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You would be pretty hard-pressed to find anybody in the world who would not love a little oral sex every once in a while. That is why many guys and girls want to try the traditional 69 position.
Trust me that it can be a lot of fun in the beginning! However, after a while you’re just kind of pounding away and things have a way of becoming routine.
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#1. MAINTAIN PROPER HYGIENE
Good hygiene should be a rule for pretty much any sexual activity. There will be times when you just want each other regardless of how sweaty, dirty, or messy both of you are.
However, our first rule is the most essential when it comes to 69.
If you maintain everything clean on a regular basis, then you should be safe when a surprising oral sex happens. Do not get me wrong. You do not have to be obsessive about it.
Just keep everything clean and nicely smelling. Otherwise, you are not going to have 69 or any type of sex more than three times a year. I like to call it A-B-C (anniversary-birthday-Christmas) frequency.
#2. GIVE MORE THAN YOU RECEIVE
Sex is always a “game of power” where one person usually gives while the other person takes. These roles should switch between partners to maintain balance. However, we guys always have a tendency to kind of sit back and enjoy the show.
The fact is that if you will do this during 69 she will not be very satisfied!
So buckle up fellas, and learn from someone that has actually had a lady tell him that they better start to get some action or they’d begin using their teeth. By this I mean as long as you feel she is blowing you, you should be eating her out.
You can teasingly pause for few seconds but do not be lazy. The more you receive, the more effort you should put into making her climax pretty hard.
#3. SET THE RULES OF CONTROL
From my personal experience, I can tell you that almost each and every 69 action starts with the guy laying on his back and a lady on top of him. This can obviously change in the heat of passion.
Some people (especially those who share similar body types) have no trouble whatsoever “flipping the script” and taking the opposite approach. In general, the person who is on the top usually dominates and dictates the pace and intensity of the 69.
My advice; to make 69 even better the person who is usually dominant should be laying on his/her back while the usually submissive partner should go on the top to lead. This change of roles may bring a little bit of excitement into the action.
#4. USE PILLOW AS SUPPORT
Everyone who has already tried the 69 position will know how easy it is to strain your neck, especially when you are the one on the bottom. This can make the whole experience quite negative.
That is why you should have a pillow at hand.
Just make sure that you place one underneath your or her head (who is on the bottom). Thanks to this your neck will be supported and you will be able to really get into the action.
#5. USE BOTH YOUR HANDS FOR EXTRA STIMULATION
One of the biggest problems that people face when it comes to 69 (especially those who do not have a lot of experience with oral sex) is that they always forget they have hands. They just try to do all the work with their mouths.
Again, do not get me wrong, such effort is always appreciated. However, using your hands and fingers to mix things up can really change the experience in an instant.
You can do several things:
- You can wander around her body and caress it
- You can play with and stimulate her erogenous zones
- You can start fingering her
- Or you can even try to play with her anus if she is into this type of “game”
Just always keep in mind that unless you are paralyzed or experimenting with bondage, you should use your hands to increase his or her experience.
#6. KEEP SPACE & GO ON ALL FOURS
When you experiment with the 69 in the beginnings of your sex life, you both usually end up lying right on top of one another. While it may seem comfortable from the beginning, after some time there will be a huge build-up of body heat.
This may lead to excessive sweating that may not be pleasant at all. What is more, if the top partner will completely lay on the bottom one, the one under will need to go into uncomfortable angles that will lead to a sore neck in no time.
Luckily, all this can be avoided if the partner on the top will remain on all fours. This will allow for a less heat transfer as well as better access to partners genitalia.
Just keep in mind that these are tips that work for me the best. You may have other preferences so do not be afraid to experiment.
#7. TAKE YOUR TIME & BE FOCUSED
When you are pleasing each other in a 69 position, try to not hurry and enjoy this moment. The only thing worse than never getting any oral sex is having somebody “go through the motions” just to get a job done so you can start hammering away at one another.
Believe me when I say that this behavior is going to go noticed and it will ruin the mood – if it doesn’t derail the whole 69 entirely.
If you want this position to be a frequent part of your sex life, stay present, focused and give it always your best shot. Just enjoy each and every aspect of it and take your time.
#8. TRY IT ON YOUR SIDE
Though there aren’t too many “variations” of the good old-fashioned 69, it is pretty much “what you see is what you get” deal. However, lying on your side can mix things up just enough that it can get a little bit more interesting.
Obviously, you will lose the use of one of your hands.
However, you can trust me that even with just one hand available it can be a lot of fun. I like it a lot because it is much more comfortable for both of you and anyone of you can take the leading role.
Again, it is up to you what do you prefer. Therefore, you need to experiment a lot.
#9. LET YOUR TONGUE WANDER AROUND
If you are really hitting a groove (and your partner is responding well), then obviously you do not want to change things up to get them off track, especially if they’re about to achieve orgasm!
However, do not be afraid of wandering around from his or her genitals to other areas of the body while kissing and licking them lightly. Just keep in mind that your reach may be very limited.
It’s easy, it’s awesome, it’s fun. Simple as that, folks, simple as that!
#10. CHANGE YOUR PACE OFTEN
Remember that you are not dealing with a lollipop or Popsicle. It is obvious that if you do only one oral sex technique or move the whole 69 session, it will not be a great experience.
Therefore, you should mix it all up:
- Change the pace at which you give your head
- Alternate the pressure of your mouth
- Experiment with a suction that you are applying
- Mix various moves into your techniques
You should always try to mix things up so that you are creating a unique experience each and every time you go down on him or her. This way the 69 position will be always a great experience your partner will be looking for.
#11. YOU BOTH NEED TO BE COOL WITH THIS POSITION
Sadly, there are many people out there that just don’t like giving oral. They just may think it is unhygienic or they may have bad previous experiences. However, they’re not too terribly shy about getting it as much as they can.
Therefore, if you want to have great 69 you need to communicate.
Just have an open discussion with your partner and make sure that you are both on the same page sexually, or one of you is going to have an absolutely terrible time.
Trust me, if one of you has a terrible time, it means that it will be the last time you tried the 69 position. That is why you need to communicate your sexual fantasies and preferences with your partner.
#12. JUST HAVE FUN TIME
There is nothing worse than when you are not enjoying yourself during sex. Focusing only on the tips and tricks above to picture-perfect 69 is really going to prevent you from living in the moment.
Actually, most women complain that men are not expressing that they are enjoying themselves during sex. Luckily, this can be easily fixed.
Just have fun with it and express that naturally.
You can moan, use soft dirty talk and pay attention to her whole body to show her you are having fun. After all, we are talking about sex here! If you’re not enjoying yourself, then what’s the point?
This position can be a thrilling wild ride, or it can also become a nightmare if you do not follow basic rules. Then again, sex is like a pizza. Great pizza is awesome, but even bad one is still pretty damn good!
Keep these tips in your mind the next time you are going down on her. I bet that if you will follow these to the point she will experience the best 69 sex of her life.