3 Ultimate Tips To Last Longer In Bed And Increase Stamina

Unable To Last Longer In bedIf you ever took opportunity to sit down and “talk shop” with the guys that you hang out with, you’ve probably heard all kinds of legends about their long (marathon like) sex sessions.

While you probably know to take much of that talk with a grain of salt, the truth of the matter is that you should be able to dramatically increase the amount of time you’re able to last in bed – even with a rocking hottie – just by following some of the inside information I will share with you below.

[BTW, You Will Really Enjoy This: 5 Fabulous Tips To Make Any Woman Squirt Easily]

Struggle To Go Over The Average Time

If you have looked into any of the research out there about the modern intimate lives of average men, the truth is that you’ll find any performance over eight or nine minutes during penetration well outside of the normal range.

  • Minuteman - While not exactly as exciting or interesting as most people would like to make it out, the stone cold fact is that today we are looking at a “Minutemen epidemic” that is truly sweeping the planet.
  • Confront It - However, what’s important is not to bury this information in the back of your mind, always feeling ashamed at not being able to perform long enough during sex – but instead to embrace, confront, and defeat this issue completely as it is not that hard.

Not only I am going to arm you with the tricks, tactics, and techniques you need to delay the moment when you ejaculate – but I am also going to help you to do so almost instantly, with quick fixes that will work even tonight. Let’s dive right in…

Understanding What You Are Up Against

While most men have been conditioned to believe that 20, 30, or even 60 minutes intercourse are the norm we already know that nothing could be further from the truth.

However, that doesn’t mean that you won’t be able to unlock a lot more pleasure – for both of you – if you can stretch the time of your sexual performance, which is exactly what I am trying to do here.

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It’s also important that you understand what you’re up against in the first place, specifically when it comes to possible medical or neurological conditions that are causing you to “blow your load” too soon.

  • Premature Ejaculation (PE) – This is a very real issue that can be treated with medical solutions, surgical interventions, and a host of other medical technologies – but you’ll need to speak with your doctor to see if it’s something you’re going to have to live with.
  • Psychological Causes – Secondly, physical performance can be directly related to any stress, pressure, or anxiety that you may be feeling – especially if you feel like your partner is “out of your league”.

The quickest and most effective way to eliminate these problems would be to seek out assistance from real professionals that can help – but there are faster solutions how to last longer in bed that I am going to dive into right now.

Quick Fix Tips To Apply During Sex Tonight

Tip No. 1 – Use Condom

You understand that when you are dealing with a premature ejaculation situation, the best way – and the fastest way – is to slip on a condom to try and dull some of the sensation responsible for triggering your alarms.

While almost any regular condom will do, there are a number of advanced “stamina condoms” available for those who are really struggling with PE issue:
Durex & Trojan Stamina Boosting Condoms

  • Durex Performax
  • Trojan – Pleasures Extended

These are made of heavier and thicker material, and strip out many of the “pleasure features and benefits” that some of the top condoms on the market today include.

At the very least, you should try and throw one of these on the next time that you’re getting busy – and see if it has the kind of impact that you’re looking for.

Tip No. 2 – Work Out Your PC Muscle The Proper Way

If you’re just not the type of guy that can see themselves sliding on one of those thicker condoms – though safe sex is always recommended – you probably should look into building up your love-making muscles, most specifically your PC muscles.

These are the muscles responsible for ejaculation and releasing semen, and can actually be strengthened to the point where you can control and prolong your orgasm. The very best way to do so is by practicing kegel exercises, which is basically a workout to control the “shut off valve” when going to the bathroom or ejaculating.

FYI: If you want to know how to do these workouts then you should get you hands on and read my article about Penis Enlargement Bible product.

It’s also critical to understand that you need to consistently work out these muscles, or you’re going to lose what control you were able to enjoy and gain very quickly.

However, these are the kind of exercises that you can do discreetly during whole day, giving you a quick boost of confidence – and almost effortless control – with zero headache or hassle whatsoever. If you want to know more about Kegel workouts and how to do them then read my guide here.

