7 Critical Signs That She Might Be Cheating on You


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REMEMBER: This GUIDE Will Show You 7 Critical Signs She Might Be Cheating on You! Number 1 Is ESPECIALLY Important! These Tips Helped Over 25,000 Readers! Great Photos INCLUDED!

In a relationship, partners will often experience ups and downs. These are expected, but there are times when everything may seem normal, but she is actually cheating on you.

After all, there is always a chance that she may become attracted to another person or that you push her into the arms of another man. While no one wants to think of this, there are 7 critical signs that may indicate that she is falling for another guy.

Sign #7 – She Is Trying to Look Her Best More Often

woman putting on lipstick

Women love to look good, and men love it when they do. If your relationship is growing stale, she may be dressing up to impress you and bring back the spark that the two of you shared together.

However, if she is paying more attention to the way that she looks, she may be trying to be beautiful good for someone else. If you notice that she is dressing to the 9s when she is at the following places, you may have an issue: Work, grocery store, shopping mall or even gym!

Pay attention: The casual places that she used to go that have turned into a fashion show for her may be an indication that she is cheating on you.

Sign #6 – She Is More Secretive About Her Phone & Computer

woman with cell phone

Everyone deserves their privacy. In fact, most people do not like to have their privacy invaded even by their loved ones. The issue comes about when she is more secretive about her belongings than ever before.

This may mean that arguments happens when you check her phone to look at the time or her being agitated that you came in the room while she was on the computer. When a person is being ultra-secretive, they may be communicating with another partner that they have.

Sign #5 – Lost or Minimal Sex Drive & Its Complete Refusal

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No matter what others say, lovemaking is an integral part of every relationship. When you do not have sex, you will feel neglected and often aggravated at your partner.

As you age, you will normally notice that the amount of sex you once had has slowed down. This is normal, but there is a point when normalcy is completely ruled out.

Complete refusal to have intercourse or continual excuses may mean that she simply doesn’t want to make love with you. When a person cheats, they often lose the emotional attachment they had with you and will simply not want sex.

Sign #4 – There Is The “Mysterious Guy”

mysterious relaxed guy

The mystery guy is the one that you have to worry about. Women and men will always have friends of the opposite sex, but the unknown dude that she can’t stop talking about may be a problem.

Even if her intentions are all good, he may want something more than just a friendship. If she won’t let you meet the mysterious guy that she has been spending time with, there may be more going on than mere chatting.

Sign #3 – She Is Nagging You More Than Usual

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Nagging and comparing you to others is simply not acceptable in a relationship. When this goes from playful to intense, she may be cheating.

Oftentimes, a woman will try to avoid arguments and often appease their partner. If it becomes frequent indicates that something is just not right in the relationship. She may be stressed or overwhelmed, or she may be seeking comfort in the arms of another man.

Sign #2 – She Is Gradually Detaching from You & Your Closest Circles

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Couples that have been together for a long time will share the same friends. These are the ones that the two of you have added into your life over the years. When she is not spending time with you and does all that she can to avoid those people, there is usually another person involved.

She may not have the courage to meet with close friends and lie about her happiness any longer. This may happen gradually, or this may be an abrupt detachment.

Sign #1 – She Slowly Replaced “We” with “I”

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The “we” in a relationship is sacred. This is the time when a man and woman have cemented their lives together. Oftentimes, women will be the initiators in the switch from “I” to “we”.

When she starts saying “I” often and excluding you from integral parts of your life, she may be trying to inadvertently erase you from the picture. Cheating can be a very emotional time for you, but many of the critical signs may also be a deeper issue.

Lack of sex or trying to look her best may be caused by depression or her not being happy with herself. Before accusing her of wrongdoings, ensure that there is an issue present, or you may be the reason for the two of you breaking up.

Vital Signs to Look for According to Reddit

“My Ex actually had me meet the guy to confirm nothing was happening, the nerve! But I didn’t fall for her gambit. I remember the slip that got me suspicious. At one point she answered the phone and used that voice that she only uses when talking to you in an intimate manner, you know that tone of voice.

