12 Tips to Make 69 Position an Awesome Experience


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You would be pretty hard-pressed to find anybody in the world that didn’t love a little oral sex every once in a while. The traditional 69 can be a lot of fun in the beginning!

However after a while you’re just kind of pounding away and things have a way of becoming routine. Luckily, using our tips and tricks we share with you below, you’ll never have to worry about anyone accusing you of being a bit “old hat” dude.

So let’s get down to business!

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Tip #12 – Maintain Proper Hygiene

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This should be a rule for pretty much any sexual activity!

There will be times when you just want each other regardless of how sweaty, dirty, or messy both of you are. However, our first rule is the most essential when it comes to 69!

Extra advice: If you want to have oral intercourse more than twice a year, you have to keep yourself clean!

Tip #11 – Always Give More Than You Receive!

We guys always have a tendency to kind of sit back and enjoy the show! The fact is that if you will do this she will not be very satisfied by this position!

So buckle up fellas, and learn from someone that has actually had a lady tell him that they better start to get some action or they’d begin using their teeth.

By giving more I mean using techniques from our highly popular guides here:

Tip #10 – Set The Rules of Control

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Though almost all 69 action starts with the guy on their back and the lady on top of them, some people (that share similar body types) have no trouble whatsoever “flipping the script” and taking the opposite approach.

If it’s comfortable for both of you, the person that wants to dictate the pace and pressure of the 69 oral sex should always be on top – and then you should follow his or her lead.

Tip #9 – Use Pillow as Support!

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The last thing that you want to do during 69 is stress and strain your neck. Therefore, make sure that you have a pillow right underneath your head if you’re on the bottom.

Thanks to this your neck will be supported and you will be able to really get into the action! What is more, you can use it not only for cunnilingus but even when trying to hit her g-spot during typical intercourse in a missionary position.

Tip #8 – Use Both Your Hands for Extra Stimulation

One of the biggest problems that people face when it comes to 69 (especially those who do not have a lot of experience with oral sex) is that they always forget they have hands.

They just try to do all the work with their mouths!

While this effort is always appreciated, using your fingers to mix things up can really start to change the experience in an instant! You can wander around her body, stimulate her erogenous zones, or you can even try to stimulate her anus if she is into this type of “game”.

Tip #7 – Keep Space & Go on All Fours!sexy female panties

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Usually, people end up right on top of one another during their first 69s. However, you do not have to do so to make this position actually work!

In fact, you might even find it more comfortable to have the person on top remain on all fours, allowing for more space and less heat transfer at the same time! So experiment with each position to discover what you like better!

Tip #6 – Take Your Time & Be Focused

The only thing worse than never getting any oral sex is having somebody “go through the motions”, just trying to get a job done so you can start hammering away at one another.

Believe me when I say that this behavior is going to go noticed and it will ruin the mood – if it doesn’t derail the whole 69 entirely!

Keep in mind: If you want to be this position a frequent part of your sex life, stay present, focused and give it always your best shot!

Tip #5 – Try It on Your Side

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Though there aren’t too many “variations” of the good old-fashioned 69, it is pretty much “what you see is what you get” deal. However, lying on your side can mix things up just enough that it can get a little bit more interesting.

Obviously, you will lose the use of one of your hands – but trust me that it can still be a lot of fun!

Tip #4 – Let Your Tongue Wander Around

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If you are really hitting a groove (and your partner is responding well), then obviously you do not want to change things up to get them off track, especially if they’re about to achieve orgasm!

However, you should not be afraid of wandering around from his or her genitals to other areas of the body while kissing and licking them lightly.

It’s easy, it’s awesome, it’s fun. Simple as that folks, simple as that!

Tip #3 – Change Your Pace Often

Remember that you are not dealing with a lollipop or Popsicle. Therefore, you should mix it all up, especially, the:

  • Pace at which you give oral sex!
  • Pressure and suction that you are applying!
  • Cadence that you’re working with!

My advice: Try to mix things up so that you are creating a unique experience each and every time!

Tip #2 – Your Partner Needs to Be Cool with This Position

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There are some people out there that just don’t like giving oral. However, they’re not too terribly shy about getting it as much as they can.

You’re going to need to communicate with your partner and make sure that you are both on the same page sexually, or one of you is going to have an absolutely terrible time – which means that in the end, both of you are going to have bad experience from this position!

Tip #1 – Just Have Fun with It

Focusing only on the tips and tricks above to picture-perfect 69 is really going to prevent you from living in the moment!