Tip No. 3 – Extend The Foreplay

Longer And Better ForeplayBelieve it or not, there is a tremendous amount of women out there who would love nothing more than 15 or 20 minutes of heavy foreplay before getting right down to the intercourse – helping you to “artificially” extend the amount of time that you’re having sex.

While this is not specifically related to boosting your stamina during the actual penetration, the truth of the matter is that it’s not like your girlfriend is measuring your performance with a stopwatch – and prolonging foreplay will make her feel as though you last far longer than you would usually.

BTW: Here is great video guide that will teach you techniques of adult film stars for having great lovemaking endurance. Read more here: Boosting Sex Stamina To One Hour.

This can also work in conjunction with the other tips provided above, and has the secondary benefit of giving her what she was looking for in the first place. Though there are always situations when she’ll be looking for you to just go for it, the reality is that most women surveyed would love nothing more than to extend the time with man right before and after the actual intercourse significantly.

Pills And Numbing Creams – Little Chance To Last Longer In Bed

Lube & Creams To Last LongerThe very best way to treat your premature ejaculation is to use the solutions provided above, or other natural methods or innovations rather than lean on many of the products provided on the marketplace today.

Less-than-ethical marketers (the rough equivalent of modern snake oil salesmen) have been cashing in on men’s desperation to boost their ability to perform longer sexual intercourse for years – scamming junk that will deliver no real results whatsoever.

Here are some reasons why you should stay away from these and save your hard earned money:

  • Not Effective – No, those numbing creams, pills, and tablets are little more than smoke and mirrors, delivering almost no real measurable benefits whatsoever.
  • No Privacy – On top of that you’ll have a pretty embarrassing package coming to your door – and may even have a bit of a knock for conversation with the deliveryman the moment that they bring your premature ejaculation solutions to you.

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No, there’s absolutely no reason to turn to these artificial solutions (that won’t work anyways) before you try the all-natural ones outlined above. Make sure that you understand exactly what want to do, check out at least a handful of methods to last longer during sex mentioned above, and only then go and see whether or not some of the other commercial innovations in the PE world can help you out.

The most important thing here to remember is to never lose your confidence, and always try to deliver your best performance each and every time. I’m sure that she’ll be very, very appreciative – and probably not shy about showing it to you.

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  • Will

    I’ve often heard the tip about extending foreplay, but I didn’t realize that men could do kegel exercises. This is a great idea, and I can easily build the exercises into my day. Thanks for the useful info!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com James Buzinko

      Hi Will!

      Yes, this was new for me as well. I have always heard about “kegels” only with regards to women.

      James

    • On Set With Annette

      Me neither. I guess everyone should get their kegels going. It could be beneficial for both the ladies and the men.

  • BD

    Extended foreplay…See, this is another thing I have been trying to communicate to my boyfriend forever. He thinks that because we’re adults that we are “beyond that stage and there’s no point.” Can someone please tell him that view is wrong and it’s important to have foreplay? I want it badly but he doesn’t seem to believe me…

    • Keri Morris

      I agree!!! Listen guys, women WANT foreplay! Porn that shows women getting off from being rammed in the ass and then rammed in the mouth, and her friend getting rammed… it’s NOT sexy to us! It’s simply to pleasure men. Girls in those types of movies, I GUARANTEE are only thinking about how much they’re getting paid and wishing the guy would hurry up and finish already. We love being licked, sucked and teased. Most of us can get off without any penetration, and in fact penetration feels a lot better once we already came.

  • Stephen

    Numbness creams do it for me – they do not take away any of the sensation but definitely allow me to go for greater time. Condoms seem to have the opposite effect for me but that varies greatly on what type I am using. The ones with the numbing gels have the same effect as the creams, but the extra-thin varieties seem to make me cum even after much shorter amounts of time if anything.

  • Tim O Grady

    I cannot believe that I had not tried any of these tips mentioned in the post. That leads me to believe that many guys out there should be checking out this blog and learning the tricks of the trade.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sadly, you are right Tim. Many guys do not have any idea about even the most basic stuff related to sexual mastery.

