yourself before you proceed forward – especially if you don’t have the emotional capacity to deal with her on a one-on-one or personal level.

Why to Pick up a Stripper Instead of “Regular Girls”

There are a tremendous amount of different reasons why you’d want to date these instead of “regular girls”, with the most obvious being they are:

  • Calm
  • Cool
  • Confident
  • Amazingly sexual (exuding this on a daily basis)

Remember, these are women that have absolutely no trouble whatsoever peeling it all off for complete and total strangers – just imagine what they would be willing to do back in the bedroom alone with their significant other.

There are a lot of “ordinary girls” out there that are pretty wild and uninhibited, but you know exactly what you’re getting into when you begin to meet a stripper.

Why to Avoid This Type of Chicks?

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Not all is sunshine and roses when you decide to start going out with this type of a lady. This is a culture that can promote an unhealthy body image, sexually objectify women, and can do a real number on her self-esteem – all of which can lead to:

  • Serious lifestyle problems
  • Drug habits
  • Even prostitution

It’s definitely recommended that, if you do decide to go for this type of a girl, you find one that has their head screwed directly onto their shoulders.

Do everything you can to stay away from those that have daddy issues, clearly had cases of, or are still big into snow blowing – even when it’s 90° outside, if you know what I mean.

Best Place to Meet Her

Obviously, the best place to meet a stripper is in a strip club. However, you also have to understand that you can bump into these girls just about anywhere – these aren’t some kind of “rare birds” that we are talking about here.

They are people, just like you and I – and you can bump into them anywhere, at any time, in any moment. Just remember the golden rule.

Never – NEVER – attempt to follow her home (or follow them for any reason whatsoever). You’ll come off as a complete and total freak show, some sort of a psycho stalker, and will blow all of your chances (if you don’t end up in jail).

Tips to Help You Date Her

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Now that we’ve gotten the basics out of the way, hopefully these seven specific tips will help give you an extra edge and advantage when it comes to dating the stripper of your dreams.

This isn’t all you’ll need to pull off to successfully date one on a regular basis, but it’s definitely a bit of a head start – which is more than most guys will ever have in their life!

1. Don’t Look Like a Chump

We’ve all been at the strip club where we’ve seen those chumps sit up at the rail, never really pulling themselves away from the stage, hooting and hollering and generally carrying on as though they have not seen a pair of tits in their lives. Obviously, you need to try to do absolutely EVERYTHING you can to not be one of those guys – regardless of what your primal instincts may tell you.

There is no reason to get dressed up in a suit and tie to hit your local strip club, but dress stylishly, look like you own the joint, and remain confident throughout the entire evening. Whatever you do, don’t drool or cat call at any point in time.

2. Go in Earlier Than Most Other Guys

Secondly, you’re going to want to get in just a bit earlier than most, though you certainly don’t want to be the first guy in the building.

You’re looking for an air of confidence, a feeling like you’re just out to have a good time, and not that you’re plopping yourself down to check out one specific set list of the stripper that you’ve been obsessing about for the last three weeks.

Pick out a seat halfway back from the stage, and begin to enjoy the show – and a couple of drinks.

3. Make Sure That You Bring Enough Cash

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There’s absolutely nothing worse than finally getting the moment to splurge on your favorite girl in strip bar, only to find that you’ve blown through the last week’s lunch money and don’t have any extra dough that you can show your appreciation with.

Depending upon your specific situation, you’ll want to create a concrete “budget” that you can blow every time you hit the club – and make sure that you’re stacked up on fives, not just ones.

4. Don’t Become a Regular

This just might be some of the most important advice that you receive in this entire guide, so pay close attention.

DO. NOT. BECOME. A. REGULAR. EVER.

There are these other kinds of dudes that she is going to specifically target to make just as much money as humanly possible, but these are never – NEVER – the kinds of guys that she would go home with.

Do not be a jackass & do not become a regular.

5. Tip Every Single Girl on Stage & Don’t Be Cheap About It

Tipping A Stripper

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Another surefire sign that you are a complete and total rookie at this game is that you either refused to tip all of the ladies while you’re up at the rail, or that you tip all of them a little bit until your “honey boo” shows up – in which case you blow your entire wad, showing just how desperately attached you are.

Don’t be a sucker. Tip each and every girl accordingly for each single song she does, and make sure that you’re generous. They talk about this kind of stuff backstage, and remember who stiff them and who they want to stiff them.

6. Make Sure That You Respect Her Job

When you finally do get the chance to strike up a conversation with your favorite stripper, don’t go all frat party on them. Understand that this is a job that she’s taken on – one she may or may not be absolutely in love with – and treated as such.

  • Don’t make any callous jokes.
  • Don’t look like an overwhelmed idiot.
  • Have the kind of conversation you would have with any other girl you were attracted to.

Unless she’s a dummy. Then all bets are off.

7. Don’t Pretend to Be a Hero

Last but not least, stay away from any “hero imitations”. Even if you’re dealing with a stripper that has some very serious daddy issues, the last thing that you want to do is try to “save them” from the life that they have chosen.

Sure, there are certainly some chicks out there that got into this world just to make some quick cash and absolutely hate themselves for it – but there are also a lot of them that fall in love with the job, couldn’t imagine not dancing, and are having the time of their lives exploring their sexuality in ways that some women never get to.

