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There is just something about these women that are totally and completely confident in their body and sexuality, enough so that they can dance up on stage in front of maybe the roughest, ugliest, and weirdest bunch of fellows the world has ever seen for cold hard cash – all without batting an eyelash.
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However, if you want to pull yourself up out of the muck and date this chick, you cannot allow yourself to become “just another face in the crowd”. Here are a few tips and tricks that you should use to help you to pick up the one of your dreams – without becoming one of those chumps.
Why Should You Begin to Date Her?
The very first thing you’re going to want to do, well before you ever commit to following through with your plan, is figure out whether or not you can handle the emotional stress and pressure that her job is going to place on your shoulders.
While there are a ton of guys out there who will say that they would do just about anything to go out with these ladies, the truth of the matter is that they often just can’t handle the sexuality, the jealousy, or the rage that they may feel towards these women after they begin dating them – and they go into full on meltdown mode.
Obviously, you’re going to need to be mature enough to handle this situation, and it’s important that you check yourself before you proceed forward – especially if you don’t have the emotional capacity to deal with her on a one-on-one or personal level.
Why to Pick up a Stripper Instead of “Regular Girls”
There are a tremendous amount of different reasons why you’d want to date these instead of “regular girls”, with the most obvious being they are:
- Amazingly sexual (exuding this on a daily basis)
Remember, these are women that have absolutely no trouble whatsoever peeling it all off for complete and total strangers – just imagine what they would be willing to do back in the bedroom alone with their significant other.
There are a lot of “ordinary girls” out there that are pretty wild and uninhibited, but you know exactly what you’re getting into when you begin to meet a stripper.
Why to Avoid This Type of Chicks?
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Not all is sunshine and roses when you decide to start going out with this type of a lady. This is a culture that can promote an unhealthy body image, sexually objectify women, and can do a real number on her self-esteem – all of which can lead to:
- Serious lifestyle problems
- Drug habits
- Even prostitution
It’s definitely recommended that, if you do decide to go for this type of a girl, you find one that has their head screwed directly onto their shoulders.
Do everything you can to stay away from those that have daddy issues, clearly had cases of, or are still big into snow blowing – even when it’s 90° outside, if you know what I mean.
Best Place to Meet Her
Obviously, the best place to meet a stripper is in a strip club. However, you also have to understand that you can bump into these girls just about anywhere – these aren’t some kind of “rare birds” that we are talking about here.
They are people, just like you and I – and you can bump into them anywhere, at any time, in any moment. Just remember the golden rule.
Never – NEVER – attempt to follow her home (or follow them for any reason whatsoever). You’ll come off as a complete and total freak show, some sort of a psycho stalker, and will blow all of your chances (if you don’t end up in jail).
Tips to Help You Date Her
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This isn’t all you’ll need to pull off to successfully date one on a regular basis, but it’s definitely a bit of a head start – which is more than most guys will ever have in their life!
1. Don’t Look Like a Chump
We’ve all been at the strip club where we’ve seen those chumps sit up at the rail, never really pulling themselves away from the stage, hooting and hollering and generally carrying on as though they have not seen a pair of tits in their lives. Obviously, you need to try to do absolutely EVERYTHING you can to not be one of those guys – regardless of what your primal instincts may tell you.
There is no reason to get dressed up in a suit and tie to hit your local strip club, but dress stylishly, look like you own the joint, and remain confident throughout the entire evening. Whatever you do, don’t drool or cat call at any point in time.
2. Go in Earlier Than Most Other Guys
Secondly, you’re going to want to get in just a bit earlier than most, though you certainly don’t want to be the first guy in the building.
You’re looking for an air of confidence, a feeling like you’re just out to have a good time, and not that you’re plopping yourself down to check out one specific set list of the stripper that you’ve been obsessing about for the last three weeks.
Pick out a seat halfway back from the stage, and begin to enjoy the show – and a couple of drinks.
3. Make Sure That You Bring Enough Cash
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There’s absolutely nothing worse than finally getting the moment to splurge on your favorite girl in strip bar, only to find that you’ve blown through the last week’s lunch money and don’t have any extra dough that you can show your appreciation with.
Depending upon your specific situation, you’ll want to create a concrete “budget” that you can blow every time you hit the club – and make sure that you’re stacked up on fives, not just ones.
4. Don’t Become a Regular
This just might be some of the most important advice that you receive in this entire guide, so pay close attention.
DO. NOT. BECOME. A. REGULAR. EVER.
There are these other kinds of dudes that she is going to specifically target to make just as much money as humanly possible, but these are never – NEVER – the kinds of guys that she would go home with.
Do not be a jackass & do not become a regular.
5. Tip Every Single Girl on Stage & Don’t Be Cheap About It
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Another surefire sign that you are a complete and total rookie at this game is that you either refused to tip all of the ladies while you’re up at the rail, or that you tip all of them a little bit until your “honey boo” shows up – in which case you blow your entire wad, showing just how desperately attached you are.
Don’t be a sucker. Tip each and every girl accordingly for each single song she does, and make sure that you’re generous. They talk about this kind of stuff backstage, and remember who stiff them and who they want to stiff them.
6. Make Sure That You Respect Her Job
When you finally do get the chance to strike up a conversation with your favorite stripper, don’t go all frat party on them. Understand that this is a job that she’s taken on – one she may or may not be absolutely in love with – and treated as such.
- Don’t make any callous jokes.
- Don’t look like an overwhelmed idiot.
- Have the kind of conversation you would have with any other girl you were attracted to.
Unless she’s a dummy. Then all bets are off.
7. Don’t Pretend to Be a Hero
Last but not least, stay away from any “hero imitations”. Even if you’re dealing with a stripper that has some very serious daddy issues, the last thing that you want to do is try to “save them” from the life that they have chosen.
Sure, there are certainly some chicks out there that got into this world just to make some quick cash and absolutely hate themselves for it – but there are also a lot of them that fall in love with the job, couldn’t imagine not dancing, and are having the time of their lives exploring their sexuality in ways that some women never get to.
Don’t rain on that parade. Be the Prince Charming, not some sort of white knight weirdo hero.
Hopefully you’ll be able to use the information above to score the “striptease lady” of your dreams. Be smart, be persistent, and do absolutely everything you can to be attractive.
The biggest tip that you can take advantage of when you’re looking to date a stripper is to be the flame, not the moth. Be the kind of guy that she would like to go out with.
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- How to sleep with a stripper (without paying for it) – on BroBible.com
- Dear Stripper: Do You Wipe The Pole Between Dancers? – on ThoughtCatalog.com