  • Mark McKenzie

    The idea here is that everyday is a school day. For example, I too have never realized we could do kegel exercises. Although thank god i don’t suffer from premature ejaculation. Who wouldn’t want to last longer and prolong an orgasm to experience more and longer pleasure?

  • Mark McKenzie

    I remember when i was younger i used to have a “warm up” before meeting a hot female. Luckily those days are behind me now although i do recommend the extended foreplay. Extended foreplay seems to get the female so horny they will get off very quickly afterwards, They will be begging you to enter them believe me.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Great comment Mark. Thank you for stopping by and sharing your own experience with all of us.

  • Patrese

    Tip number 3 should be bolded and underlined, with a gigantic flashing arrow pointing towards it! I know men can get really excited and just want to get on with it- but women really, really, really need foreplay. It helps us to get in the mood, and takes our minds off of other things we might be worrying about (deadlines, stressful day at work, kids driving us crazy, etc.). Not only that- but MANY women cannot come from sex alone (especially sex that doesn’t last long) and foreplay really gives us the head start we sometimes need. So next time, don’t rush through it, or completely skip it altogether!

    • Mitchq

      I agree. Extending foreplay will do wonders for you AND your partner. The women will love it and it will maximize their pleasure.

      • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

        I can only agree to your comments dudes. This is the basis for having better stamina during actual sex.

  • Sriracha Sauce

    Foreplay is important, but try not to switch positions every two seconds. My guy and I would get into a great rhythm, and then we’d have to switch because he wanted to delay his ejaculation. I’d rather make love that packs the punch.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is great point! Dudes, ladies hate when you change these too frequently. They need to get comfortable and enjoy banging for a while!

  • Hottie and the Jerk

    Extending the time you focus your attention on her before actual penetration not only prolongs the experience but also will make your lady happy. Though a quickie is OK on occasion.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, everyone loves quickie from time to time. Especially when both partners achieve orgasm.

  • Mike

    So Crazy but the number 1 tip seems to help so much! Wearing a condom takes it to a whole new level. I look forward to implementing your other techniques so I dont have to worry so much about the condom. :)

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Just be aware of any STDs you may get. I personally would not have sex without condom with somebody I have met recently.

  • http://www.heartheindie.com/ Chris Romans

    This is really good information for people who have trouble controlling their ejaculation. To be honest, in the past I’ve had some issues with the opposite problem: going on for too long. A lot of this was connected to the anti-depressant medication I was taking (a little research on SSRI’s would be beneficial for someone interested in knowing more), and I can tell you this: it sucks. I am starting to think that there is a bell curve that needs to be addressed. Cumming after a couple seconds is not usually all that great, but not achieving an orgasm for a very long time isn’t either. There is a middle ground where you can find a high quality of pleasure, but of course you have to figure that out with your partner. Also worth noting, some girls like it when their guy blows quick, at least some of the time. It tends to non-verbally say, “You are really hot and I really want you, and I can’t contain myself.” Not sure it is ALL that bad.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is huge dilemma and you mailed it: Dudes,what is better for you, blowing your load too soon or not at all?

  • Anon1828

    My friends always say the sensation when wearing a condom isn’t all there, so I rarely have worn one (of course with a clean partner). I’m not a pre-ejaculate kind of guy, but I have finished many times before my girlfriend has and I might give these a shot to make myself last as long if not, even more than her.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Just give it a try. Some say they have problems to maintain erection, some say they are able get going for hours. So results are really individual. Just share with us your personal experience.

  • Jim Baby

    Jim Baby here, long time nickname if anyone is wondering. I’ve always had problems performing in bed, I might try the kegel exercising techniques. I’ve dated a few girls and I’ve never gotten any of them off. I was able to do so by giving oral, but that’s another story.

    Thanks for the informative post and I will certainly look more into it.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      You are welcome Jim. I hope you are now a master of kegels and of your own ejaculation!