So, when she cancelled a date with me because she just had to stay at home to “think” about some “problems” I took that as my cue to drive over to her home. When I arrived my biggest fear was confirmed by her sister when she told me she left with the guy for a walk around the neighborhood.

I started driving around like a maniac looking for them, finally I found them kissing in a tight embrace by the park. I confronted the guy and ended up kicking his ass, but winning a fight doesn’t mean you also win the girl because she picked him up and told me that she never wants to see me again.

I think that was my most bitter break up, after that I don’t think I could ever love again.”

Source: Reddit

“My ex did quite a few fucked up things. She stopped almost all communication for a week and I had no clue how she was.

She added a guy on Facebook and he liked all of her main profile pictures which I thought was odd, I asked her who he was and she said she didn’t know him. I ask her again and he was someone she had a class with. I ask her once more and they were frequently chatting on good ol Facebook.

She would also cut our alone time short to go “hang out with her best friend”

After we break up she blocks me on Facebook so she couldn’t see my suspicions were confirmed. She was cheating on me with a guy going to play texas tech baseball…didn’t even make the roster, hope it was worth it. All of this was right after my best friend committed suicide when I needed her most.”

Source: Reddit

“For me, the biggest warning sign is that they’ve ever switched relationships while still IN a relationship (i.e., picked you up, THEN dropped the previous relationship). If they did that to their last romantic interest, they’re sure as hell likely to do it to you.

Other signs:

  • Becoming “selectively unreachable” when they’re allegedly out doing innocuous things where they’d normally take a phone call.
  • Corollary to the above, selectively not taking calls when you’re with them. This is a little harder to gauge… but you’ll definitely get that they’re not just being polite by deferring a call.
  • BIG ONE segregating your contact with other people they’re frequently with. Honestly, everyone does this to a degree… but cheaters put up some absolute walls that will become apparent over time.
  • Inconsistencies: over time, you’ll note discrepancies between what they said they were doing vs. what makes sense. Again, this is a matter of degrees. With a cheater, these will add up to a “do I really believe this?” level at some point. Example: SO was allegedly overseas — but when I called his cell phone it connected immediately. If you’ve ever called an out-of-network cell phone overseas, you know that it takes a heck of a lot longer to connect. I make a lot of those kinda calls for work, so this was one of the first weird WTF moments for me.
  • A bunch of excuses: Just like a manager who gets that all of your Monday morning sick calls have become a pattern for rough weekends… a cheater’s patterns will start to stand out.”

Source: Reddit

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  • Jessica P.

    I agree with your first tip but I have to point out that this doesn’t always mean that she is cheating on you. I used to do this a few years back but only did it because I was having a middle age crisis and needed to feel beautiful especially when going out. I would dress up to go shopping or to the grocery store. I had no intention of cheating on my husband, just wanted to look beautiful for me.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, therefore there are more signs a dude should look for. Even in you notice just one that may not be the reason to panic. Just observe and notice if her behavior includes more points from this article. Then you should start to worry and try to fix things up asap.

  • Daora41

    Me and my husband had a period when we seemed to be growing apart and I knew I had to do something. I started dressing up and surprising him with a short sexual encounter every 2-3 days until he really got into it and starred reciprocating! Our love life is amazing now and our whole relationship has gotten the boost it needed.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is something that everyone love to read. Happy endings are the best!

  • Zack

    When you see your loved one being ultra-secretive you should immediately ask them what is going on. Do not postpone this or it may destroy your relationship. Don’t beat around the bush and ask why it is that she/he is being secretive. Tell them if something is wrong they shouldn’t hide it from you.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true, but oftentimes, they will maintain their secrecy and tell you that everything is fine. So be persistent while trying to figure out what is wrong.

  • Dave

    I caught my girlfriend trying to cheat on me because she was so secretive about her phone. It was heartbreaking but I realized that it was mostly my fault for not paying enough attention to her. She was just trying to figure things out between us and a jackal started hanging around her. I talked to her and really took to heart what she told me. I also paid the jackal a visit and told him to buzz off or I would take care of him. Things are going great right now so it pays to talk, listen and try to change any issue between you and you loved one.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is great ending to some really nasty stuff. I am glad you did managed to fix things up before it was too late.