Don’t rain on that parade. Be the Prince Charming, not some sort of white knight weirdo hero.

Closing Thoughts

Hopefully you’ll be able to use the information above to score the “striptease lady” of your dreams. Be smart, be persistent, and do absolutely everything you can to be attractive.

The biggest tip that you can take advantage of when you’re looking to date a stripper is to be the flame, not the moth. Be the kind of guy that she would like to go out with.

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  • Nick

    Men I don’t know, good advice I guess, but I’d never be able to be with a stripper. I can find a sexually liberated girl anywhere if I try hard enough, but I just couldn’t deal with explicitly knowing other guys jack off to her while she’s on stage. that’s just my issue tho.

    • Vinny

      You’re right, there is a difference between being liberated and being an exhibitionist. To each their own, but let’s be honest, that’s totally your issue. If you can’t trust your charm and libido enough to know that you’re definitely getting the best out of her and giving her a better time than any of those dudes in the club, then it’s time to work on your confidence and communication.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        I can only agree with you Vinny, you just need to be cool and always stay emotionally and mentally strong…

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, this is really something you need to consider before you enter into this kind of relationship.

  • Silviu

    My girl is a stripper and she’s awesome…I get private shows all the time ;) I met her at the grocery store and she told me later in the relationship about what she did. Also, as Stallion said in the article, don’t become a regular! Her and her stripper friends talk the worst about regulars, they see them as pathetic…

    • Albert

      I think that as soon as you become a regular, you’re not seen as a man anymore, just a paycheck. They can’t afford to ever let you out of that zone, so just don’t go there. I mean, don’t go into the club and get known as a cheapskate either, but if you’re supporting her, she’s not going to want to move the relationship out of the club for fear of losing money.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        That is really great point Albert. Thank you for giving this tip out to all dudes!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      And sadly, often they really are… But it is really great to know you managed to find a hot stripper and date her!

  • Noel

    Lol, steer clear of strippers with daddy issues…that’s like saying stay away from tigers that are yellow. Sure, there’s this albino tiger here and there, but most of them!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is put nicely :D I realize these are really hard to find …

  • MarriedGuy

    That video was really good. I mean yeah that’s what my girl friend who is a stripper complain the most about, that men treat her like a sex object. My wife agrees with her and says that’s upsetting as fuck, so yeah guys, don’t be fucking creeps.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true. Many guys treat stripper just as sex objects and not human beings with emotions.

  • Lou

    I have a friend who is dating a stripper and she’s a really special gal. I linked her this article and she agreed with most of the advice here. So I guess this gets the stripper seal of approval haha.

    • Paul

      Lol, the stripper seal of approval! there should definitely be a graphic done up for that one.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        This is really great and funny idea dude!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Thank you Lou! This is great!

  • Julia

    Great list for the fellows, Stallion. But what about a list for the girls? I would love to date a male stripper! They are so hot and they have such hot bodies. I just love how hot male strippers are!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Hey Julia. I am afraid I will not be able to write an article on your suggestions. I believe this is out of my reach…

  • Ben Rowe

    Dating a stripper is overrated! I used to date only strippers during my twenties. Looking back I wasted so much money.When you are dating a striper you need to have money! They don’t just want dollars at the club, they expect you to take them shopping at designer stores, they want 5 star dining and hotels. They always want the best. I used to spend so much money on them and I noticed that when I stopped spending they would move on to the next dude.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, it sounds that you have found some “gold-diggers” dude. I hope you are past this costly period of your life.

  • BenzLover

    My girlfriend is a stripper and she’s super hot! She’s the best girlfriend that I have ever had! She loves to party, she always dresses sexy and has the best sense of humor. She’s also super hot! The only issue is that my friends’ girlfriends don’t like her. I think that they are jealous of how hot she is.

    • Brenda

      As long as you like her, who cares what your friends girlfriends think? You’re right, they’re probably just jealous. Most insecure girls hate strippers, or any kind of sex workers, because they know that they don’t have the confidence and control over their bodies that strippers do.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        You just said it so clearly… I could not explain it better!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      It looks like they really are. Maybe your friends talk a lot about her in their presence…

  • Kelly Pino

    As a female that has finished university and started my business, I often wonder, when did it become acceptable to date/marry strippers? I know that strippers have a certain sex appeal, but do guys ever worry about STDS? the amount of partners they have been with? how would your parents feel if you brought a stripper home? Lets not forget that many strippers come from a place of abuse.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      These are all really valid points people and dudes who want to date strippers should consider.

  • Carmen

    I have plenty of friends that are strippers and they are mainly interested in dating guys that have money! Yes, they make a good living but most of them want to get out of that lifestyle and have a guy take care of them. However, most of the time they are on stage, they are a bit tipsy or have popped anxiety medicine. Its not an easy lifestyle and for many years people looked at strippers like they were a step above street walkers.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, there are many prejudices to strippers even today so their situation is pretty harsh.

  • Chrissy

    Your first point is an excellent one. Guys, if you’re going to date a stripper, realize that *you are dating a stripper*. You are not dating some girl that you would like to bring home and save, so that she will no longer be a stripper. Don’t think that you’re going to change her, it’s not going to work. If you’re not cool with that, then just go find some other girl you can be happy with and leave the strippers alone.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Each dude going into this kind of relationship should repeat this point regularly.