  • Annie89

    To all the guys out there, foreplay is doing wonders on a woman. I know it works great for me and I would highly recommend you boys do it more often. Also oral helps. Try the other ideas posted here as well, may even make you a pro at it. ;)

  • Just A Dude

    Kegel workouts sound promising. I used to move my dick around as much as I could back in the day, but I neglected that and I think it’s time to give it another shot. I never tried the wet sock trick and doing kegels that way.

    I’ve used thicker condoms before though and as much as I hate them, they do help keep me going longer. But for me I think it’s more of an anxiety thing. I’ve been with a few women who’re way out of my league and sometimes it’s hard to perform.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Maybe some boost of self confidence may help you with your anxiety issues.

  • Heather D.

    To all the guys who can’t keep up. Listen to this article word for word because I agree with it all. I’ve met a few men who couldn’t last. My current boyfriend couldn’t last in bed either, but I told him to check this article out. He wasn’t too pleased, but he looked. Our sex hasn’t been better.

    It’s not as hard as you think to be able to keep a woman pleased, it just takes some work.

  • Jeremy

    I hadn’t ever heard of those condoms, I think i may have to give them a try. Would love to be able to go non stop for hours but sadly havent reached that stage yet although im working hard on it.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Hey Jeremy, do not lose hope and keep up trying. I bet you will soon get to the point where it would be possible for you to last as long as you wish to.

  • Urwin

    I thought about trying the creams but thought it may kill the moment if i pull out a tube of premature ejaculation cream – cant wait to try these fantastic sex tips.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That would be a real mood killer I think :D

  • Kyle

    I agree confidence is also vital. For example, the problem i have is if i get a really hot girl i cant seem to go on without climaxing before she does as she turns me on so much :(

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Dude, try some mind relaxation breathing technique such as 10-2-10. I bet it will help you a lot with your anxiety.

  • Daniel

    There’s so many scams out there these days promising wonder cures by swallowing a tablet or creams but non of them seem to work, thanks for this! my partner will be happy :) or worn out – either or both who knows hehe

  • Howard

    Looking forward to strengthening my PC muscle. Does this mean i can tell people i work out everyday? :D

  • Geoff Leopard

    With these fantastic tips i will be an expert lover, bit of a late starter (19) but i’m more than making up for it now.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Good luck dude. World of sex is amazing, unlimited yet dangerous. So always protect yourself.

  • Marc Vexar

    I cant believe the “shut off valve” helps that much… Is it possible to have heightened orgasms by delaying climax for a while?

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Definitely dude. The longer you build up pleasure, the more intensive your orgasm should be.

  • John Hepplewhite

    Tip No. 3 is definitely something i use but I’m interested in trying these other techniques too :)

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      It would be great if you could share with rest of us what were you experience with other techniques as well. By the way, thank you for visiting my website. I appreciate it a lot!

  • Coby

    Its great to see working out the pc muscle works, i have heard all sorts of different techniques in the past for enlarging the penis but never to last longer.

  • Doddsy

    Have you had much experience with the stamina condoms? Don’t they kill too much of the pleasure and make it difficult to stay hard?

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, I use these from time to time. However they do cut a lot of pleasure for me. Therefore I have taken a more complex approach to getting my ejaculation under control. But if you are looking for a quick fix and do not have a enough time to master you stamina, then those condoms are good solution.

  • Danny-O

    Whenever I was with a new girl I used to have problems with stamina. It would be over in 5 minutes, which wasn’t always the best way to get something going. And then I discovered the magic of foreplay. We kiss. I do a back massage AND a hand massage. More kissing on the neck.

    I get them so worked up that by the time I’m ready for sex, they’re literally ready to explode. I tried it on a girl last week and by the time I undid her bra, I could feel her heart pumping hard. She was beyond ready.

    Just be careful though. Since I started the heavy foreplay routine I’ve noticed that more girls have been kicking out the “I love you’s.” Most guys aren’t into a lot of foreplay, so it’s an easy way to get a girl hooked.

  • Tash

    I would highly suggest, as a female, tips one and three. I know most men just like to get down to it, and a lot enjoy sex without condoms, but to be honest, condoms are essential for safety and those who have PE, or think that they do, really need to be safe about it.