  • Gabriel

    I couple months back my girlfriend was starting to lose her sex drive. I didn’t know what to do because she was always saying she isn’t in the mood or things like that. It took some time to get her to open up to me and just say she had some personal issues (she was feeling fat and
    unattractive) that made her act this way. I was amazed! I had no idea why she would feel this way because she looks amazing! But, I supported her and encouraged her to work out more so she gets the body she wants! Needless to say that out sex life has skyrocketed!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is amazing. Sure, proper communication can save a lot of troubles in the future with minimal effort.

  • Brandon

    I was with a chick that was cheating on me. She didn’t want to have sex at all because she was screwing some guy. It took me about 2 weeks to find out the whole deal and when I confronted her she lied. That was it for me and I broke it off. She is sorry she cheated but I don’t want to take her back because she lied to me.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, these kinds of break ups are really hard. However, keep in mind that when she did this once, she will do it more often.

  • Dean

    Yeah, if she is nagging you more than usual and trying to compare you with others, then you are in trouble! Believe me because this happened to me and I realized she was cheating on me. In 2 days I knew who she was cheating with, when they met and what they talked about. I just had someone follow her and give me the details. Because she treated me like garbage and was
    lying and having sex with another man behind my back, I wanted payback. I started treating her the way she treated me and she hates this. I eventually told her that I knew about the other guy and she tried to make me forgive her. She was nicer to me and we had a lot of crazy sex for a while. I knew this wouldn’t last and I didn’t want to continue so I left her after having a little
    fun on her behalf.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, this is one of the ways you can handle being cheated on. There are many and none of them can be considered good or bad.

  • Luke

    I think the biggest sign is the cell thing. If your SO starts taking their phone everywhere with them, including the bathroom, it basically spells that something fishy is going on. My ex started doing that and when I asked her to look in her phone just to make sure she exploded. i later snooped and found out sexting between her and her boss…that cunt.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is the most obvious scenario of finding out that someone cheats on you.

  • Duncan

    If her attitude changes towards you, it’s clear she is either cheating or has fallen out of love with you. Especially if she starts comparing you with someone else, or spends a lot of time with some guy and never tells you what they’re up to, she might be emotionally cheating on you and already checked out of your relationship. That’s what my ex did…she eventually dumped me. I found someone good to me now, but I still have issues with guy friends, no matter how friendly they are to me.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Hey Duncan, I totally understand what you are going through. This is one of the signs you should always check for!

  • Nick P.

    I was with a girl that always denied me sex. At the beginning, we were screwing like rabbits, but one year in the sex started dwindling to point 0. All the while she was milking me of gifts while I was being a good boyfriend…she said she had low libido, i believed her, we went to couple’s therapy…nothing! she then said she was too tired, so we took a vacation to recharge our batteries…still nothing. she then said i gained weight and wasn’t attractive to her anymore – i had only gained 10 lbs! i went to the gym, got better looking…nothing. and then i found her in OUR bed screwing her coworker…fuck that noise. if she’s denying you sex and you’ve exhausted all her excuses SHE IS CHEATING

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      This is sad truth that many guys will face sooner or later… And if your case is very close to that of Nick then you should be worried a lot!

  • Snooping Matt

    Any ultra secretive behavior should be treated with suspicion at the least, especially if they weren’t that much of a private person at the beginning. Any odd behavior should be a hint something went wrong, somewhere. I got cheated on by an ex and now I can’t trust any woman…even the good one I have near me now. I snoop on her phone, look through her facebook when she leaves it logged on…I’ve become a controlling dick :/

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Dude as long as you realize that you are controlling dick you are still on the good way to self reflection and regaining of your mindset. Try to control yourself and rebuild your sense of trust to women.

  • Linda

    As a woman, I can tell you that any hiding the phone is bad news for you. I’ve never cheated on anyone, but I know how my girl friends act when they’re cheating (in hindisght, i should reconsider those friendships) – ultra secretive, always checking their phone, changing their passwords all the time…asking me to cover up for them, but i never did, if they want to lie they’re on their own >_> their poor boyfriends!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Those nasty chicks. This shows really poor quality of their characters.