Just have fun with it. After all, we are talking about sex here! If you’re not enjoying yourself, then what’s the point?

This position can be an amazing wild ride, or it can also become a nightmare if you do not follow basic rules!

Remember: Then again, sex is like a pizza. Great pizza is awesome, but even bad one is still pretty damn good!

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  1. When me and my girl do a 69 session, it’s easier for me to be on the bottom. My cock isn’t huge, but it’s a decent size. If I’m on top she says she has less control over my movement, so she gags more. I’m not out to choke her, I just want both of us to cum, lol.

    With her being on top she can lower herself exactly where she wants to be and move where she wants to move. Because she has more leverage on top, she can take more of me into her mouth. I also like the fact that I can grab her ass better this way, which really sends here into overdrive!

  2. Initially my girlfriend and I rarely did 69 because she’d get all into it and forget about delivering on her end of the deal. Now when we do it, we take turns. For example, she’ll go down on me heavy for a couple of minutes, and I’ll kick back and relax. Then I’ll do her for a few minutes and she’ll enjoy her time. Towards the end when we’re both worked up, we’ll do each other at the same time. That’s when we started having orgasms together, which has really heightened the experience.

  3. I know this one isn’t all that common, and it can be a back breaker for some guys, but I love to stand and do a 69. I actually hold her upside down while I eat her. As you can probably imagine, she can only do for a short period of time because all the blood rushes to her head. But it works for us because we like it a little rough. Holding her this way gives me more control, plus it give me access to everything I want. Definitely something to try if you have the strength. She LOVES it!

  4. There’s nothing better than when my wife holds my arms down with her legs while she’s going down on me in the 69 position. She already has a lot of control being on top. But when I’m getting ready to bust, she knows it drives me crazy not to be able to move my arms.

    On the other hand, I always get her going strong by holding her steady right over my face. I don’t let her go anywhere! It always ends explosively for both of us. I think I would do 69 everyday if I could.

  5. This is an excellent position for foreplay. I prefer to do very gentle licks instead of diving right in. And I don’t really use my hands. If you’re real easy going with it, the feeling to cum just creeps up on her. It’s both relaxing and stimulating at the same time.

    I also think the appeal lies in not being able to see what the other person is doing. So every new move comes as a surprise feeling. That’s why I think Tip #10 works so well.

  6. The pillow is a really good idea especially if you take a lot longer than most at a 69. Being able to rest your head allows you to focus more on her than your sore neck!

  7. I have had many occasions where my skills were better than his and he will tend to drift off and enjoy what he is getting.

  8. Happy New Year! I am thinking that a 69 would be the best way to ring in the new year! Thanks for sharing these tips, I will have to use some of them.

  9. The person on the bottom should always be using their hands as they don’t have to hold themselves up with them. I prefer the bottom, it’s a better view!

  10. There really are people out there who don’t like oral sex? What is wrong with them? ! It’s the best thing ever!

  11. ditto on the control thing when on top! i usually go on top because my bf’s balls end up suffocating me otherwise, and i have to say i love being in control haha XD he doesnt seem to mind tho. so, if you all have any issues with your man’s package, change positions!

  12. Ugh, people should always shower when their partner is going to orally handle their genitals, I thought that was a given!!! Good for you for including it in your list, but still, it amazes me some people need to be told that, wtf.

  13. I love 69 because we both get to enjoy ourselves and eat out teehee. Double the fun in a single timespan! Everybody should try it 🙂

  14. I love it when my wife’s on top. At one point, she just holds my legs down and goes right at it while I give her what she wants on the other side. It’s so frantic it’s amazing.

  15. 69 is the best position ever, after blowjobs of course! Love it that I am able to get and give pleasure at the same time, and me and my SO got so used to it that we rarely lose focus anymore even if we are close to cumming!!!

  16. I love this position. It’s awesome. By the way: I don’t see what the problem is with NOT taking a shower first… I mean
    it’s one thing not to take a shower for, say, three days or so… It
    sure becomes gross after a while. But frankly, I do like the smell and
    taste of my girl’s honey pot. It even turns me on to smell HER. The smell / taste of shower gel or plain nothing is rather a turn off but at least no turn on for me. Do you guys really hate that smell and taste so much? Shouldn’t guys love their woman’s scent? Please, anyone… Could you explain to me why it’s so bad in your opinion? I’d like to learn your POV / about your experiences.