    As for foreplay, this is also an essential part of the sexual experience for a woman. If the mood is not right, or the guy tries to get busy without warming his female up prior, then the whole act just isn’t much of one for the female. It’s imperative to know that most ladies love “warming up”, some longer than others, but it’s still required because it releases our stresses and allows us to focus on the intimate space around us.

  • Kyle

    Dude, not that I don’t get pleasure but not lasting very long gets me in trouble with the ladies, soon they probably wont want to have sex. Maybe some of this advice will get me back in action! Didn’t know those creams and stuff dont really work, well I knew they didnt work for me but not for most. Wont waist my money on that anymore! Lots of good info here going to get on it asap. Gonna have to add that foreplay in too and if I dont last as long, maybe they wont either!

  • chris

    I have never heard of kegel workouts. I look forward to learning more. I was one of those guys who’s tried every pill and cream. Never helped!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, these creams and pills often do not work. But all of these have often bad chemical stuff in them.

  • David Pieropan

    Once I began to use extended foreplay, it completely changed the way I think about sex. It used to be I wanted to get off, so I would give my girlfriend a kiss or two and basically pull down my pants. While this would work for me every once in a while, it never worked well for her and normally left me dissatisfied more often than not.

    I talked to a mutual friend about how I might be able to improve our intimacy issues and she suggested that foreplay should take even longer than the sex generally speaking. This blew my mind since I had been conditioned to use foreplay as a quick “I want some loving” signal then move onto business. If you haven’t given foreplay a real chance, I highly recommend giving it a shot on your partner during your next encounter.

  • Rachel

    I think going for longer is good, but too long is exhausting for us ladies. We’re not machines. Sometimes rest is needed. You know?

  • harry

    I go for a good 10 minutes. I don’t hear any complaints. I bet if I slowed down, I’d go a million times longer.

  • Duchess M

    My bf only holds off cumming for 5 minutes. We’ve been looking at your site and he’s a good few minutes longer easy… so every second counts. Thank you for prolonging our sexual encounters.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      You are welcome Duchess M. I hope by now he is able to last at least half an hour.

  • Oleg

    Stamina is the key to a successful relationship. Once you have that. Everything else is GRAVY.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I totally agree with you. Once you are able to last as long as your woman needs to achieve orgasm, tension in your relationship is often minimized.

  • Chris

    These are definitely some superb tips on lasting longer in bed. The funny thing for me is I am one of those guys who has a tendency to last too long. It’s kind of annoying to then go slap a condom on when I’m with a new partner or a hook up, only to find my sensations really dulled and lasting indefinitely. Sometimes, I don’t even get off at all, and my dick goes limp after working it for an hour or more. And while no one wants to be a “minuteman,” no one wants to last forever either, because even your girl will get bored. Finding the balance between lasting and not lasting is ideal, but knowing how to gain few additional minutes with some simple tips and tricks will be most beneficial to those guys who can hardly last at all!

  • Greg

    Sometimes it’s good not to last for a long time, like when you just want a quickie, or maybe want to show your girlfriend how exciting she is when she is able to make you explode in a few minutes. But, if this is the norm and not the exception to the rule, it can get a little old and decrease the female’s pleasure. It feels better to last longer in bed. I never really considered extending foreplay, but I suppose that is a good starting point for someone like myself who can go for like 10 minutes tops!

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  • Andy

    I’ve focused on foreplay more than anything, it truly works if you get your gal going before you do. I’ve tried other options, but foreplay is probably the best. Or you could perform oral on your girlfriend or lover.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Oral works wonders on chicks. And if you steam her up really hard with your tongue, then you should be able to give her orgasm during few minutes from penetration!

  • Joel

    I really don’t like wearing condoms that much, takes much of the sensation away, and I understand that it’ll make me last longer. I guess the obvious choice then is foreplay, which works pretty decently for me, I can at least last long enough, so that’s helpful.

  • Carson18

    If you want to last, your best bet is to do more foreplay, do some oral, wear a condom and that usually will do it. Of course some of those methods aren’t ideal for some, it works fantastically well for me. I prefer to perform oral more than anything, using a condom isn’t my preferred method, but it can be beneficial.

    I suppose I could also work out my muscle down there, maybe do some kegel exercises to increase size and extend sexual pleasure.

  • Uso

    I could totally start doing any of these. Not really sure about working my penis out, but I’ll look into it more. I have worn condoms a lot, but like someone else said it decreases the pleasure and I want full on pleasure. I would never use the numbing creams out there, just sounds like it could damage your penis and I’m not interested in that happening ever.

  • Mike C.

    My favorite option in the list is condoms. Yes they take away feeling, which is helpful in keeping up, but I found it keeps me going to a long time. I still do foreplay with my girlfriend just to make sure I last as long as possible.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I bet this combination is making your girl really happy right? :)

  • JacobP.

    I seriously need all the help I can get. I have never lasted in bed with a woman, and I’ve been with some sexy women. Sad truth is, once I’m around a woman and we get going, I get scared and anxious and I pretty much finish within a minute or so. I will use any methods listed here. Thanks a ton.

  • Mark T. Newman

    Pleasure your lady before you get the pleasure. That’s how I see it and foreplay comes into that big time. I like to perform oral on my girlfriend for some time, depends on whenever she is getting off or not. Once that’s done, I start to make out with her and we let it go its course. Doing this you can ensure she finishes before or even with you.

  • Just Looking

    Using condoms takes away from the sex for me, but if it’s an insanely hot woman I will gladly wear a condom to keep up with her as well as incorporate foreplay and cunnilingus into the whole mix. I would also like to say to not ever use numbing creams, as they don’t do much of anything. Or so I’ve heard.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, they make your phallus numb and that often takes away too much of a pleasure and hence maintaining your erection harder.

  • Jim

    Foreplay boys, it’s how you do it. I remember the days where I would go in and just go for the goal, but I was never able to pleasure a woman this way. Extended foreplay as well as using oral and fingering methods really helps to make a woman get into it. I am no pro, but I can hold my own. ;)

  • Tret Seflu

    I like to add all of this into the picture, using a condom, working my PC muscle out as well as using more foreplay. It truly comes in handy and it works to keep women happy. If you finish first, make sure to get her to finish as well.

  • Nick

    Your list is very informative, but what I found worked for me was to jerk off every morning. Sounds stupid, but actually jerkin off a few hours before sex made me last longer (and the missus happier).

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Well, to be honest this can be doing more harm than good. If you masturbate for a longer time and not trying to cum asap then everything is OK. However if you do try to jerk off in haste, you can even shorten the time you will last.

  • Duncan

    I think creams and the such should be used as a very last resort. Imagine the embarrassment of having to rub those on your dick before going at it! Plus it just seems unhygienic to me.

  • Luke

    Extending the foreplay really works because she cums faster after penetration, and that way you can cum sooner without feeling like shit for leaving her hanging! Also jerking off before can make you last for hours :D

  • Alice

    I’ve found tip number 2 to be heavily explained in Karezza, Tantric, and Taoist techniques, so I suggest you guys really check those out. They have lots of info on lasting longer (for spiritual/energetical reasons) which you can apply for whatever reasons you need.

  • northstrom

    I had these issues when I was younger, but they seemed to fix themselves as I got older and more experienced. And also getting into a steady relationship and not going months on end without fucking really improved my performance time haha

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is the most usual solution for all issues of not being able to last long during sex :D

  • Greg Kaminski

    James – I’d like to challenge your comments that pills and numbing creams don’t work. First the pills. The only pills that have been clinically proven to work are anti-depressant SSRIs, like Priligy. The others are, as you say, snake oil. But most guys don’t want the side effects of an anti-depressant.

    Regarding numbing creams, they work. Let’s face it – if you numb your penis enough it will take you longer to reach orgasms. Again, it’s side effects that stop guys from using them. Who wants to have sex that not pleasurable?

    There are two new topical medications that provide ejaculation control with minimal loss of penile sensitivity. PSD502 and Promescent. They use absorption technology to get the analgesic to the nerves below the skin’s surface. CNBC says Promescent will be the next Viagra.

    Greg Kaminski
    Absorption Pharmaceuticals

  • Rex Hudnall

    I never knew that there were stamina condoms. I usually just pick up whatever happens to be the first choice on the machine, but I might look out for these now as an alternative.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure there are these, but some guys reports having problems maintaining an erection as the numbing cream inside these will take out much of the sensations.

  • Clarence Harden

    I have personally had little help from the numerous creams that are on the market, and honestly I would not recommend them to anyone. In my opinion, they are not only a waste of valuable “bed-time”, but also they are a complete waste of money.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I can agree with you on this one. The are not that great in comparison to other techniques out there.

  • Wade Henson

    I used to be far too eager to get straight into the intercourse, when in fact I found that this was one of the main reasons why I seemed to only last a mere 10 minutes in bed. Now, I can spend up to 2 hours in bed, and please my spouse more at the same time.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      How did you manage to go from 10 min. to 2 hours? Have you any specific strategy you would love to share with us?

  • Frank Wright

    Tip 2 is one that I am particularly interested in. I have heard that with enough practice, you can forget the condom altogether and simply use these muscles to release whenever they like! Imagine how much longer you could last in bed with this ability!

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true. And once you master these, there are endless possibilities.

  • Nathaniel Bell

    There seems to be a common trend for artificial solutions to have less of an impact that natural ones. I find this peculiar, but at the same time it does make sense, as it works with how your penile is supposed to work.

  • stanBeasly

    I wish I could last long these days, but my age has taken over on me. I am learning to teach myself to last longer and so far I noticed I have lasted longer the last few times I have had sex. But I need to do more things to make me last even longer, so I will take your advice and give some of these methods/techniques a shot. Thanks so much for sharing.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      You are welcome Stan for these methods. I hope these will be helpful.

  • Ryan U.

    I do foreplay, but I also wear thicker condoms. I know that many hate this, but for me I last so much longer. I still don’t last as long as I’d wish though so I’ve considered trying some other options out there. Thanks for all this great and useful info. I will try some of these next time.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      You are welcome Ryan. I hope it will help you to delay your ejaculation for as long as you wish!

  • Tyler Savage

    I extend the foreplay most of the time, I even go down on my girlfriend more often to help make her orgasm near my completion. I am very happy with the results of just doing a lot of foreplay, it works so well.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is really great to know dude! Do you have anything else you could share with us?

  • Nick Rodney

    Foreplay is great and all, but not all men can do good foreplay to keep women interested, so I wear a condom most of the time. It keeps me in action for quite a while, and once I feel my girl is close to finish, I take it off and finish with her. ;)

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      Sure, therefore I have decided to write a good article about foreplay. I hope it will help a lot of guys to become experts in this!

  • E. Simm

    Condoms work, but I will say that foreplay is so much more fun. I like to get women off a little before I get going, but condoms come in handy just in case I am in that over-acted mood where I finish a little sooner than I want.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is exactly a type of behavior I promote here. Thanks for your approval of it!

  • JJ

    Condoms kill pleasure, but that’s great for me because I love to last long with women. For me, I get the best pleasure when I see a woman pleasured. I think all men should.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      I have the same mindset and approach to the sex & pleasure. I feel the highest pleasure when she is clawing my back and screaming!

  • Ian A.

    Wearing condoms is not my sort of thing. I know it increases safety and all, but I prefer the actual feel rather than not feeling at all. I just like the sensation I get, it’s much more appealing.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      That is true. If you have no problem lasting as long as you want then it is completely up to you if you are going to take the risk of having sex without protection.

  • Liam

    I have always hated the idea of pills and such. I know men who have tried using pills to get over not lasting long enough or ED, but it never was enough. I myself don’t last long, so a condom comes in handy as well as extending them foreplays. I also give my girlfriend oral and just make sure she’s pleasured enough.

    • http://thestallionstyle.com/ James Buzinko

      If you have problems to last long enough, then tease her properly with your mouth then go for intercourse and when you finish before she does give her oral sex until she climaxes pretty hard.